After watching "Disappearing Her", the love brain and the rich woman are silent (slightly spoilers)

"Disappearing Her", another marriage phobic catalyst

Weibo news on June 24, according to Maoyan Professional Edition data, the movie "Disappearing Her" was released for 3 days, and the total box office exceeded 400 million.

It has to be Chen Sicheng! "Detective Chinatown 3" was criticized for being accused of misogyny in many places, and two years later, he followed the voice of the market and quickly handed over a suspense film with women as the main play, which can be said to have made a new breakthrough with the times on the basis of regaining the ability to look at the house, and the result was a great success, ushering in a double harvest at the word-of-mouth box office.

That is to say, you can hate Chen Sicheng in every way, but I have to admit that he is really a completely smart person.

So back to this film, how is the female theme presented by the male condensation?

First of all, the three main female characters are all super beautiful, although the boundaries of the genre are too clear, such as soft is soft, cool is cool, bright is gorgeous, the complexity of the individual needs to be expanded, but put together, it can be regarded as a hundred flowers.

Their own distinctive outfits, makeup and style make people can't bear to look away for a moment, especially Wen Yongshan, who plays a fake wife this time, with a smile, the charming and mysterious femme fatale is vividly interpreted, although there are not many appearances, but it is stunning enough, in the eyes of many audiences, it is enough to cover the limelight of the female number one Ni Ni.

Secondly, from the content point of view, women's plight and women's mutual help are combined.

I personally feel that the presentation of the women's dilemma is more brilliant. As for the part of female mutual aid, the superhero flavor is too heavy. Girlfriend Tai is all-powerful, heavy, rich and capable, and makes everything seamless, just like the Wonder Woman of the East. In this way, she seems a little thin, tasteless, and boring. This is probably the reason why Ni Ni in the film is not as impressive as Wen Yongshan.

Where to find such a decathlon girlfriend in reality! Either the hardware is insufficient, or there will be some little nine-nine in the heart, giving everything to avenge the good sisters, which is too beautiful to be true. To have such a top girlfriend is also Li Muzi's misfortune, right?

But of course, no matter how strong her girlfriend is, she can't change, and Li Muzi is still a poor unlucky child. In the film, she is always blurred and always has only one back, which just shows that the aphasia and passivity of this character can only exist in the imagination and description of others.

This cuts to the plight of women: Muzi's experience is shocking and painful, but if you think back to the news of the past two years, you will find that the reality is often more terrifying, Nini-style girlfriends are difficult to find in the world, and Muzi-style disasters are not uncommon.

The disappearance of Ms. Lai in Hangzhou, the case of Cai Tianfeng's shredded corpse in Hong Kong, the case of killing his wife and hiding the body in the freezer in Shanghai, the Chinese pregnant woman playing in Thailand and falling off a cliff... One by one, all of them in capital letters and boldness interpret the evil of human nature.

"Distressed men are unlucky for a lifetime, spending money on men is unlucky for eight lifetimes", this is a popular joke printed on mobile phone cases, but when some people understand this truth, they have no chance to scold and start a game again.

So the clever Chen Sicheng is probably also a book compiled by comprehensive current affairs, and "Disappearing Her" has undoubtedly become a living specimen of similar news events in recent years.

Looking back, the refreshing feeling brought by suspense and guessing will soon pass, and the essence that can be precipitated over the years is probably a thought-provoking alarm bell ringing - "Woman, I advise you not to be stupid, otherwise you will be the next Li Muzi." ”

Rich women and love brains are especially not to be missed

Li Muzi's doom began when he was targeted by He Fei (Zhu Yilong).

From beginning to end, the component of love is minimal, and the woman with a rich family and the death of both parents is at most a tool for the man to get rid of debt and fill the black hole of desire. Love is just a spell, a package.

The version he told Chen Mai (Ni Ni) in the first half is not true, but it can be regarded as his idealized description of Li Muzi and this marriage - My Fair Lady, a gentleman, her appearance lit up my life, and my infatuation touched her heart.

Later, he had to reveal the bad deeds of gambling, and his narration still continued the character in the first story: the male prodigal son turned back, the woman helped, she was like a selfless angel, regardless of the past and reward, saving me from fire and water.

