The second sister said: "When Li Min was hospitalized, she promised her mother that she would accompany her through her happy old age, but she broke her word when she loved to laugh. ”
On the evening of July 5, 2023, major platforms rushed to break the news that "singer Li Min died".
It is said that many authors and pen pals should be at this time, every second counts to grab traffic, but most people are silent, everyone is waiting, waiting for someone to come out to refute the rumors, this news is not true, there is no news to write.
However, waiting for the obituary sent by the second sister Li Silin
When reading the news, the tears were really uncontrollable, this scene seemed to return to the scene of Kobe's death, many netizens and stars posted condolences, more grief and regret, and in an instant, reports about Li Min were also overwhelmed.
She doesn't particularly like Li Min, but she is a long-ago existence in her memory.
The first advertising slogan I remember when I was a child was: "Hello everyone is really good!" I didn't even know she was a singer at the time, and then I practiced her "Tick Tick" desperately, and I still can't remember how many "didadi" there are.
Li Min can infect fans not only the works, the biggest charm is her optimism, cheerfulness, enthusiasm, her smile is like sunshine, bathing everyone who approaches her.
Born disabled but loves the stage
In the seventies of the last century, a widow was born on the shores of Weiyang Lake at Peking University, the child who lost her father before birth, Li Min, but was strained on her left leg at birth, and this accident also tortured her entire life.
It was not until she was 2 years old that the family found that there was a problem with her left leg, and the medical level at that time could only insert steel nails into her heels to support her walking, and this treatment became the heaviest shadow of Li Min's childhood, and she could never forget the tragic pain of more than two hundred children around her crying at the same time.
At the age of 9, the strong mother took the three sisters to settle in the United States, in order to help the mother share the pressure of life, starting at the age of 17, the excellent Li Min began to emerge through various talent shows, won awards and got soft, and officially debuted after returning to China in the nineties.
In an instant, a mixed-race girl with a hot and sexy appearance and a shocking and domineering voice spread out in people's lives like air. No one could have imagined that this electric buttock queen who was singing and dancing on the stage and swaying wantonly had an injury in her left leg.
"Be a good girl of your mother, but also become the light of the Chinese"
Li Min is the youngest child in the family and the most obedient, she has loved to laugh since she was a child, and she will always become a little sun when her mother needs it. She once said: "Because my mother took the three of us too hard, I must not let her be sad again." ”
At the same time, the mother's requirements for her three daughters are also very strict, before the age of 18, boys are not even allowed to call home, Jin Xing was surprised in an interview: "Your mother raised you as a nun?" ”
It is precisely because of this that the three daughters are very good, and CoCo, who shines on the stage, never let people know her pain, and everyone only sees her vitality.
Jackie Chan once said: "Li Min is the most shining international superstar in the future. "Yes, she did.
In 2001, Li Min sang on stage as the first Chinese singer on the Oscar stage. Dressed in a red dress with a black bun, Li Min is like the brightest star in the long river.
Time magazine declared to the world that Li Min is the "light of the Chinese" of the new era! Even Michael Jackson noticed her and invited her to his concert as a guest.
Li Min once said that she is a perfectionist, but she herself is imperfect, whether it is for work or her own life, Li Min has always pursued "I think I should do it." ”
It is also because of this that Li Min was once in the program, because his students were treated unfairly, he went crazy on the spot and deleted all Weibo related to the program, and was banned by the TV station. will also be isolated by the director because he is not satisfied with the program system.
But it doesn't matter, she still laughs and says to her fans and newcomers: "No one is perfect, imperfection is real, but everyone receives different tribulations, and some lucky people will suffer less." ”
Wrong payment for life, 9 test tube failures are a pity
At a banquet, Li Min was frightened by the marriage proposal of a rich businessman, because at that time, Li Min had already become famous, and this rich businessman had long been devoted to her, and this time he had the opportunity to get acquainted, and directly said to Li Min: "Can I marry you now?" ”
Li Min refused at that time, although she was very open on the outside, she was still a very traditional Chinese woman in her bones, and she had never had a scandal since her debut, not to mention that this man already had two daughters, but the two still became friends in private.
