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What kind of person is the person who completely breaks a good hand given by God, or if you want to find a typical type of such a person, then it may be my kind.
Now I am over forty, but I have to rent a house to live in, and I still have huge debts, and although my son is in college, he does not want to see my mother at all.
It is estimated that no middle-aged woman's life will be more grounded than me, right?
Twenty years ago, I was full of superiority, only feeling that I was born into a business family, although not very rich, but also much better than the average child.
I remember when I was in middle school, not a single classmate in my class had a car at home, but I already had two at home, one each driven by my dad and my mom, and they were still Mercedes-Benz cars.
And in the eyes of all my relatives, I am a beautiful and tall beauty, and I don't have to worry about not finding Ruyi Langjun in the future.
By the time I graduated from college at the age of twenty-two, my dad started working as a real estate agent, because he couldn't do the factory business before, so it was quite difficult.
In the process, he met some real estate bosses, one of whom was Ober, who was in his sixties, and one of Ober's godsons, named Ah Can, was very enthusiastic about me, and he knew how to make me happy, and my father did not object to him interacting with me, so I became friends with him.
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Next, he asked me out a few times, saying that he was now following his godfather to do business, that he could make a lot of money, and that he could help my father.
My father also believed in him at the time, and felt that Ah Can was a very capable, loyal and honest person, very trustworthy, and eventually at my father's suggestion, I became Ah Chan's girlfriend.
Later, I followed Ah Can to see the factory he was engaged in, although he was Ober's godson, but in fact he was a factory, not a real estate.
I only think that he is only twenty-seven or eight years old, he can set up such a big factory, and there are hundreds of people working for him, and I think he is really capable and admires him.
In the end, after less than half a year of dating him, he proposed to me and promised my father that he would give me a lifetime of happiness and help my family in business.
I actually faced his marriage proposal, and I felt quite sudden at that time, because I didn't actually think about getting married so quickly, and marrying such a man who was not handsome, his appearance really needed women to accept.
But my father said to me, Ah Can is so capable, I must be very happy if I marry him, I can be a rich woman in the future, and Ah Can can also help my family, that is, my father's business.
I eventually agreed to Ah Can and married him.
But I slowly found that after marriage, Ah Can was not at all like I imagined, what kind of man he was, I couldn't see clearly at all, I didn't understand clearly.
It can also be said that I have been kept in the dark by him, and he has covered up his shortcomings and vices too well.
When he was in a relationship with me, he never smoked, this, I really admired him, can hide so well, can endure, has never smoked a puff in front of me, let me not know at all, his addiction to smoking is so strong that he smokes several packs a day, and is still the most expensive kind of cigarettes, such as Hibiscus King, Marlboro, etc.
In addition, he is also a gambler, often participate in some pig friends and dog friends' parties, and then all get together to play mahjong, play all night, and the gambling capital is often quite large, one night, lose 10,000 or 20,000, for him is a common thing.
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Moreover, he often goes to bars, nightclubs and the like with his friends, which really annoys me enough, I once made trouble with him, but I only felt that he said that he would change on the surface, but in fact, it was dead.
Facing such a hypocritical and vice-ridden husband as him, I was really disappointed and painful, but what can I do, the only choice is to endure and accept all the reality in front of me.
And, with the birth of my son, I thought to myself, should I let my son know that I was not compatible with his father, and that it was when I first married that I had no eyes, so I gave birth to him?
For the healthy growth of my son, I must maintain a superficial closeness and quite loving appearance with this husband, otherwise, my son will really be adversely affected.
But later, I found that something even more unbearable had happened.
My husband, A-chan, is still raising a woman outside, and also let this woman give birth to a child for him, when he was born, I don't know at all, because he is too deep to hide, I can't detect it at all.
If it weren't for a relative of mine who said he saw with his own eyes that he took this woman to a private hospital for a prenatal checkup, I wouldn't have known at all.
When I knew this, the psychological blow was huge.
But after a painful mental struggle, I decided not to make trouble with him, so I should not know at all, because I knew that making trouble with him would not help, and the final result would be divorce.
In this way, I just feel that I have been wrong again and again, and there is no room for turning back.
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In the following years, my parents had great health problems, and they suffered from very serious diseases that could not be cured.
Eventually, my father suddenly had a heart attack and left us, and then my mother also had tuberculosis, and she told me when she was dying that the family's real estate was worth millions or so, which was left to me, and I must not give it to others.
There were three properties in total, which had been transferred to my name before they died.
What I didn't expect was that a few years later, Ah Can found out that I had so many properties, and the factory he set up had fallen into a very serious financial problem due to poor management.
He offered me to pledge the property to borrow from the bank, and then the money I borrowed would be invested in his factory to alleviate the financial crisis of his factory.
When I first started, I refused to do anything, and told him that before my mother died, she told me that I could not touch these properties under any circumstances, nor could I use these properties as collateral, which I used for old age.
However, Ah Can said that his factory now needs a large amount of money, as long as it is turned around, it can get through the difficult situation, and the money will be returned to me.
Immediately afterwards, he instigated his son, saying that if I don't save him now, it will lead to the failure of his business, so that our family will have to eat grain seeds, and my son will no longer be a rich second generation, and will be laughed at by partners of the same age.
My son is playing well with a group of rich second generations, mixed in such a circle, he is very afraid that his father's business will fail, and thus be excluded by other rich second generations, so he strongly asked me to help his father, that is, my husband, otherwise, this factory cannot be done, and the family will fall into poverty.
Faced with my son's constant pleading, I reluctantly compromised, mortgaged one of the properties, and then loaned two million to Ah Can as a working capital to invest in his factory.
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I originally thought that if I took these two millions, Acan's factory would slowly improve, so that it would be truly profitable, and then I would return the two million to me.
But I found out that I was really naïve.
His factory is still stuck in the mud, still unable to make a profit, and he told me that two million is still not enough, let me take out another three million, otherwise, the previous investment will be lost, and it is impossible to pay me back the two million.
Together with his son, he did ideological work on me and constantly attacked me psychologically.
I thought to myself, my son is my liferoot, if I file for divorce with Ah Can, my son will not necessarily follow me, but complain about me, I must let my son maintain the current standard of living and growth environment, then I have to let Ah Can's business continue.
So, I gritted my teeth, mortgaged the remaining two properties, borrowed three million, and lent them to Ah Can.
Half a year later, I found that after these funds were invested, it was like investing in a black hole, and Acan's factory was actually not possible to do it at all, and he also suffered heavy losses because he was defrauded by a customer.
Finally, when the bank urged me to repay the loan, I couldn't afford to pay it back at all, and the house price was also plummeting, and I auctioned off these properties, and it wasn't worth much, and I still owed the bank more than two million.
Faced with such a debt, I want to die and can't cry.
What made me even more painful was that my son still blamed me, because Ah Can said a lot of bad things about me, saying that I, the mother, was not wholeheartedly helping, which led to the factory being unable to do it in the end, and also made my son unable to continue to be a rich second generation.
Eventually, my son was able to go to college with the financial support of his relatives, but he didn't want to see me as a mother at all.
I had to divorce Ah Can by agreement, because if I didn't leave, how much debt he would have to owe, and thus how much joint debt he would have, I really don't know.
In this way, I had no relatives, I lived alone in a rented house outside, and my son did not want to visit me at all, and even when I called him, he sometimes did not answer.
Is there anyone like me who plays cards so badly?
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The heroine of this story is a forty-one-year-old divorced middle-aged woman, not the author herself
Story material collection and arrangement Written by: Li Ziliao
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