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preface
In 2021, the famous Hong Kong star Wu Mengda passed away, and many people felt sorry for this, but looking back on his life, people can't help but sigh, he once lost his family property because of gambling, and owed a butt "affair debt", playing various beauties in the palm of his hand.
But his wife Hou Shanyan has always been consistent with her, and many people feel unworthy of her, but after Wu Mengda's death, people found out how wise her approach was, which also reflected how smart Wu Mengda was.
Speaking of Wu Mengda, everyone will affectionately call him Uncle Da, and his nonsensical performance in the movie is believed to arouse many people's childhood memories, but Uncle Da, who looks honest and honest on the surface, makes people can't believe how he could do such a ridiculous thing.
In an interview, he was asked by a reporter why he owed so many amorous debts, and his answer was really admirable and shocking, why did people like him not be pushed onto the "shame shelf" but won the respect of many people?
He can't inherit the family business
Wu Mengda's ancestral home is Xiamen, Fujian, when he was born, his family was not very good, he followed his father to live in Hong Kong at the age of 7, he has an older sister and two younger brothers, as the eldest son he is not a good role model, since he was a child, he was not interested in reading, but only had a soft spot for acting.
But his father was strongly opposed at that time, and did not agree with him to engage in this industry, and his father wanted Wu Mengda to go to school honestly and return home to inherit the family business (medicine store), but he was not interested in doing business at all.
So when he was 21 years old, he secretly applied for the third class of TVB artist training with his father behind his back, and there were Chow Yun-fat and Ren Dahua in the same class as him at that time, and most of the people who entered the training class at that time had poor family conditions.
But Wu Mengda's family was able to do business at that time, so he often invited his classmates out to eat and drink, and it is said that Zhou Yunfa had a good relationship with him at that time, and often went to Wu Mengda's house to live, so the relationship between the two was very good.
Sitting on the actor began to fall
Wu Mengda directly became a contracted actor of TVB after graduation and officially embarked on the road of acting, at the same time, he also met his favorite object, the woman named Mi Lili, under Wu Mengda's "chase and fierce" offensive, this girl fell, both fell in love, and soon got married, and gave birth to twin daughters after marriage.
But the birth of two daughters did not awaken his responsibility as a father, and although he had a family lineage, he still played very flower, like a single guy, spending days and nights outside, without considering Miley Lily's feelings at all.
At the age of 28, he became popular for starring in "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang", which made him lose himself quickly, began to indulge in women and gambling, lived a life of indulgence, completely disregarded his wife and daughter at home, and even his elderly mother was seriously ill and he was too lazy to take care of it, and did not take it seriously at all.
Because he was addicted to gambling, he owed gambling debts, and if it weren't for Zhou Yunfa helping him behind his back, he might not have achieved anything later, he didn't consider his wife's feelings when he was messing with flowers outside, and directly lived with actress Lu Shaoci outside, and let the other party give birth to a daughter for himself, you can imagine how embarrassing Mi Lili's situation was at that time.
It is not enough to have a wife and a lover, but also to "engage" women
But his wife did not choose to divorce him immediately after learning these things, after all, the two have gone through more than ten years, gone through the most difficult days together, and they still have two daughters to raise.
For his wife's approach, Wu Mengda did not appreciate it, nor did he return to the family, in his 42 years, he met Hou Shanyan while filming in Singapore, and the two quickly "engaged" together, this time it was Wu Mengda's second marriage infidelity.
For Wu Mengda, he didn't care at all, although there were wives and children at home and lovers outside, he didn't hold back his heart to pursue a little girl, at that time, Hou Shanyan was still a fledgling little girl, how could he resist the temptation of this love scene "old cannon", and soon handed over his sincerity.
Seeing that her husband was so unrestrained, Mi Lili completely collapsed, and this time decisively chose to unilaterally announce the divorce, after all, she had already given Wu Mengda a chance, but he didn't know how to cherish it, so the marriage that lasted for 18 years was ruined in Wu Mengda's hands.
But what is worse than the original match is Lu Shaoci, she always thought that she could "ascend to the position", could get Wu Mengda's sincerity, let him devote himself to herself, but what she didn't expect was that she was abandoned, and it was really sad to be in the case of 5 years of nameless companionship and a daughter.
Less than two years later, Yan Shan became pregnant, Wu Mengda officially proposed to her, the two became husband and wife, and gave birth to a son and a daughter, which shows that his love history is also chaotic enough, this is only on the surface, whether it is really difficult to say in private, because his "impropriety" everyone is not optimistic about his new relationship.
Because at that time, Wu Mengda had already made a lot of money because of the filming fire, and at that time, Hou Shanyan was just a girl 22 years younger than Wu Mengda, which made people look at her like she saw Wu Mengda's money.
Amazing answer
Although he is very scum, but he is still good, very sincere, every time asked by a reporter about his emotional experience, he will respond generously, "no way, I can't hold it", this answer is really shocking and admirable, if it is changed to other people, how will they not say their most true thoughts, but he is very honest and does not make any excuses.