The story script of the hard working poor boy and the kind rich girl is more acceptable to people, and it is also full of his expectations for himself and Li Muzi.

But reality is very different from ideals, he is not so inspirational, and he simply quits gambling; The big living man Muzi is also not a human flesh cash machine, and he will also be disappointed in his indisputability, and will solemnly refuse his unscrupulous request.

Faced with an out-of-control self, an out-of-control wife, and an out-of-control life, why not this is why he moved to kill. Perfect Angel instantly becomes a selfish snobbish bad woman who only loves money, so he tries to erase his own stain in a simple and crude way, and make Li Muzi, who is an uncontrollable factor, forever controllable.

In short, obedient, gentle, and able to be used by me, is a good wife, a goddess who lights up my life, and I can praise her to heaven; Disobedient, she is a hideous demon, and I can't wait to beat her to hell.

In the eyes of He Fei, women are only tools, and they are the subjects. Men really like to define and shape women according to their imagination and needs.

During the movie, I had wishful thinking: Maybe Li Muzi, who was hiding in the shadows, was playing some big chess? Maybe the little white rabbit has long been silently blackened without her husband's knowledge?

But it didn't.

Compared to my conjecture, the movie may be more realistic, the white rabbits are unlikely to grow sharp fangs in a short period of time, and the education they received and the values they formed in the safe and bright castle are unlikely to be subverted in an instant. If you want to be reborn, you must experience enough twists and turns, and people will only adjust their internal patterns and value ranking when they feel pain.

It's just helpless, the opponent is too ruthless, only giving her painful understanding, but not giving her a chance to start over.

A high praise comment on Douban said this - "Rich women don't travel to Southeast Asia with men casually, even if the other party is Zhu Yilong, please think twice." ”

It's just too incisive. I'm not afraid of the love brain of the Pu woman, but I am afraid that the rich woman is too simple.

A person with a weak personality and a serious lack of self-protection has a lot of money and is most likely to attract evil people. After luring the wolf into the house, he couldn't keep his wealth, and he was most afraid that even his life would be eaten and wiped clean.

Cai Tianfeng's funeral

May there be no next "disappearing her" on earth

Here are three life-saving tips summarized by the movie, I hope to check:

First, don't be seduced by a man's sweet words and what he likes, he calls you a goddess, princess, angel, Baoqi just wants to play a game of turning over with a small broad, just treat you as a fool;

Second, parents should not feel that rich and nurturing their daughter is to shape a sterile fairy tale world for him, embrace the truth, goodness and beauty, and isolate the fake ugliness, but should let her gradually contact a little "human evil" when she is young, so that she will not be too dull to various danger signals in the future, until she is trapped in the tiger's den, and finally she is eaten to the bone.

No matter how powerful your parents, your love and money are not enough to protect her for a lifetime, once there is an accident, the perfect shelter immediately becomes cruel banishment, driven by fear and anxiety, she is really easy to panic into the arms of the devotee, which provides many men with bad intentions with the opportunity to take advantage of the void!

Third, girls, you should be angry and angry, you should be ruthless, don't be too understanding, don't be soft and spread your hands to compromise.

Too good to talk is not okay, the heart of the Virgin is even more impossible, the world is already a black miasma, there are jackals, tigers and leopards everywhere, and no one has to claim to be the embodiment of truth, goodness and beauty.

So please have less of a savior complex, practice more "ability to do evil", and don't let people feel that you can give and ask for what you want, which will only fuel his greed. If he refuses later, he will be embarrassed and angry because of the gap in his heart, and he will be more likely to do crazy things.

Not everyone has a conscience, but everyone will dare not act rashly because of the word "fear", and it is easy to retreat because they are troublesome. If Li Muzi had found out that He Fei could immediately divorce after gambling, or earlier, he could not be so generous after learning that He Fei had gambling debts, maybe bad luck would not have dragged him into the abyss.

You might as well be a difficult woman with principles and temper, and the happiness index will surely exceed 99% of Li Muzi. Realizing this, thirty or forty movie ticket money can be regarded as not spent in vain.

Finally, I wish all the sisters who read this article to be rich and invincible, but before becoming a rich woman, please lose your love brain and grow fangs and claws to defend yourself.