I don't know what to do, but I always have a deep affection; Hate doesn't know what to do, and laughs it off.
There is no better intimacy in the world than long-term love.
The two have been together for a long time and naturally become intimate.
Everything is so natural, when the emotions gradually rise, everything is silent.
Who does not desire for eternity, who does not desire to be in love with each passing day.
In fact, at different stages of life, there are some intimate relationships that can lead to the twilight.
Once you miss it, you will understand what it means to have it.
01 Friends who play from childhood to adulthood
There are two kinds of so-called confidants, one is to meet halfway and make up for it at a glance.
The other is a childhood sweetheart, who grew up together since childhood.
Zhang Wuji and Zhou Zhiruo in the Legend of Heavenly Dragon Slayer are like this, he and her have a similar growth experience, as if they are connected to fate, more like a natural pair, but unfortunately they parted ways when they grew up, and eventually turned against each other.
Childhood is the easiest stage to establish relationships, and as you grow, you will have many memories.
When you grow up and your mind matures, you find that you are in love with each other, and friendship is sublimated into love.
But maybe it's because the two people are too familiar, and they are full of longing for the outside world, eager to meet more people and different faces.
The outside world is wonderful and dazzling, and some people's hearts have changed, and they no longer cherish the "innate" possession they once had.
Therefore, some hair gradually drifted away, until they suffered some setbacks and pains in love, only to find that the best remained in the memories.
02
You at the same table
The school era is a memory that will never be forgotten, it represents youth, it represents Fanghua, and it represents the purest love and friendship.
As classmates, I get along with each other every day and night, and I am also full of laughter in the intense academic work.
Have you ever had a crush on a classmate? Every time I met him/her, I blushed my cheeks, unconsciously lowered my head, and was incoherent when I spoke.
Many people's first love was when they were students, the first time they plucked up the courage to confess, the first time they held hands ...
Therefore, Xu Zhimo can write that beautiful poem - the golden willow on the bank of the river is the bride in the sunset; The vivid shadows in the light rippled in my heart.
A few years passed, but left an eternal memory, on the day of graduation, the two people were reluctant, and finally turned away...
No one knows that this parting is a farewell forever.
No one knows that this road of life is not easy.
After entering society, I find it difficult to find that feeling anymore, because people's hearts have changed.
When we get together again after many years, you who were at the same table back then are already someone else's partner...
03
Colleagues who get along day and night
After entering the workplace, friends around me have become colleagues, and it is not easy for society to make some true confidants in the workplace today, unless they are in love for a long time.
In the adult world, everyone is looking for some people with similar views, looking for them, but still moving forward alone.
It is fortunate to have a colleague who is close to each other, two like-minded people who share the same ideals in life and the same interests. With these premises, it is only a matter of time before you go from a colleague to an intimate relationship.
Some colleagues get along very well, but after a few days of getting along, the other party leaves.
The more people left, the more they sighed, and they were no longer surprised.
Most of them are a passerby, including themselves.
Some colleagues have been together for several years, from strange to familiar, from familiar to familiar, from familiar to dependent, from dependent to reluctant, which is a slow process, but also establishes a deep friendship.
Some of the love is also sublimated little by little, sublimated into love, and finally entered the palace of marriage together and became a lifelong couple!