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Wen 丨 Little Cheese Bureau
Editor丨Xiaoxu Cheese Bureau
On February 27, 2021, the famous attack actor Wu Mengda died of liver cancer, and as soon as the news came out, a number of big-name stars, including Stephen Chow, Andy Lau, and Chow Yun-fat, went to mourn.
After Uncle Da left, he also left too many twists and turns for his widow Hou Shanyan, but her handling let everyone know how clever Uncle Da chose her as his wife.
Once he became an angle, he became addicted to gambling and owed debts
When Wu Mengda was young, his family was not very good, through his father's hard work, the family had an improvement and started a small business, originally wanted Wu Mengda to inherit his career, saw Wu Mengda go to the cinema all day to watch movies, secretly in the art training class to learn acting, so I wanted him to try, big deal after the failure to have this father to give him the bottom.
With the support of his father, Wu Mengda entered the crew from the dragon trap, and slowly got the appreciation of the director, and played the role of Hu Tiehua in "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang" at the age of 26, which made Wu Mengda quickly popular.
Through the spread of this play, Uncle Da has been appreciated by many producers and directors, and since then, invitations have continued, and his value has also risen, and his high-paid income and the pursuit of relatives and friends around him have made the already young and vigorous Wu Mengda very frivolous.
When a friend played cards with Wu Mengda, his hand was very good, and he had enough money, Wu Mengda bet more and more ruthlessly, and then such a thousand dollars back stimulated, Wu Mengda soon became addicted to gambling.
Always wanted to fight to turn a bicycle into a motorcycle, but then his hand became very smelly, again and again, let him spend his savings, friends around him to borrow a sum of money, a vote to return the book, Wu Mengda, who has lost red eyes, saw that someone was willing to lend him money, gladly accepted, and then stud did not succeed but owed a large amount of gambling debts.
Wu Mengda, who already had a family and two daughters at that time, took his wife and children to hide from debt collectors every day because of huge gambling debts, and his wife Mi Lili often complained about a good home, which made Wu Mengda's gambling unstable.
Because the creditor's harassment day and night had a great impact on Wu Mengda's wife and children, the two daughters were in hiding every day, and their young hearts were traumatized like never before.
Wu Mengda saw such a situation, the psychology is also very sad, if he did not gamble, his family would not have to follow him around to avoid debts, his daughters can also go to school without worry, now even food and clothing can not be solved, Wu Meng also woke up and vowed never to gamble in the casino again.
Fortunately, the prodigal son turned back to the gold and did not change, and Wu Mengda, who painfully changed his previous mistakes, met the most important golden partner in his life, "Stephen Chow", the nonsensical and funny image of the two in "Gambling Saint", which made the audience laugh, Wu Mengda also made the audience notice him again, his changeable image on the screen was loved by the public, and since then Wu Mengda has become famous again.
Generally good actors have high emotions and strong empathy ability, these emotions can self-digest is good, once there is emotional sustenance that is out of control, Wu Mengda during the period of emotional flooding, it is also the period when he and Stephen Chow's career is at its peak, as the saying goes, "when you are sleepy, someone will send a pillow".
The company needs to develop must inject fresh blood, and Wu Mengda, as an old man of the company, also needs to be a master and take apprentices, and the apprentice he brings is a beautiful girl "Lu Shaoci" who is in her youth.
The girl's Muqiang psychology, coupled with the worship of the predecessors, Lu Shaoci of the lark character expressed his admiration for Wu Mengda all day long, which made Wu Mengda very useful, and also very helpful to this newcomer, and cared for in every way, and the two gradually gave birth to a different kind of emotion in the slow relationship.
Wu Mengda, who is in the middle of the day, has long worn off his feelings in the life of his wife as light as water, and Mi Lili also knows what her husband thinks, so she turns a blind eye to what he does, and goes by his nature, as long as he does not violate his bottom line, he can look at the face of his two daughters and be tolerant of him.
But no one expected that Wu Mengda was getting more and more excessive, and sometimes he didn't even return home, and went directly to Lu Shaoci, just under the indulgence of Mi Lili, in 1989 Lu Shaoci told Wu Mengda that he was pregnant with his child, and Wu Mengda who got the news was ecstatic, but Mi Lili was angry when she learned it.
His husband has children with other women, and no one can accept it, but this is already the case, Wu Mengda also often goes home to visit her in order to maintain Mi Lili's marriage, but during this period, Uncle Da, who is caught in the middle, is painful and happy, on the one hand, he accompanies his wife, and on the other hand, he has to take care of Lu Shaoci's physical and mental health, for fear that the bad mood will shock the baby in the belly.
In October, Lu Shaoci also gave birth to a daughter for Wu Mengda, so Wu Mengda began his happy life of "two women and one husband", although the two queens did not see the king, but both knew each other's existence, or spent several years with Wu Mengda.
