In her career as a lawyer, she has encountered many cases in which wives sue their husbands for divorce. After the divorce of the parties, the court ruled that the children were to be raised by the woman, who paid maintenance of varying amounts on a monthly basis.
However, in actual performance, many men cannot consciously fulfill the judgment. The woman also has to apply to the People's Court Executive Bureau for compulsory enforcement.
Such cases are very common in practice.
There is a real case in the community where I live. After the divorce between the woman and the husband, the court ruled that the child should be raised by the man, and the woman gave the man a one-time child support fee of 200,000 yuan, and the house they lived in was also lived by the man.
It stands to reason that fathers should take the initiative to raise their children. The husband's parents, both laid-off workers, are well placed to help take care of their only grandchild.
However, less than two years later, the child found his mother again, crying to live with his mother. The woman saw that her own flesh and blood were so pitiful, so she took it away. Pick up and drop off children to and from school every day, and accompany children to learn and play on Saturdays and Sundays.
A few days ago, I saw Housheng driving the garage door and asked the neighbor: What is this for, the female neighbor told me that the child took the middle school entrance examination. Look, time flies so fast, the child is about to go to high school.
When I saw this scene, I thought: The father of the child: where is your obligation to support the child.
To sum up: Whether it is a man or a woman, how about understanding each other's three views when in love? Once married, especially with children, divorce must be done with caution. The biggest victims of divorce are children.
As a manly husband, he should take it up and down. Romantic love is temporary, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea after marriage is real, and the responsibility of raising children is great. You have now fulfilled your obligation to raise your children, and when you are old, your children will honor you. Otherwise, you're alone.
July 8, 2023 / first