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What is "sex addiction"? Many people may feel strange the first time they hear this word, "sex addiction? "Is it an individual who is addicted to sex?
Sex addiction is a compulsive participation or participation in sexual activity despite negative effects. "Sex addiction" patients often get some "negative feedback" physically after having sex! "So they still have some impulses in that regard."
In the view of researchers, sex addiction is an obsessive-compulsive disorder caused by indulgence disorder. It's very different from addiction to cigarettes or other things.
Take tobacco addiction, for example. Because smoke contains nicotine will stimulate the nerves of paralyzed people, if you smoke for a long time, the human body will become dependent on nicotine, if you do not smoke, you will feel uncomfortable, the whole person yawns repeatedly, appears listless, and can not lift the spirit of anything.
This situation is an addiction in which the human body has undergone some kind of stimulus and wants to enter or experience that state again.
Let's go back to look at the situation of sex addicts, the reason why human beings reproduce endlessly depends on husband and wife life, moderate husband and wife life can not only enhance the relationship between two people, but also benefit physical and mental health.
Studies have found that moderate couple's life can bring several benefits:
First, in the process of intercourse, it is necessary to digest physical strength, so it can consume human fat and achieve the effect of slimming;
Second, moderate conjugal life can reduce the risk of heart disease in men;
Third, after the end of husband and wife life, the body and mind are relaxed and the quality of sleep is improved;
Fourth, some women have irregular menstruation, and regular "snapping" can help women regulate endocrine and make menstruation regular;
Fifth, husband and wife life can relieve inner pressure and temporarily forget troubles.
As the saying goes, things must be reversed, everything must have a degree, otherwise the water will overflow, and excessive will cause problems.
So what is the normal situation, generally speaking, this aspect of the desire will only appear when two people are at home, about 2-3 times a week, but if it is regardless of the occasion, there will be physiological impulses, then this belongs to the "sex addiction" and needs to be adjusted in time, so what will be the manifestations of this addiction?
Physiological needs are particularly strong, not only to be released at home, but also in other public places have physiological impulses, although I know that this is not normal, but I just can't control it, thinking about the situation in my mind.
Before a "sex addiction" patient told his heart journey on the Internet, he is 32 years old this year, married for 5 years, husband and wife life is also very harmonious, but he himself said that it seems to be not normal, and he has to have sex with his daughter-in-law once a day, but his physiological needs will not be met.
Even in daily work, thinking about this kind of thing will lead to lack of concentration.
In order to solve his physiological needs, he himself is also very painful, in this process did not get a sense of pleasure, but there was an uncomfortable situation, but he just couldn't control it, fortunately, through professional treatment, he successfully treated "sex addiction".
In fact, there are many "sex addiction" patients like this, but because of "shame", they are embarrassed to say it or go to the hospital for treatment, but the existing research on such patients has found that the cause of the disease has traces, and there is a great relationship with the growth atmosphere, endocrine disorders and unbalanced psychological development.
People often say that three years old to see big, seven years old to see old, in childhood is an important period to establish world view, outlook on life, values, if this time is not grasped, it is easy to have problems, this time need family and friends to help it establish the correct three views, bravely express their own cognition of "snapping", can not hold in the heart, resulting in psychological distortion, and eventually become a "sex addiction" patient.
Second, the body's endocrine system plays a pivotal role, it is responsible for coordinating the life of various tissues and organs, if once there is a certain hormone disorder, it will inevitably cause the occurrence of human diseases, just like male hormones or thyroid hormone secretion excess, will make the human brain in a state of excitement, thereby enhancing the desire for physiological needs.
In the early stage of "sex addiction" is that the physiological demand is particularly strong, at this time must pay special attention to it, timely adjustment, but to avoid the practice of suppressing desire, to carry out reasonable channeling, blindly blocking will only make the situation worse and worse.
If the desire is particularly strong, you must talk to the pillow person or go to the hospital for treatment, and you must not be embarrassed to say it because of "shame", and eventually delay the best treatment time, which will bring great difficulties to the subsequent treatment.
Understand the cause of "sex addiction", we must start treatment from the cause of the problem, the reason why people will be addicted to "snapping", is because of the unpleasant things encountered in life, the attention has been diverted, the attention is focused on the physiological needs, so in the process of treatment, the patient has to bear great psychological pain, family tolerance and care, and must listen to the doctor's words, actively cooperate with the treatment.
Secondly, it is necessary to make a regular life plan, and in its regular life, gradually enter the right track from the deviant track, and slowly get rid of the addiction to physical desires.
It is also necessary to cultivate new hobbies, such as climbing, swimming, running and other sports, strengthen communication with the people around you, and divert your attention.
According to the doctor's treatment method, slowly reduce the number of couples living and solving by yourself, so that you can slowly change the previous unhealthy lifestyle and gradually form a new good lifestyle. So as to completely eliminate "sex addiction" and return to normal life and work.