Zhang Ailing said: "Many men meet a talented woman and always want to sleep with her, instead of admiring and worshiping her talent. In fact, talent is not necessarily good to sleep, to sleep or to find a lack of talent and posture to sleep, to be plump and coquettish, the more stupid the better, the more stupid the soul. People who are too talented are not easy to play in bed, and the soul is always not easy to return to the body, and thinking has become a habit. ”
Mo Yan once said: "What can shut people up is never reason, but strength, fragile people will lobby their misfortune everywhere, strong people will only be quietly strong." Low-level desires rely on indulgence, high-level desires rely on restraint, top desires rely on torment, don't build your sense of security on others, then it is equivalent to giving your life choices to others. ”
Mo Yan said: "Don't touch a married woman, she is the face of a man; Don't touch a married man who has a woman's reputation. Women who are not yours, do not shush and ask for warmth; Not your man, don't linger easily, this is the basic bottom line of being a person. Regardless of men and women, the price of extramarital affairs may have to be repaid with your lifetime. ”
Yang Wei said: Both men and women, over 30 years old, should cherish marriage. Marriage relationships are prone to tension when they are kept for one year, painful for three years, cold for five years, and itchy for seven years. Building a home requires a lot of difficulties, but destroying a home is only a thought. The beauty of the world is not all on the surface, and foreign relations do not necessarily have true love, and many of them are hunted by strong people with ghosts in their hearts. Giving children a happy childhood and consolidating a correct outlook on life and value foundation for children are the most basic responsibilities and dignity of parents. In fact, happiness is very simple: there is a home to go back to, someone to wait, and food to eat. The years are quiet, in fact, it is to be able to have a bowl of hot soup and a lamp that lights up for you.
"There is something to say, something to say, do not be guarded when getting along, and have no scruples when chatting, this is probably the best relationship between husband and wife."
"Extramarital affairs, that is, two sick people, thinking that they have encountered good medicine, in fact, they have encountered anesthetics, and when the effect of the medicine passes, it hurts more than before, maybe they still encounter the deadly Heding Hong."
Yang Wei said: Don't touch married men, they are the future of women. Don't care about women who aren't you, don't show affection for men who aren't you, this is the basic principle of being a human being and the bottom line of the relationship between men and women. Always remember that as a wife, be faithful to your husband. Let the husband be proud on the outside, be loyal to the wife as a husband, and not let the wife become the laughing stock of others. As parents, lead by example and don't let your child become someone else's mouth. As children, fight and don't let your parents down. No matter what the relationship, once the relationship is exhausted, fate will come to an end. Learn to face mistakes calmly, exit politely, return yourself to yourself, return others to others, let flowers become flowers, and let trees become trees. From now on, the mountains and rivers will be separated and never see each other, and may we never see each other again in the next life, no longer miss, no longer owe anything.
The so-called success is: when a person reaches middle age, the partner is still the original match, the child is his own, there is no debt outside, the family is not noisy or noisy, the teeth and hair are still there, the waist is not bent, the legs are not painful, they can eat and sleep, they have a good body and a bad memory.