#暑期创作大赛#
A college student wrote a letter to the county magistrate to rectify the high-priced bride price and rushed to the hot search list, and the boy told that he and his girlfriend had known each other for a year, and the two were in love.
So he told both parents about the relationship, and the woman's parents told the girl that the minimum bride price in the county was 280,000, excluding the house and car. However, the bride price in the county where the boy is located is only more than 120,000 yuan, and he really can't get that much money, because he is still in school and has no financial resources.
He also shared some of his views on bride price, such as the higher the bride price in the poorer the place. It is hoped that the county magistrate can rectify the high-priced bride price, which will benefit many families and couples like them.
The boy's letter was paid attention to by the local county party committee, and responded that the local wedding dowry has generally become a downward trend year by year, and will strengthen the advocacy of a new style of marriage, publicize and guide the masses to change their thinking and concepts, and gradually reduce until the "zero bride price" is achieved.
For the boy's letter, many netizens gave different views:
First, think that boys are whimsical, empty gloves white wolf;
If you want to get married, you don't have money, you can't afford it, don't get married, you can't live well in the face of economic pressure when you get married, and you want to empty gloves white wolf, it's a little damaging in this way.
Second, fear of marriage, choose not to marry, marriage is too troublesome;
The young people who saw the video increased the fear of marriage, which was too troublesome. I finally fell in love, wasted time and material things, and was finally defeated by a high-priced bride price.
Third, advise girls to run away quickly, marrying such a boy will be worrying;
The boys were unwilling to give the bride price, and wrote to the county magistrate, but did not take responsibility. Girls take risks when they get married, they have to work when they have children, they have to take care of children for domestic violence, and their husbands are not guaranteed to cheat on them. Women should live their lives as they are, financially independent, and do not need to rely on men.
Fourth, think that boys are brave enough to say what they dare not say and give support, why give up this relationship for the bride price when two people love each other.
Netizens believe: if the bride price is a thing, if the man is reliable, this money is the fund for the small couple to build a home, and the woman will generally make up more money than the bride price; If the man is unreliable, this money can be regarded as a means to deter the man, after all, there is no capital to leave and marry a second one.
Some netizens proposed what marriage brings to men?
Netizens replied: brought high debt, it is better to live alone, I also support this boy not to get married, do not go to the family of the adopted daughter, really love is not good, choose to enter the debt.
The high cost of marriage, the relationship after marriage is not strong, the inability to have a baby, the boy directly into the burden, and some other negative emotions are repeated in the comment circle as the popularity increases.
For the "zero bride price" in the official reply, many girls are uncomfortable to watch, and the bride price is a ceremony and a guarantee in the in-law's house. More or less will give some bride price, can not reduce the bride price to zero, let alone girls dare to marry.
Most of the current people are insecure, with the transmission of network information, girls have an independent economy, financial resources is the safest statement, many girls will pay attention to material, after all, marriage and life need the support of colorful gifts, love is only part of the marriage, without the support of the economic foundation, how can there be a happy future.
The reality is not to drink the "northwest wind", girls will face various practical challenges when experiencing pregnancy and childbirth, and not being able to work for a short time will bring anxiety to girls, not to mention full-time mothers who have been at home for a long time need to understand the security that money brings them.
Regarding the high bride price, the parents of both parties can negotiate, if they decide not to marry or marry because of the bride price, it means that the relationship between the two people is still not strong enough. Two people can do their own parental work and try to achieve a degree of mutual satisfaction.
What do you think of the high bride price? Willing to accept "zero bride price"?