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How legendary is the life of "wheelchair girl" Li Ximei?
He is only 80 centimeters tall, but he has more than three million fans on the whole network, and has been ridiculed, deceived, and praised by the Central Radio Network and the Economic Daily.
Despite her physical disability, she has worked hard to make her own world.
From a pocket girl, she has become a female president with a net worth of tens of millions, and has married two handsome husbands of one meter eight, what is so remarkable about her?
Terminally ill at birth
Li Ximei is a post-90s generation, she was born in a rural area, and her family conditions are not very good.
She was born different from a normal baby, like a "porcelain doll" and shattered when touched.
When Li Ximei's mother was taking care of her, she would break bones if she didn't pay attention, and her home was always filled with her cries.
At first, Li Ximei's mother didn't know what the situation was, but as soon as she touched Li Ximei, she cried harder, and had no choice but to find a doctor.
The doctor couldn't see anything just by looking at it, but his intuition told the doctor that it was not a good sign, and when the test results came back, everyone was surprised.
The hospital diagnosis is congenital osteogenesis imperfecta, also known as brittle bone disease, commonly known as "porcelain dolls", according to the current medical level there is no possibility of cure, and it is likely that Li Ximei will not be able to walk in this life.
No one expected that this disease with such a low probability would happen to Li Ximei.
Hearing this news, Li Ximei's mother almost fainted, they couldn't believe that their eldest son was healthy, how could their daughter get this strange disease.
They repeatedly asked the doctor to check again, and although the cost of the examination was a bit difficult for them, it was nothing for their daughter.
And the results of the examination repeatedly extinguished the light in their eyes, and in the end, they could only bring Li Ximei home with tears.
Brittle bone disease is not only easy to fracture, but also affects the skin, ears, teeth, etc., in Li Ximei's growth path, sometimes hearing will suddenly weaken, or accidentally fracture again, every time her mother will hide her face and cry.
Although Li Ximei's road to growth was a little difficult, fortunately, her parents did not abandon Li Ximei because of this, and her brother at home was also very good to her, so she developed Li Ximei's cheerful and optimistic personality.
Gradually, Li Ximei has also grown up, and although her personality is optimistic, it is inevitable that there will be times when she doubts herself.
From childhood to adulthood, her parents did not demand too much of themselves, and sometimes when Li Ximei just fell but did not break a bone, her parents would praise her, and when she was a child, she did not understand what to praise.
It wasn't until she grew up that she gradually understood her parents' praise, which was not only praising her, but also soothing her heart.
Whenever she saw that the children of the same age around her could help the family do some housework and get praise from the family, but she couldn't do anything, she had suicidal thoughts.
But the idea soon dissipated when she met a man who could help her find a job.
Li Ximei has been in a state of confusion for so many years, and now she has such an opportunity, she is anxious to express herself.
At that time, she thought it was a rainy and sunny day, and she didn't think it was the calm before the rainstorm.
"Change your destiny" scam
In 2005, Li Ximei followed the man to Shanghai, but what she didn't expect was that the job turned out to be "begging", she only needed to sit there every day, and stretch out her hand when she saw someone look at her more, and other people's money was her salary.
Her self-esteem did not allow her to beg with others, she wanted to go home, but the man did not agree, and only then did she realize that she had encountered human traffickers.
It may be that the heavens saw her too pitiful, so her father found out about this and smuggled Li Ximei back home, and she escaped.
In 2006, Li Ximei followed her parents to Zhengzhou, she saw someone "selling" on the street to make money, she also had this idea, she at first felt that this idea was a bit whimsical, she was a little hesitant to tell her parents.
Later, she plucked up the courage to mention this idea to her parents, she thought they would reject her and think she was unrealistic, but she did not expect that her parents were very supportive of her.
Her parents immediately bought her a sound with good sound quality, and her "singing" work officially began.
At that time, she said to her mother, "Actually, I don't use such a good stereo. Her mother said, "My daughter is going to use the best." Li Ximei was particularly moved.
At that time, they spent a lot of time researching where to sing better, and then the three unanimously decided that there should be more people in the square.
Many people were initially attracted by her "short" figure, but later she retained them with her own singing, and she gradually became confident and had some fans.
At that time, Li Ximei was already an adult, her height was forever stuck at 80 centimeters, and when she was "singing", someone would ask her if she was caused by any disease, and she generously admitted: "I have brittle bones, but I don't grow tall." ”
At that time, there would be sympathetic glances and some bad eyes, but she didn't care, she had long accepted this fact, she was still so confident and cheerful.
In 2013, she was invited by a media company in Zhengzhou to be an anchor, and she did live broadcasting on a platform called YY Live.
Li Ximei, who has a good singing voice, quickly accumulated some fans on the Internet, and her salary is getting higher and higher, and she has some savings, but she is not satisfied with this.
She partnered with friends to start a company in Qingdao, and she still broadcasts live online.
Liked by healthy and handsome men
Li Ximei has had two marriages, her ex-husband Shenyang met on the Internet, when she was still live broadcasting, Shenyang often left messages in his live broadcast room, and would also chat with her in private messages.
