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In life, the surnames of people around you are common, and it is easy to make names. However, some surnames are not only quite rare, but also not very good. Among them, surnames such as surnames such as, gan, and day, which are easy to make bad associations. Therefore, parents also encounter difficulties when choosing names for their children. There was a gentleman surnamed "Roll", who encountered such a problem, but he did not expect that grandpa casually obtained the name, so that the whole family applauded. So, what exactly is the name given to the child?
Dad's trouble with naming
A gentleman surnamed Roll, he has been ridiculed by many classmates since he was a child because of this special surname. And wherever he goes, just tell someone his name. Others can't help but laugh, some of them unintentionally, but others who are so damaging that they joke about his name.
When he was in school, he had always had a particularly low self-esteem because of this surname. There was a time when academic performance was also bad because of this. But with the encouragement of his teacher and good friends, he gradually came out of this inferiority.
Although in society, there have also been taunts from friends. But he is already quite strong at this time, and he will no longer be like a child who can't stand it. Every time he faced such an embarrassing moment, he was always able to resolve it with wit, and also won the respect of others and admired his wit.
Mr. Roll once complained about his parents because the surname caused him a lot of trouble. He also wanted to change his name himself, but after his mind matured, he had already figured out these things. Not only did he have a successful career, but he also married someone he liked.
Such a happy life makes many people around him quite envious. Mr. Roll and his wife are particularly sweet, and they have lived a world of two. His wife suddenly told him the good news, he was going to be a father.
At this time, Mr. Roll felt that he was too happy, and looking at his wife's belly, it became bigger day by day. He would greet his wife happily every day and take care of everything about her, for fear that his wife and the baby in his belly would be wronged.
After ten months of pregnancy, the wife finally arrived on the day of delivery. At this time, Mr. Roll was also very nervous and excited, and this day finally came. He waited anxiously outside, and when he heard the loud cry of the child, he knew that the child had been born.
The doctor immediately told him the good news, his wife not only gave birth, but also gave birth to twin sons. At this time, Mr. Roll immediately went in to see his wife, and also saw the infant child. At this moment, a big man cried, and he looked at the child in front of him with a special feeling.
This is the continuation of his life, the crystallization of his love with his wife. His wife was quite tired at this time, but she still looked at him with great satisfaction. He bore him two children, which is also his duty as a wife.
With the birth of the child, Mr. Roll's joy also carries some sorrow. Because his surname is not very good, he is afraid that his children will be ridiculed by others in the future. I don't know how to name my child so that my child can avoid these troubles.
Parents really think deeply for their children, which represents all the love parents have for their children. Any parent wants their children to grow up healthy, safe and happy. This is what every parent expects from their children.
The husband's worries, and the wife also knows that if her children follow their father's surname, they will really encounter bad things. The wife also told her husband that she could consider changing the child's surname, and that it was okay to follow hers.
But this behavior was opposed by the child's grandfather. Because giving birth to a boy means continuing the incense for the family. According to the tradition of the older generation, these two children have to follow their father's surname, which is actually passed on to the family.
The wife and father-in-law had a conflict because of the child's surname. Mr. Roll doesn't know who to help now, and he is a little not a person inside and out. The wife and father-in-law are relatively strong, and neither of them is convinced.
The two quarreled several times for this, and although Mr. Roll reconciled in the middle, the atmosphere became dignified day by day. At this time, Mr. Roll realized that it was wrong and could not go on like this. Therefore, discuss it with the child's grandfather.
I originally planned to follow the surname of the child's mother, but I was scolded by my father. However, at this time, my father directly took out the name note that had been written long ago. When Mr. Roll saw the name, he couldn't help laughing, his father was really talented.
He took the note written by his father and asked his wife to read it. At this time, the wife also became smiling, so what is the name of the child?
It turned out that grandpa gave the two grandchildren separate names: rolling wealth and rolling source. The name not only sounds good, but also has a special meaning. In fact, it is a wealth of money, which instantly makes the atmosphere at home better. The wife and father-in-law also revealed the contradiction, and it seems that the name is really an important thing.
Those weird names
There was once a gentleman surnamed Gou, who also encountered troubles. When he arrived at the new company as a manager, his subordinates did not know how to call him normally. If you directly call him Manager Gou, this sounds a bit like swearing.
But if you call his name directly, you will feel as if you are disrespectful to him. Therefore, when addressing this manager, you can only remove the last name and call him manager directly, so as to alleviate the embarrassment.
People with such special surnames, although not very many, exist in the country, and they will always encounter some ridicule in life and society. In fact, these people do not want this surname either, but it is passed down from generation to generation, and they naturally have to follow tradition.
Xiao Liu once encountered a particularly interesting thing, when he was in school, he once met a person with the surname "Law", and the teacher had never seen this surname at that time. Therefore, I was also particularly surprised that I asked a strange question, is there anyone with the same last name as you.
This classmate also answered very sincerely, he said directly: My father and my grandfather. For a while, the whole class laughed, it was really funny.
In fact, when parents name their children, they should try to avoid some homophonies. Most parents want to give their children a different name, but they accidentally give their children a name with a homophony, and this homophony is also easy to cause ambiguity, such as: Li Bendan, many people will want to be stupid.
In addition to homophonic words, try not to have rare characters in the child's name. There was once a 5-year-old child, whose surname was quite special, a rare word, but he never expected that his parents would give himself two more complex rare words.
As a result, on the child's school day, when the teacher called the name, he did not recognize the child's name, which caused a trace of embarrassment. The child has collapsed many times, and other children write names very quickly, and it takes several minutes to write their own names.
Therefore, the child broke down many times and cried, indicating that he did not want to go to school, and produced a certain dislike of school. This is the disadvantage of rare characters, and sometimes it is not easy to get a hukou, because earlier, these rare words could not be recognized by the computer.
Don't give your child too popular names, there was a time. The whole country suddenly set off a trend of Zihan and Zihan, and there were several children with the same name in a class. When the teacher named the name, the children were also stupid and couldn't tell the difference.
Even teachers sometimes get confused and don't know which one the child is. Only by giving the child a nickname so that it can be distinguished. Although these parents want to choose a good name for their children, but such a popular name, I am afraid that they are not necessarily very happy.
How to give your child a good name
A name is not only a title, but also a hope for the child's future. Many children's names have the words peace, security, health, handsome, etc., which are all messages to children. Of course, there are many more special words, which also mean the same thing.
In fact, if you want to give your child a good name, you can consider letting your elders, including the child's grandparents, or grandparents. They are all very fond of the child and can participate in the process. Then, it can invisibly make the relationship between the two families closer.
If your own level of education is not high, then you can find some literate people and name your children.
When choosing a name, it should not only be catchy to read, but also have a special meaning. Many people choose their names from ancient Chinese poetry, because there are many historical allusions in ancient poetry, and if these allusions are put into the name, it will instantly make people shine.
A good name is not only easy to impress, but also helps social interaction. This actually has many benefits for the development of children. It can enhance children's self-confidence and make children more optimistic and sunny.
While choosing a name for your child, you should also pay attention to your child's education. This is actually the most important, because the child receives a good education from an early age, and when he enters society, he will be more likely to be valued by others.
At the same time, after receiving a good education, the ability is also stronger than most people. These are all very important things for a child's life and must not be ignored. From the beginning of naming a child, parents need to be attentive.
Since you choose to raise your child, you should be responsible for him, which is the responsibility of every parent.