Birth, old age, sickness and death, the world is impermanent.
On the night of July 5th, I never imagined that I would suddenly receive a push message of "Li Min died", which Li Min? Could it be Li Min who sang "Dao Ma Dan"?
Opening the hot search with shock and apprehension, the conjectures that kept emerging in my mind finally came true.
An obituary by Li Min's sister threw a "bombshell" on the sleepy Internet, and almost all surfing netizens were sleepy, and sighed "Tell me it's fake" one after another.
It turned out that Li Min suffered from depression a few years ago, died on July 2, and after 3 days of rescue after being sent to the hospital, he was still unable to return to heaven, and finally Li Min died on the 5th at the age of 48.
Not only netizens were shocked, even the stars in the entertainment industry couldn't believe it, Xiao Yaxuan had been crying, Zhang Jie sighed that he had to care more about his friends, and almost all the stars in the entertainment industry came to mourn Li Min.
Li Min in everyone's impression is a sunny, lively, strong and optimistic idol, always facing everyone with enthusiasm and warmth, and would never have thought that he would leave everyone in such a way.
Li Min wrote his ending like this, leaving 3 questions, it's time to solve.
The first question: why did Li Min get depression.
Looking at the huge entertainment industry, there are many stars who have suffered from depression, and there are not a few superstars who have fallen.
For example, the gentle and kind brother Leslie Cheung.
Another example is the big boy Qiao Renliang who loves to smile and shy.
and Weng Meiling, who was amazed by time, their sudden departure left the world with endless regrets.
The unsatisfactory career, the overwhelming bad comments, the betrayal of love, the torment of illness... And so on these may become the last "straw" that crushes the star, unfortunately, Li Min occupies both.
Li Min is full of yearning for love, and Le Yumin, who met by chance at Chanel's party, satisfies all her imagination of her other half, this love is very strong, but not decent enough, and the saying of "junior on the throne" has always existed.
Lang has a concubine intention, Li Min found the destination that he thought was destined for a lifetime, and after 8 years of love, he married Le Yumin, a rich man 17 years older than him, and the two had a luxurious wedding, as if to prove love to the world.
Being a wife also means being a mother and never giving birth to children, Li Min, who has just married Le Yumin and has to face two stepdaughters, for which she takes out her heart and lungs and treats it as her own, and the family atmosphere is always happy and peaceful.
In order to be able to give Le Yumin another child, Li Min suffered a lot, just "artificial insemination", she has done 9 times, this process is her mental and physical double torture, but unfortunately 9 times failed.
A top female star marrying a rich man is what a scenery it seems to the outside world, but only Li Min knows that behind the scenery is full of sadness, and not long after marriage, her husband fell into the gentle country of other women.
Li Min's forbearance was replaced by her husband's intensification.
Can't bear it, no need to endure it anymore, after the two sides tore their faces, they once reached the point of going to court, and what made Li Min collapse even more was that her two stepdaughters who treated each other sincerely stood on her father's side unconditionally, and the hat of "cheating only if you can't give birth" was fiercely buckled on her head.
For a long time since then, Li Min has been healing the scars on her soul caused by this failed marriage, and even if the days are difficult, she will still say optimistically: everything will be fine.
He was overweight, in poor spirits, and had to hang drainage bags to support himself when necessary.
Who could have predicted that the house leak coincided with overnight rain, and in 2022, Li Min's leg disease recurred, the nerves were suppressed, and the treatment was urgent.
Before the broken mind was healed, Li Min had to face the blow of physical functions.
Born with a defect in her left leg, she began treatment at the age of two and has not healed since she was two years old, and she has relied on her right leg to support her whole body for many years of singing and dancing, and she actively received treatment in order to regain her standing on the stage.
The operation time is short, but the pain after the operation is 10 times larger than before, in other words, the effect of this treatment is not ideal.
Dancing can make Li Min happy, but she is afraid that she will not be able to walk after this operation, let alone dance on stage, and this worry may not be relieved until she dies.
Two weeks ago, a fan went to Hong Kong to visit Li Min, and she shed tears in front of the fans because of her poor recovery.
The unsatisfactory marriage and the indisputability of the body may be the last straw that overwhelmed Li Min.
The second question: What happened on the day Li Min committed suicide?
After the news of Li Min's death spread on the Internet, the 40-second voice she sent to fans on the day of her suicide also became a hot search.
There was no pessimism in this voice, although it was mixed with some choked voices that could not be hidden, but it was full of warmth and emotion when it was heard, and I felt that Li Min cheered up at that time.
Looking back now, I find that Li Min gave the enthusiastic, cheerful, and positive energy side to the fans, and left the depression, bad mood, and can't think about it to himself.
In the early morning of July 6, Hong Kong media disclosed more details of Li Min's suicide, that day Li Min had lunch with her mother and sister, and then went to the bathroom to shower, and after a while, Li Min suddenly rushed out of the bathroom for help, with blood dripping from his left hand.
It is reported that when the ambulance arrived, Li Min had no breathing pulse, and later recovered his heartbeat and consciousness after rescue, but in the end he died.
Doctors found cuts on Li Min's forearm, police found a bloodstained nail clipper in the bathroom, and 13 antidepressants scattered in his belongings.
Maybe Li Min wanted to live for a moment, but it was still too late.
The third question: What is Li Min's biggest regret?
Some netizens said such a sentence, if there is really a child, it will give Li Min more love sustenance, equivalent to her second life, will it sweep away all the haze that troubles Li Min because of the great power of maternal love?
Li Min also said that he wanted a child very much.
Again and again full of expectations rushed, again and again the flame of hope was extinguished, "mourning is greater than heart death" may be like this, 9 artificial insemination even if successful, will bring different results, but unfortunately there is no if.
The saddest thing in the world is that a white-haired person sends a black-haired person, and the 80-year-old Li Min's mother is experiencing such pain.
Li Min once lamented in front of the camera that when I had the ability to buy the house of my mother's dreams, that day was my happiest day.
On her mother's 83rd birthday, Li Min posted a message to celebrate her birthday and left a sentence: "Mom, I will always take good care of you." Li Min finally broke his word.
When Li Min was lying cold on the hospital bed and the doctors were helpless, Li Min's mother still refused to give up, administered needles to Li Min, and made every last effort, such a picture, just thinking about it is enough to make people cry.
Li Min's death has left many netizens in a trance, and I still remember that she released a new song "War Song" in May, claiming to bravely face many difficulties and pains in life.
I still remember that Li Min participated in the recording of "The Voice of China" last year, and he questioned the shady scene on the spot, shouting justice at the top of his voice, speaking out for righteousness, and not bowing his head for capital, really handsome and dashing.
When we feel warm, we never think the sun will set too, but it doesn't matter, the world will remember your residual temperature.
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