A person's cultivation is not when he is calm, but when his heart is dry; A person's rationality is not when the wind is calm, but when the crowd is noisy; One's compassion is not condescending

A person's cultivation is not when he is calm, but when his heart is dry; A person's rationality is not when the wind is calm, but when the crowd is noisy; A person's compassion is not when he is condescending, but when he speaks softly; Respect between lovers is not when they are idle, but when they have different views; The love between husband and wife is not when the moon is under the flowers, but when the disaster is coming.