Learning to speak is a kind of belly, an open-mindedness, a cultivation, but also a pattern, such a person has far-reaching vision, is willing to listen to the opinions of others, and takes into account the overall situation, rather than competing for the long and short.
No matter what we do, what we say, what decisions we make, there will always be some voices around to judge you, good or bad, praise or criticism, or praise or accusation... In short, no matter what kind of evaluation, we must learn to speak and not let it dictate your emotions.
We must read the word "rong speech" to accommodate the voices of others and the words of others. Some of the words of others can be taken to the heart, and some can be blown by the wind. If it is useful, we choose to listen carefully and accept it; If it's useless, we just laugh it off.
Let's not be complacent about other people's praise, nor doubt ourselves because of others' criticism. Be an open-minded person, don't argue, just be yourself.
To be a person with a big pattern, we must learn to speak tolerantly, and if there is something, it will be encouraged. Like water, it must not compete for anything, nourish all things, and contain all things.
Learn to be tolerant of others' words, so that disasters can be avoided on the road of life, and we can walk more smoothly and happier!