Wu Mengda, who already has three daughters, needs financial prosperity to be able to support five women in the family, and in order for the family to be able to live better, he also opened the state of desperate Sanlang, playing hard filming, and doing his best to contribute to this family.
Hit the most important woman "Hou Shanyan"
Maintaining "two families" has made Wu Mengda exhausted, who promised to see the "Hou Shanyan" with outstanding appearance, Wu Mengda was directly stunned, his flooded heart once again set off ripples, the two were filmed in Malaysia in 1993 "Happy Events in the Flower Field" was the first time they met.
Hou Shanyan, who was crowned with the title of Miss Malaysia, had countless excellent men behind her bow down under her pomegranate skirt, and at first faced Wu Mengda, who was plain-looking and quite old, she did not take this man to heart at all, and she did not care about his pursuit.
Wu Mengda ignored Hou Shanyan's love, did not intend to give up, but aroused his interest even more, he took care of Hou Shanyan in the crew every day, Hou Shanyan did not know the place when acting, he also patiently explained to him how to act more naturally, from time to time let the director take more care of her, and in private often chatted with her to relieve boredom and make her happy.
Under the relationship between the two, Hou Shanyan recognized a different Wu Mengda, it turned out that there was an interesting soul hidden under his ordinary appearance, meticulous about work, and also very attitude in life, not long after, she became curious about Wu Mengda, wanted to understand him, wanted to know his experience, wanted to participate in his life, so the two ran to the river of love together.
But just when the relationship between the two was strong, Hou Shanyan's girlfriend alerted her with a word, the girlfriend said that Wu Mengda has a wife, and there is a little wife outside, don't just think about the two falling in love, think about the future, don't let Wu Mengda play with Hou Shanyan's feelings.
After listening to her girlfriend's sober and blunt words, Hou Shanyan couldn't help but be a little worried, she was worried that after the two were together, would they be the same as his other two "wives", three women accompanied a man to live a confused life, with Hou Shanyan's conditions, there was no need to suffer such grievances, so she said to Wu Mengda that if she wanted to be with her, she must marry Ming Media and give Hou Shanyan a dignified name.
Just when Wu Mengda was still worried about this matter, Lu Shaoci in Hong Kong received the news that he was in love with another woman, and Lu Shaoci who could not accept this fact directly left Wu Mengda with the child, and the original wife also knew that her husband was a dog who could not eat, so Wu Mengda filed for divorce.
The successive departure of the two just made way for Wu Mengda, and soon after completing the divorce procedures with the original partner, Youhe Xinhuan entered the marriage hall.
Soon after the two got married, Hou Shanyan gave birth to a son and a daughter for Wu Mengda, and Wu Mengda also became a good husband, in addition to filming, he accompanied Hou Shanyan at home to live a small life.
But where is there a cat that does not steal, Hou Shanyan, who has always held the financial power of the family, found that the family's money is always inexplicably less than a few sums, and found that Wu Mengda always takes the family's money and helps his two predecessors from time to time, Hou Shanyan endured his anger and asked Wu Mengda, why did he give so much money to the two women who had been cut off?
And Wu Mengda also explained that the two of them were raising their children after all, and they didn't want to be a father without money, and over time saw that Wu Mengda just beat money and did not break the connection with the two predecessors, which made Hou Shanyan's hanging heart fall.
Wu Mengda said in a show that he has the obligation to take care of the responsibility of the two "confidantes", because his youth and rashness hurt them, no matter what they have, Wu Mengda will do his best to help them.
And Wu Mengda generously said that he still loves them, but from love to family love, can go to the second calmly say these words, presumably Wu Mengda and Hou Shanyan have long been talked, with a new home do not forget to take on their responsibility as a father, this is still quite respectable.
At the same time, this also reflects Hou Shanyan's strength, the two have been married for 28 years and have been supporting her husband's ex, and he must also understand her husband's good intentions.
Wu Mengda is also a physical routine, not allowing himself to have a moment of slack, in order to give his family better living conditions, he kept filming and advertising, and even put himself tired into the ICU, and then devoted himself to work after coming out.
Knowing that his body was declining day by day, Wu Mengda made a will early and divided his property in half, one for his children equally, and one for his wife Hou Shanyan.
At the end of 2020, Wu Mengda was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, fought the disease for a year, and finally left this world, and on the day of the funeral, many friends in the circle came to mourn, and Hou Shanyan cried and cried on the spot.
And Hou Shanyan also took over her husband's responsibility, regularly sent money to his two predecessors, and never stopped supporting them in the two years since Wu Mengda's death, which is why Uncle Da is willing to hand over ordinary property to her.
What is called husband and wife, this is called husband and wife, not the disaster to fly separately, but whether poor or rich, sick or old, people who have to carry their whole life with them, are called husband and wife.