Divorce is a very painful thing, it not only causes harm to the couple, but also has a great impact on the children and the family. However, some recent studies have shown that most divorced couples are not caused by conflicts between third parties or mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, but because of the following five reasons.
1. Poor communication
Poor communication is the most common problem between couples, and it can lead to all kinds of conflicts and problems. In their married life, many couples neglect the communication between husband and wife because they are busy with work, family, children and other things. In this case, the contradictions and problems between the husband and wife will continue to accumulate, and eventually evolve into irreconcilable divorce. Therefore, the communication between husband and wife is very important, only through good communication, can we solve problems in time, avoid the accumulation of contradictions, and ensure the relationship between husband and wife and marriage happiness.
Second, the lifestyle is not harmonious
Before getting married, both may have their own habits and ways of living. However, once you enter marriage, these habits and ways need to adapt and adjust to each other. If the two cannot adapt to each other, it is easy to quarrel over small things in life, which may eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage. For example, some couples have differences in hygiene habits, work and rest time, leisure hobbies, etc., resulting in the inability of both parties to understand and support each other, and eventually lead to the breakdown of marriage.
Third, personality incompatibility
If the personality difference between the two parties is too large or the conflict is obvious, it will lead to the contradictions and differences between the husband and wife that cannot be reconciled. For example, some couples are more introverted and one is more extroverted, resulting in an inability to understand and support each other in life. In this case, the contradictions and problems between the husband and wife will increase. Therefore, before marriage, husband and wife should fully understand each other's personality characteristics to avoid the breakdown of marriage due to personality incompatibility.
Fourth, the three views are different
Husband and wife want to support each other for a long time. It is very important to have the same three views. Otherwise, in the face of some controversial topics, always come to contradictory conclusions, not to mention cutting the robe and breaking the righteousness, it is possible to fight in a big way. For example, some couples have different concepts and values in their approach to family, career, marriage, children's education, etc., resulting in the inability to understand each other in life. In this case, the conflicts and problems between the husband and wife will increase, eventually leading to divorce.
5. Attitude towards money
Money issues involve attitudes towards premarital property, the management of family assets, the proportion of children's education contributions, frugality or extravagance. These are all potential sources of conjugal disputes. For example, some couples have huge differences in their attitudes towards money, from incomprehension at first, to disdain, and finally to anger. Money is one of the important foundations of marriage and family, and couples who have inconsistent attitudes towards money often do not end well.
Therefore, in marriage, husband and wife should strengthen communication, respect each other's living habits and ways, fully understand each other's personality characteristics and values, treat money issues rationally, and avoid the breakdown of marriage due to these problems. Only through good communication and mutual understanding, or if one party can make a compromise, can the relationship between husband and wife and marital happiness be guaranteed.
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