When Li Min is mentioned, fans often immediately think of her enthusiastic image and infectious smile.
As a superstar with strong business ability and never hype scandals, she has always been an idol in everyone's mind. However, her death makes people wonder, when did she suffer from depression? And what caused her to give up hope in life?
With people's in-depth investigation, many details of Li Min before his death gradually surfaced. Her closest friend pointed out a person in the memorial text, and this person was the last straw that crushed Li Min!
On July 5, music superstar Li Min (CoCo) chose to end his life at home at the age of 48.
This sudden incident shocked the whole network. Many celebrity friends in the circle have said: "CoCo has always been very positive and optimistic, how could she suddenly fall into depression and choose suicide?" Although this is an obituary published by her own sister, we can only regretfully accept the reality and publish an article to say goodbye to Li Min.
Apart from her mother, Li Min's closest relationship is with her sister. When Li Min was ill and needed surgery, her sister was by her side, while her husband Bruce and two stepdaughters did not show up when she needed care the most. This may be an important reason why Li Min is on a desperate path.
On July 2, the day Li was disheartened, she also posted a voice message on the fan support club on social media. In the voice, Li Min chatted with fans with joy, expressing his thoughts for them and hoping to meet them again as soon as possible.
You can feel her joy and excitement from her tone, as if she is intimately discussing with fans the time of the next meeting.
However, no one expected that soon after, she chose to end her life in the bathroom. Emotions were overwhelming, and the shadow of depression hung over her. She was expecting to meet her fans, but in the blink of an eye, she chose to end her life in the bathtub.
According to Hong Kong media reports, Li Min was relatively stable in his mood on that tragic day. She enjoyed lunch with her family and then went to the bathroom to take a shower.
At about three o'clock in the afternoon, the nanny was about to enter the bathroom to clean, but was shocked to see Li Min rushing out covered in blood. Her sister and mother hurriedly called the hospital for help, and the ambulance quickly arrived, but it was reported that Li Min was no longer breathing and pulse.
After a series of rescues, Li Min's second sister Li Silin revealed that their mother was a Chinese medicine doctor, and although the doctor had declared Li Min brain dead, her mother still administered needles to her, which made her feel very distressed.
Three days later, Li Min died due to ineffective rescue.
On July 6, in an interview with the media, Li Silin's sister revealed the details of Li Min's death and emphasized that CoCo did not die due to a cut of the pulse. She said she had noticed her sister's abnormality a week earlier.
Li Silin's sister revealed that because the cause of her sister's death was an unnatural death, the police decided to conduct an autopsy to find out the truth, which is also an explanation to the family and fans.
After Li Min committed suicide, the police immediately launched an investigation. They found traces of a sharp accessory cut on the left wrist and a bloodstained nail clipper next to the sink.
The police wording is confusing and misleading. Did they mean that Li Min himself had attacked his left wrist when they said "someone used a sharp weapon"?
It is reported that the process of dissection will take about 4 to 6 weeks, which means that the truth about the cause of Li Min's death will not be revealed until more than a month later.
Li Min's sudden death shocked and saddened the entire entertainment industry. Countless stars have posted articles to mourn this highly respected artist, which fully demonstrates Li Min's prestige and influence in the circle, and everyone cannot accept her departure.
It is worth mentioning that Bruce, the man Li Min has been trying to retain, also published a touching eulogy, expressing his deep affection for Li Min with "farewell to his beloved". However, as soon as this eulogy was released, it immediately attracted a lot of criticism and doubts.
In the eulogy, Li Min's husband called her "beloved" wife, a title that was criticized and doubted by netizens. They think that Li Min's husband is an unreliable person, everything he does is a disguise, and everything he shows now about Li Min's death is false.
The man's performance is simply more disgusting than! His motives are only to fight for Li Min's inheritance, as hypocritical as crocodile tears. Everyone has no good feelings for Bruce, if he really loves Li Min, how can he bear to let her bear the trauma of her heart again and again?
Therefore, Bruce's statement is really contradictory. Perhaps, the biggest mistake in Li Min's life was choosing to marry Bruce. In order to maintain this marriage, she put in all her efforts and painstaking efforts. In order to give birth to her husband, Li Min tried artificial insemination nine times in succession, but each time it ended in failure.
Whenever she was sick, she was surrounded only by her mother and sister, but Bruce was always in the mood to travel. This betrayal made Li Min completely lose the last glimmer of hope.
In her past life, Li Min has experienced six relationships, the last of which is with a wealthy white businessman who is 16 years older than her. The wealthy businessman already had two daughters who were about the same age as Li Min, but Li Min still chose to marry him.
As an Oriental, Li Min has always insisted on being a virtuous wife and mother. She treated the two daughters of wealthy businessmen as if they were her own children, and she always hoped to have a child of her own with her husband.
However, perhaps because her emotional experience was not going well and her physical condition was not ideal, she tried IVF nine times, but all of them failed.
In the setbacks again and again, there was also the husband's unfaithful betrayal, and this already fragile relationship experienced ten years of ups and downs. Although Li Min forgave him again and again, his betrayal became more and more serious, and eventually their love came to an end.
Li Min is a well-respected Chinese female singer, and it is not surprising that she signed a premarital property agreement with her ex-husband before marriage. However, she is saddened that she was originally close to her stepdaughters, but they sided with her ex-husband, accused her of only pursuing money, and labeled her as a gold worshipper.
Faced with the double blow of reality and public opinion, Li Min chose to remain silent and did not disclose any news to the outside world for a long time.
In fact, Li Min has always been a very good person. As a first-line star of a Chinese female singer, she has appeared on the international stage in her early years, and her earning power can be seen. However, despite her qualifications, she was still vilified by people, some said that she married the white businessman in order to marry into a wealthy family, and others said that she was a junior who destroyed someone else's family.
However, for fans and ordinary people who follow Li Min, we rarely remember her gossip news, only her always enthusiastic performance and excellent singing skills. However, this situation also reflects Li Min's personality from another angle.
As a star, she always wants to show the best in her audience; As a mother, she wants to leave her daughter with the best memories.
However, Li Min's death did not give her rest.
Due to the cause of her unnatural death, she needed to undergo an autopsy before she could be buried. Therefore, the funeral is expected to take place in August, the exact time has not yet been determined.
Li Min believed in Buddhism before her death, so her family decided to hold a funeral for her according to Buddhist ceremonies, and planned to hold fan meetings in both sides of the strait.
Li Min's death was a huge shock to the entire entertainment industry and the majority of fans.
Fans expressed their regret for her. No one can understand why a star with wealth and appearance can also fall into depression.
Li Min's marital problems and physical pain were undoubtedly the last straw that crushed her. According to her friends, Li Min and her husband have been separated for two years, but have been reluctant to go through divorce procedures.
The reason was that she wanted to end her marriage by martyrdom and planned to go through the divorce in July. Everyone has different pursuits, some pursue wealth and fame, while others just need simple family warmth and a happy marriage.
Whatever the wish, we should avoid being too attached. Sometimes, we get into a painful situation and are reluctant to leave, but we are not willing to continue.
This dilemma will only hurt us more. Therefore, we need to learn to let go when the time is right and protect our hearts.