Eight years later, this American uncle Bruce, who is 16 years older than her, finally married Li Min back home as he wished, a super luxurious wedding, an unprecedented grand scene, and a gathering of domestic and foreign superstars, Li Min's wedding dress and diamond ring are all worth a lot, completely satisfying all a woman's fantasies about marriage.
However, when the dream shines into reality, only cruelty is presented, just because Bruce said "I want to have a child who belongs to you with you", Li Min did 9 test-tube surgeries before and after, and each time he had to prick countless needles on his body, and for a long time, Li Min's body has long been overdrawn.
At her most vulnerable, the man who had sworn by her gave her a fatal blow.
Cheating again and again, blatant every time, not even avoiding Li Min, the two stepdaughters who are regarded by Li Min as their own, also choose to stand on their father's side. This undoubtedly made Li Min unhappy.
It was at that time, coupled with the unsmooth career of his career, Li Min suffered from breast cancer, and during the treatment, Bruce also let go out alone and dashing.
From beginning to end, in the face of speculation and news from the outside world, Li Min was ignorant, she was never willing to take out her private affairs to argue, she once said happily: "Bruce said that marrying me is equivalent to marrying my family, all the time." ”
It's just that this happiness is too short-lived, and not long after Li Min separated from Bruce and moved to an apartment outside, Li Min has not yet decided whether the marriage relationship is over.
This marriage Li Min is a character who dares to love and hate, without procrastination and entanglement, once he was also her dream lover, but this dream is too short, the biggest regret is not to be a mother again.
Leaving her property and choosing to commit suicide, she still wants to live
In a performance in 2020, Li Min's old injury recurred, and the pain in her left leg once made her unable to walk and had to undergo surgery.
She is always a ray of light, she is still optimistic and warm during treatment, she will say thank you to every medical staff, smile with everyone who helps her, she said: "I am the Great Wall will never fall, I am a warrior, I am not afraid of anything, I want to be a female warrior!" ”
In the last voice before her death, her voice seemed so sad and helpless, but she still told her fans, with your encouragement and concern, I will work hard again...
In fact, at this time, she is already full of holes both physically and psychologically, and her sister posted on Weibo mentioned that she has suffered from severe depression for many years, and now the whole family is accompanying her 24 hours a day, and the result is still an accident.
Because she did not sign an agreement before marriage, Li Min left her entire inheritance to her mother, and then when she cut her wrist uncontrollably, she still wanted to live, so she rushed out of the bathroom to ask for help, but it was one step too late.
When Li Min's heart stopped beating, the eighty-year-old mother tried to save her daughter, and in the past three days of rescue, the mother and daughter guarded Li Min step by step, looking forward to guarding the angel in this family.
Female warrior, you can cry for a while
Li Min's wish when she was a child was very simple: "I want to open a supermarket, my eldest sister and second sister sell goods, I keep accounts, and my mother is doing some miscellaneous things on the side, so I am very happy." ”
Kind, she will buy all the oranges of her grandmother who is setting up a roadside stall, just so that she can go home early for the New Year, and she will worry that the reporter will not be able to shoot anything if she squats hard, and deliberately shows up so that everyone has material to write about.
She has become an international superstar, she has no time to go shopping with her mother, has no chance to become a mother, has encountered betrayal, illness, loss of voice, every step is difficult, but it is a barrier to break through, but she can still bloom wantonly.
Her last message stayed at 520, and in her last voice, she is still loving and encouraging others, such a beautiful big woman who loves to laugh and is full of passion, worthy of everyone's memory.
Li Min said that she is a female warrior, she said to pursue perfection, she said that she always has to face everything with a smile, in fact, you can cry for a while, the lonely and fragile soul behind you can take a break.
If we have unhappy friends around us, give them more attention, even if it's just a "Are you okay?" "May our CoCo go all the way to the sun, and may all friends who are battling depression be treated with tenderness!"