At the evening party, after three rounds of drinking, my friend began a free talk trip, he talked about his colleague's purchase of a car and a house, there was no pressure, and he didn't have to worry about the mortgage and car loan. He said that he was very envious, envious that his colleague's family had the conditions to give him so much support, and I joked that who can't get by with money, but we also have to look at the reality... Talking, laughing, and clinking glasses together.
Yes, who can't get by with money?
I saw such a post on the Internet, the following picture, about parents working hard and saving money crazy.
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From the very beginning, a shop has fed a family and raised an excellent child, which is also a good reward for parents as a son of man.
This makes me think of my parents, who don't have stable jobs, my mother who works the family's land and household chores, and my father who does odd jobs and delivers deliveries. Night and day, more than twenty years. Recently, I have been busy selling feed.
No matter the wind or rain, day or night, they are always busy, busy, as if they want to busy everything to be busy. But no matter how busy it is, there are still a lot of things.
When I was a child, I never understood, my parents were so frugal, I liked to eat some cold dishes in the summer, I wouldn't buy more every time, and I had to add some vegetables I grew when I came back, I always thought, I wanted to eat, I bought more when it was delicious, and I didn't eat it every day, and sometimes I would mix with my family, but they didn't say much.
Another deep memory is that there are not many new clothes bought in a year, and I always buy them for my children first during the New Year. "I will wear new clothes for a few days, anyway, I have to work, and I can wear more old clothes." They always say that.
It's hard, but in terms of my upbringing, it's happy and happy, and I don't feel like I'm anything less than others. Studying abroad, I have more contact with people and a better understanding of the differences between everyone.
There are abundant, spending money seems to me lavish, but for them, this is their spending power and consumption daily life. I know I have to work hard to get ahead. My parents have provided me with all they have, and this love must be equal to them for the rest of their lives.