He and Hou Shanyan lived well after marriage, he did not mess with flowers again, and life finally returned to calm, but at this time a storm almost ruined the relationship between the two.
Give money to the ex
Hou Shanyan accidentally found Wu Mengda's regular remittance records, and the amount was not small, after learning about this, her first reaction was that he would not look for small ones outside, and then began to find someone to investigate this matter, and finally found that these remittances were to Mi Lili and Lu Shaoci.
Since Wu Mengda separated from them, Wu Mengda has been sending them money, and the scattered sum is also a lot of money.
After changing three women, giving birth to 5 children, and each family's expenses were 800,000 yuan per month, which was a lot of money in zero years, but there was no way who let this be his own "affair debt", no matter what.
Desperately filming in order to make money
Because the expenses are too large, he can only continue to film to make money, in 2001, he and Stephen Chow partnered, with "Shaolin Football" broke the box office record of Hong Kong films, established his status as a "golden supporting role", in order to make more money, he began to develop in the mainland, in the process he was rumored several times to have "heart disease" and was physically worried.
In 2014, he developed symptoms of heart failure, spent a long time in the hospital, and then had to recuperate and work, even though his body was overwhelmed, but he could not stop, because he had been paying for the debt of his youth, hoping to make more money in his lifetime so that they could live without worries.
However, some people broke the news that Mi Lili's twin daughters have long grown up and no longer need their father's sponsorship, and Lu Shaoci's daughter, with the help of Wu Mengda, has been very good academic performance, and after studying abroad for many years, she returned to Hong Kong to become a doctor.
Only Hou Yanshan's children need Wu Mengda to raise because of their young age, especially his son Wu Weilun, who was born in 2003, because he is an old son, Wu Mengda is very fond of him, almost responding, but the younger son is not contentious, often skips class at school, and always likes to make trouble, most of the money Wu Mengda earned in his later years was also spent on his son.
Passed away leaving a legacy
During the Spring Festival in 2021, Wu Mengda's condition worsened, and he was diagnosed with liver cancer soon after, and died not long after, when he died, he held Hou Shanyan's hand affectionately and said to her: I'm sorry for you in this life, and you have to live well alone in the future.
After Wu Mengda left, she was heartbroken and visibly emaciated. Perhaps thinking that it is not easy for Hou Shanyan to take care of herself in this life, Wu Mengda divided his inheritance into two halves, half of which was Hou Shanyan's, and the other half was divided equally among the children.
Faced with the inheritance left by Wu Mengda, Hou Shanyan did not enjoy it for herself, but began to devote herself to the care of Wu Mengda's parents.
Many people have persuaded her to find someone to marry again, but she chose to keep the memories left by Wu Mengda to live, although Wu Mengda is very careful, but just look at the last wife he found to know that he is very smart, found the right person to complete his life, even if he is not there now, she still does not remarry.
On March 7, 2021, Wu Mengda's funeral was held in Hong Kong, many friends were present to say goodbye, and his wife Hou Yanshan's eyes were red and very haggard.
The next day, Wu Mengda came out of the funeral, and the twin daughters (Kaixin, Kaier) born to him and his ex-wife Mi Lily arrived at the scene in advance, and the ceremony was completed at 11:45, the staff pushed Wu Mengda's coffin out of the spiritual hall, Wu Weilun held his father's posthumous photo, and boarded the hearse accompanied by one of his sisters (Kaixin, one of the twins).
After getting on the hearse in the coffin, his wife Hou Yanshan was helped out of the spirit hall, and it was Uncle Da's ex-wife and daughter who helped her get into the car, which also shows that the relationship between the two families is relatively harmonious, I believe that Uncle Da can also be blinded under the Nine Springs.
Many people are curious about where Hou Yanshan's daughter Wu Chuyu went, in fact, it was Australia to Hong Kong at that time, because of the mask reason in the hotel isolation, failed to send her father the last ride.
After the hearse arrived at the crematorium, the children stayed by the coffin, watching their father turn into a wisp of light smoke, Wu Weilun's mood was very low, chased by reporters, his muscles were tense, suppressing emotions and gritting his teeth, only 19-year-old He suppressed sad emotions and pretended to be calm.
When asked by reporters where Hou Yanshan planned to bury her husband, she did not answer, but Uncle Da's brother Wu Lida said in an interview that his brother had a wish before his death, that is, he wanted his ashes to be buried in Malaysia.
summary
Because Hou Shanyan gave birth to a son and a daughter for her, living in Malaysia all year round, after Wu Mengda fell ill, Hou Shanyan also rushed from Malaysia to Hong Kong, originally to visit the patient, but due to isolation, it eventually became a farewell, such an encounter, thinking about it is also sad.
So he wanted to be able to accompany his wife and children after he left, so he wanted to bury his ashes in Malaysia.