Shenyang is a native of Heilongjiang, who grew up lonely and bitterly since childhood, and before he was a minor, all his relatives passed away one after another.
Perhaps the same tragic two can always see the softness in each other's hearts and cherish each other, so they met offline shortly after they met online.
The two met for the first time in 2014, and in the many meetings since, Li Ximei was inextricably moved by Shenyang's carefulness.
A tall and sound man always took care of Li Ximei so much, and in the end she fell into the gentle countryside of Shenyang.
But this time her parents were very opposed, they felt that how a healthy and handsome man in Shenyang could look at their daughter, they were worried that their daughter would be deceived.
Her parents are old, they love and blame themselves for this defective daughter, they have always blamed their daughter's disability for so many years, and they feel bad when they see their daughter suffering so much for so many years.
And Shenyang looked so unreliable, they were unwilling to hand over their daughter to him, but despite their strong opposition, they still couldn't screw Li Ximei's insistence.
In 2015, Li Ximei married this northeastern man five years older than her, and in the face of such an outcome, they could only pray that their thinking was wrong and that Shenyang was not a bad person.
When she was young, she stubbornly thought that she had encountered salvation, what if it was an abyss?
In 2016, Li Ximei became pregnant, and her parents did not agree to her giving birth to the child, because they felt that Li Ximei's physical condition was not suitable for carrying a child, and if it was serious, she might lose her life.
But the result is still the same as a year ago, and they still can't stop Li Ximei's decision.
During pregnancy, Li Ximei attached great importance to her body, for fear of bumping, it would affect the child if she was not careful, and she also paid great attention to the intake of nutrition.
She finally gave birth to a healthy son in 2017, and the news also reassured her parents.
But heaven always does not make people smooth sailing, and it didn't take long for the company to have problems, owed six or seven hundred thousand debts, almost bankruptcy, and Li Ximei was about to collapse.
At this time, Shenyang was restless again, Shenyang and Li Ximei had no job after they got married, and now Li Ximei's company owes huge debts.
Shenyang revealed his true face at this time, the usual careful and considerate Shenyang suddenly became irritable, even Li Ximei could not react a little, he began to yell at Li Ximei, and kept asking Li Ximei for money, and finally ruthlessly abandoned her and her son to go.
The successive blows made Li Ximei slumped, she was often in a daze at home, did not eat or drink and had no mood swings, and her parents made them feel bad when they saw her like this.
Fortunately, Li Ximei also has her brother and sister, who accompanied Li Ximei through the most difficult period together, and often carried her son to her side, and the child's anger also swept away Li Ximei's haze.
Do it all over again
Even if not for herself, she had to cheer up for her son, she said: "I am a mother, and I am responsible for my son." ”
In 2019, Li Ximei founded her own company, she seized the opportunity in the live broadcast industry she is familiar with, this time she felt that she gave it a go and invested a lot of money in live broadcast goods.
In fact, she is also apprehensive, although live broadcasting is a familiar field, but all the funds are invested in it, which is tantamount to a big gamble.
God opened a door for you and opened another window, this time she bet right, her worth skyrocketed to tens of millions, at this time she once again seized the business opportunity and set up another cosmetics company.
At the same time, the Internet has also brought labels such as "pocket girl" and "disabled female president", and she no longer has the inferiority of herself as she did in adolescence, but is very confident in the face of media "ridicule".
Li Ximei is also a kind person, failing to go to school when she was a child has always been a thorn in her heart, and whenever she sees children of the same age happily carrying their schoolbags to school, she always stubbornly comforts herself: "There is nothing fun in going to school." ”
She knows that as a person who is different from others, she is dodging when facing the eyes of others, so she has done a lot of public welfare undertakings and donated money to many welfare institutions such as welfare homes and schools for the deaf and dumb.
She hopes that the world can be kinder and kinder, so that there will be many fewer children who are suffering in the middle of the night.
She is saving these children, and she is redeeming her childhood self.
When a person's kindness is scattered like raindrops, Fuze will also come to the door, Li Ximei met a man who loves himself and feels sorry for himself, and Li Ximei, who has a double harvest of love and career, is very rosy and shiny.
In April 2023, Li Ximei released a wedding photo of herself and a man on the Internet, and it can be seen from the photo that the man looks handsome.
Many netizens are afraid that Li Ximei's husband will be like the previous man, at this time Li Ximei turned into a "domineering female president" guardian: "My husband and I really love each other, and he is not greedy for my money." ”
Netizens were relieved to hear this sentence.
Soon after, Li Ximei became pregnant again, but unfortunately the child was not saved.
The doctor said that the first birth has brought irreversible damage to her body, and Li Ximei's body is now even more difficult to conceive, but fortunately, her husband also understands her and does not force her.
The ups and downs of Li Ximei, a female president worth tens of millions of dollars, have formed her current tenacious character, and her life experience has inspired many people.
Bitterness and happiness always go hand in hand, and the suffering in life only increases unabated, and like Li Ximei with an optimistic attitude, it will one day pass.