Recently, Xiao Jiu received a letter from a single female reader in the background, the details are as follows:
I am 23 years old and have never been in a relationship, after all, too many men are not self-loving now, I think many men in life may have had prostitutes or dates. I'm curious if there is a way to judge whether the other party has STDs before having sex?
First, the study found that these men are the easiest to find misses
According to the data survey of Pan Suiming, a professor at Chinese Minmin University, 13.6% of men aged 18~61 in mainland China have ever looked for a miss. Among them, the age group with the highest proportion of prostitution is 25~29 years old, specifically 26.4%. In addition, in the first 15 years of the 21st century, the proportion of male prostitution in mainland China is increasing, among which the proportion of men aged 18~40 is the highest.
Similarly, globally, men pay for sexual services. A survey involving 6048 men aged 16~84 in Sweden showed that 9.5% of men had paid for sex; Previously, a number of studies showed that 6~11% of men in the UK had purchased sexual services; 16% of men in the United States have engaged in prostitution at least once in their lifetime; The proportion in Russia is 10~13%; 14% in the Netherlands; 38% in Spain; Cambodia and Thailand account for about 70%.
So what kind of man is more likely to prostitute?
According to a survey by Pan Suiming, a professor at Chinese Minmin University, men who love to find miss basically have the following characteristics:
- Men with strong social skills and often go out alone: Data show that compared with men who have never gone out, the proportion of men who have been out for 1~3 months will increase by 6.6 times, and the proportion of men who have been out for 6 months will increase by 7.2 times.
- There are prostitutes around: the phenomenon of "those who are close to Zhu is red and close to ink is black" is also applicable to prostitutes, and for every 1% increase in the proportion of people who have prostituted around men, the probability of prostituting themselves will increase by 32%.
- Age factor: Men aged > 20 years old have a 29% lower chance of engaging in prostitution for each additional 5 years old.
- Remarried men: Remarried men are 4 times more likely to engage in prostitution than unmarried young men.
- Men with medium education: Studies have found that men with low and high education have lower rates of prostitution, and men in the middle zone have the highest rates of prostitution.
- Men living in county/urban areas: Compared with men in rural areas, men living in county towns and urban areas are 6.1 times more likely to engage in prostitution.
Of course, research only represents a universal phenomenon and does not apply to every individual, so do not apply formulas.
Second, how many venereal diseases will a prostitute bring?
First of all, we need to be clear that prostitution is illegal. The punishment for prostitutes in the mainland is 10~15 days of administrative detention, which may be fined up to 5,000 yuan, and if the circumstances are minor, they may be detained for up to 5 days and fined up to 500 yuan.
In addition to violating social morality and breaking the law, prostitution is also easy to transmit various venereal diseases, if you find that the other half has the following suspected symptoms of venereal diseases, you must refuse in time and protect yourself.
- syphilis
Early syphilis is generally manifested as chancre, initially small red papules, superficial erosions, and then gradually enlarged, manifested as 1~2cm ulcers, the boundaries are clearer, the bottom is hard, and the serous exudation will be exuded by extrusion. Both men and women experience symptoms near the genitals.
- AIDS
AIDS generally appears symptoms 2~4 weeks after infection, manifested as fever, sore throat, night sweats, nausea, diarrhea, etc., and some patients have no obvious manifestations, and the symptoms can disappear after 1~3 weeks. After that, it will enter a 6~8 year asymptomatic period, and eventually enter the AIDS phase, and the patient's immunity will be greatly reduced, and a series of symptoms related to the decline of immunity will appear.
- gonorrhea
After infection with gonorrhea, men will have symptoms such as urethral discharge, painful urination, and itching of the urethra, followed by a large amount of purulent, bloody discharge, accompanied by flushing and edema of the urethral mouth.
- Genital warts
After genital warts infection, small cauliflower will appear in the genitals, perianal and other mucosal parts, and as the course of the disease progresses more and more, the warts may subside within 4 months, but the infection in the body still exists.
- Genital herpes
Genital herpes infection will generally appear symptoms after 2~12 days, manifested as genital ulcers, fever, painful urination, etc., and some patients will have genital herpes manifestations.
Third, after high-risk sexual behavior, how do you know if you have contracted the disease?
Many diseases are spread due to high-risk sexual behavior, but many people do not have a clear concept of this, so what is high-risk sexual behavior?
It refers to unprotected sex (not wearing a condom), unprotected sex between multiple sexual partners, and unprotected sex with unfamiliar sexual partners.
After high-risk sexual behavior, it is easy to contract various diseases, so if it happens, how do you know if you have an STD?
It should be clear that going to the hospital for examination is the best way to judge, but some people cannot go to the hospital due to force majeure factors, and they can judge according to the time to observe the changes in their bodies.
- 2~3 days or slightly longer after high-risk sexual behavior: redness, itching, abnormal discharge and dirt at the urethral opening, which may be caused by gonorrhea infection and non-gonococcal urethritis.
- After several weeks to 1 month of high-risk sexual behaviour: vulvar induration, rash, and most likely syphilis infection.
- After 3 months of high-risk sexual behavior: vulvar wart-like, cauliflower needs to be highly suspected of genital warts, and the site of onset is generally limited to the perigenital area.
If you still don't have any symptoms after three months, it doesn't mean that you can sit back and relax, and the best way is to go to the hospital for screening.
Finally, prostitution is illegal, it is best not to touch the bottom line of the law, and any idea of crossing the red line must be killed in time!
Resources:
[1] "Men who like to prostitute have these common characteristics...". Room 11 2022-10-09
[2] "How to quickly tell if the other party is sick before snapping?" 》. Medical Profession Obstetrics and Gynecology Channel 2022-06-07
[3] "Sex with netizens, young guy infected with venereal diseases! After high-risk sexual behavior, how do you know if you have a disease? 》. Family Doctor 2019-04-01
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