Sexless marriage, isn't this topic a bit out of the ordinary?
It is not convenient for us to talk about our own privacy, nor is it convenient to comment on the privacy of others, but this is indeed an example in life, ignoring or evading can not solve the problem, it is better to use the plot in the TV series to talk about it.
Wang Liren and Jing Zhiqiu are less than forty years old, their children go to elementary school, and their lives are rich, Wang Liren runs a lot of company affairs, because he is busy, he lives in the study and separates from his wife in marriage, but there is no problem with his relationship.
But after a long time of separation, it is not normal, Jing Zhiqiu has always wanted to be close to her husband, but her husband is too busy and lacks space to be alone, so he is delayed, and it drags on for a year.
A year? Isn't it a bit long? This is not normal.
Finally, in the face of practice, Wang Liren knew that he had problems with his body, he was a reasonable person, chose to go to the hospital for examination and consultation, the doctor also said, this is not an isolated case, stress does cause dysfunction, to relax the mood, take some drugs, it will be fine.
But Wang Liren went to see a doctor himself, he didn't tell his wife, and he didn't dare to let his wife know that he was taking medicine, and he continued to hide from his wife at home, and did not dare to sleep together, this bitterness we can all understand.
When many people encounter such problems, they will have a sense of shame, dare not go to the doctor, do not communicate with their partners, and slowly more and more contradictions.
Wang Liren can go to the hospital immediately, and they go to the psychologist to help them solve their dilemma, which is a very correct approach, if you do not seek professional help, it is likely that the relationship will deteriorate, which actually provides a good solution idea.
The husband and wife are actually intimate, but they need some private space, and Jing Zhiqiu believes that the reason for the estrangement between them is that they are pampered at home, inconsistent with their husband's pace, and cannot keep up with her husband's pace.
Wang Liren believes that the problem between them is because he is too busy, neglects his spiritual life, and only wants to meet the needs of his family as materially as possible.
After discovering that her husband had physical problems, Jing Zhiqiu inquired about sexless marriage on the Internet, which is actually an attitude of facing the problem, we do not complain and do not avoid the problem, it is possible to solve the problem more efficiently.
The marriage of Wang Liren and Jing Zhiqiu in "Shining Her" is almost perfect in the eyes of outsiders, and it is a good day for other people's families, but the problems and obscure problems they have can only be faced by husband and wife.
When people reach middle age, they have to face natural aging, they have to face the neglect of their partners, and they also have to face helplessness in their work and career, which make us have words of suffering, nowhere to vent, home is not a garbage station for bad emotions, but who to vent with if you don't vent with your family?
There is nothing wrong with being able to bring the more obscure problems of gender relations in marriage to film and television dramas, and we have seen some real social thinking outside of the lively plot, which is particularly valuable.