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01
On the weekend, my husband's family came to my house for dinner, I went to the vegetable market early in the morning to buy a lot of vegetables, and after another busy morning, I finally made ten dishes and three soups.
I may not buy enough crabs, one person buys in the amount of one, the eldest brother's son Xiaokang especially likes to eat crabs, before I was on the table, I saw that he had already killed five.
The remaining three on the table, the sister-in-law still took his bowl vigorously.
I was a little upset, but I couldn't say anything.
Bringing the last bowl to the table, I glanced at the bowl containing the crabs, and there was only one crab in it.
Xiaokang's bowl was full of crabs, and when her daughter Tiantian was about to reach for the last one, Xiaokang took the bowl first.
My daughter looked at me a little aggrieved: "Mom, I want to eat crabs." ”
I thought that my daughter said this, my sister-in-law knew a little reason, and would take the initiative to take crabs from Xiaokang's bowl to my daughter, after all, I didn't buy it for Xiaokang to eat alone.
However, the sister-in-law pretended not to hear and concentrated on serving Xiaokang dry rice.
I had to say to Xiaokang: "Xiaokang, is it okay to give a crab to my sister?" ”
"If you don't give it, don't give it, it's all mine!" Xiaokang protects the bowl of crabs in front of him like a cub.
02
The mother-in-law also echoed on the side: "If you don't give it, don't give it, it's all our well-off." He blamed me: "I know that children love crabs, and they don't buy more, look at your squirmish!" ”
I bought hairy crabs, nearly a hundred pieces a pound, enough to buy eight is not much, what do you want?
Not to mention that the child eats alone, but complains about me!
How do you teach children like this?!
Because my family gave birth to a daughter, and my eldest brother's family gave birth to a son, although the two children are only one year apart, my mother-in-law only helps the eldest brother's family with children.
The family treats Xiaokang as if he were a baby, spoiled lawlessly, has no education at all, usually eats, only picks what he likes to eat, but whatever he likes, others want to dip.
But I didn't give birth to it myself, and I don't have the right to say it, usually I can not contact without contact, and this time I don't know what to think, and suddenly I want to come to the house to eat.
Isn't it that crabs are too expensive to buy, come to this Huo Huo me?
Looking at my daughter's aggrieved appearance, I was distressed and comforted her: "It's okay, my mother will buy you food at night." ”
The mother-in-law was unhappy when she heard it: "A girl's film, it is necessary to eat such expensive things, and it is a waste to eat it!" ”
I couldn't help but scare her: "Boys and girls are the same, my own daughter can buy it if I want, can I manage it!" ”
My mother-in-law had a stinking face, but she couldn't help me.
03
After eating, the two children were playing in the living room, I was washing dishes in the kitchen, and after a while, I heard my daughter's crying from the living room, I quickly ran out to see, and saw Xiaokang riding on my daughter's head and hitting her.
Xiaokang is six years old this year, much stronger than her daughter, the whole riding on her head, her daughter can't move at all, she can only cry vigorously.
And the mother-in-law and the eldest brother and sister-in-law were sitting on the side chatting, and no one stopped it when they saw this!
I angrily walked over and pulled Xiaokang off my daughter and scolded him: "How can you hit your sister!" ”
"She owes beatings if she disobeys, who told her not to play with her toys for me!"
"It's not that I don't play, it's my brother, he broke my toys, and I don't want to play with him anymore." When her daughter cried, she did not forget to defend herself.
I looked at the toys next to me, and the good toys were dismantled by Xiaokang.
I wanted to teach him a lesson, and my mother-in-law immediately interjected: "It's all children, they can still be broken, so they are playing, it is necessary to go online!" ”
I know that people like mother-in-law and sister-in-law can't reason with her.
Okay, say I'm on the line, wait!
04
At dinner in the evening, I called my brother's family to dinner.
The daughter saw her little cousin Dongdong, don't mention how happy, the unhappiness at noon was instantly forgotten, and she liked to play with Dongdong the most.
When her daughter was two years old, she was bullied by other children, and Dongdong, who was two years older than her, helped her out and made the other party cry.
So in her daughter's heart, she prefers Dongdong and is closer to Dongdong.
After my brother's family came this time, I specially bought more crabs to prevent not eating enough.
As a result, Xiaokang saw that there were so many crabs, and he still did not change the essence of eating alone, and as soon as the crabs were on the table, he directly took the plate to himself and ate them alone.
My daughter did not dare to take it, nor did she dare to ask me again, for fear that I would have a conflict with my mother-in-law again.
Dongdong was sitting next to Xiaokang, and when he saw his daughter drooling over the crab but did not dare to take it, he directly reached out and grabbed one for her.
This time stabbed the hornet's nest, Xiaokang said that he would not give anything to the crab daughter, and shouted: "I won't give you food, everything in the house is mine, I won't give you food."
05
I had a gloomy face, and needless to say, I knew who taught it.
If you don't give him some color today, I really think that I am the "little bully" at home!
I secretly made a color to Dongdong.
But the face said: "Why can't you give it to Tiantian, she is your sister, and besides, this crab is not bought for you to eat alone."
Xiaokang did not follow, desperately making trouble, and when her mother-in-law saw this, she directly snatched the crab from her daughter and gave it to Xiaokang.
Xiaokang stopped here.
The daughter wrinkled a little face and was about to cry.
At this time, Dongdong reached out and took a crab from Xiaokang to his daughter, telling her: "What my cousin gave you, eat!"
Once again robbed of food, Xiaokang was angry, and he shot at Dongdong.
He also thought that anyone would let him, but it turned out to be no opponent at all, and he was beaten on his stomach in three or two strokes, and he was pressed to the ground and crying.
Seeing this, my mother-in-law wanted to step forward, and I quickly stopped her and my sister-in-law and said, "Just make trouble with the children, let them solve it by themselves, what are we inserting?"
"It's so heavy, how can it be a fight, let him stop!"
I sank my face: "I can't stand it just two strokes, what did you say when he hit my daughter?"
"Can that be the same? Where can Tiantian compare with Xiaokang, let him stop! ”
I sneered, saw that it was almost done, and asked Dongdong to stop.
The meal is unbearable.
But I don't mind tearing my face, treating my daughter so differently, not giving some color to see, do you really think that anyone can bully her?
The child of Xiaokang is also spoiled, and finding someone to teach him a lesson is also "good" for him, after all, no one will get used to him in society in the future!