The 2023 college entrance examination results are out, and the child only took the 340 exam, what should parents do?

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Thousands of waits, the 2023 college entrance examination results have finally been announced!

Can't wait to let my son check the score, and the moment he saw the score, the family's hearts suddenly went cold.

The total score is only 340 points!

To be honest, I never thought that my child could get so bad, although I didn't have high hopes for him, but I want to be able to get into a university, even the worst three.

Now I think back to the whole family in order to make him better able to study.

Specially rented housing outside the school to accompany students;

did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to ask him for one-on-one tutoring;

Supplement nutrition for him to cook in different ways....

All the hard work in the end came to such a result, saying that it is not uncomfortable, it must be false.

The planned "graduation trip" was also canceled.

The Apple phone and computer bought for him are also ready to be sold.

The above "complaint" comes from a parent of a candidate, and I think this parent is not alone.

Because, as far as the college entrance examination is concerned, "a few joys and a few sorrows" is the normal state, after all, the college entrance examination score cannot be 600+.

There are always some candidates who, although they have paid a lot, have not received satisfactory results.

So, if the child fails the exam, as a parent, what can you do except be uncomfortable?

The answer to this question, I think, is nothing more than the following.

1. Try to convince yourself to accept reality

Since the college entrance examination results have become a fact, there is no point in blaming the child, being annoyed, and blaming yourself, either you can't get by with yourself or can't get by with your child, just increase your troubles.

Of course, there are many ways to convince yourself.

For example, some netizens said, "Think about how many points you scored in the college entrance examination that year?" IQ is also inherited."

"Children do not do well in the test, as parents also have some responsibilities, you should also reflect on yourself."

"Children are so mentally healthy, which is much more important than grades, and some children, although their grades are high, but they have serious psychological problems, and the gains outweigh the losses."

In short, no matter what, self-deception or not, parents must try to convince themselves to accept reality and stop blocking themselves.

After all, life is not only the college entrance examination.

2. Actively respond to the college entrance examination volunteer filling out and choose a good employment major!

In the case of an increasingly high acceptance rate, even if the college entrance examination score is only 340 points, there is still school.

Therefore, as a parent of the candidate, there is no need to be too anxious.

Although you have lost the initiative to choose the school, you can still choose a good major, at least good employment.

In this way, at least the child can be guaranteed to have a "bite to eat" after graduation.

For example, I once helped my relatives' children recommend college majors, and everyone was very satisfied.

This child's college entrance examination results are also not good, only 300 points, can only go to junior college.

Then, I recommended him to major in "Wind Power Engineering Technology", which is a pure engineering major, and I was thinking that at least there is no problem for boys to find employment.

As it turned out, this was the case, and before they graduated, the whole class had already been signed up by some wind farms in advance, which was more sought-after than undergraduates.

Later, it was learned that in addition to the poor working environment (wild Gobi Desert), other aspects are very good, the salary is not low, the welfare benefits are also very good, and there is up to one month of annual leave.

For this job, the child is also very satisfied!

Therefore, even if the college entrance examination results can only go to junior college, if you can carefully ponder, you can still choose a satisfactory major, and you can also lay out for your child's future in advance.

This is the second piece of advice for parents.

3. Grit your teeth and let your child go to re-read

After the cancellation of public school enrollment of repeat students, the path of repeat students for many candidates was basically cut off.

Because candidates want to repeat their studies, they can only go to some private repeat schools, which will face high tuition fees, far higher than the tuition fees of three years of high school.

One parent said that the cost of the child's repeated study for one year was as high as 100,000 yuan, far exceeding the tuition fee of four years of college.

Therefore, if the child repeats the college entrance examination, it means a lot of economic pressure for parents, especially parents whose children's college entrance examination scores are not high, the pressure is even greater, and the repetition fee alone may cost tens of thousands.

If parents can afford the high cost of repeating, then they can also consider gritting their teeth and letting their children repeat for another year.

Of course, there are risks associated with doing so.

Because not every repeat student can do better than the first year.

Therefore, parents should also foresee this problem and be mentally prepared, otherwise, the blow may be greater.

The above hopes to inspire some parents.

No matter how the child does in the exam, the days will always pass, or look forward, Seon loses the horse, knows that it is not a blessing, can not go to the undergraduate, then go to a junior college, learn to be proficient in a craft, and the future is not necessarily worse than the undergraduate.

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