My eldest sister had her birthday two days ago and invited our family to dinner, and I heard that my nephew was also at home, but I didn't come out to say hello until we left, which was too chilling.
The nephew is the child of her husband and sister, when the aunt and the couple worked in other places, and the children followed them to attend primary school outside for six years, and later heard that children from other places have to go back to the local area for the college entrance examination, so the eldest sister sent the child back to the local junior high school.
It just so happens that my home is close to the county junior high school, and the eldest sister means that anyway, my mother-in-law is also helping me bring my children in the county, one is to bring, two are also to bring, it is a big deal to give living expenses.
To be honest, in fact, I am a hundred unwilling in my heart, whether to give living expenses is a trivial matter, mainly because the responsibility of raising children is very large, the study is not good, or the friends who have not made three or four people learn badly, we can not explain to the eldest sister and the couple.
But my husband had to agree because of the face of my aunt and mother-in-law, my nephew came to my house in 2013, my aunt said at that time that I would give 200 yuan a month for living expenses, 200 was not enough for my nephew's snack money, I told my husband not to ask for it, the child followed us to eat, it was a big deal to have an extra pair of chopsticks.
My nephew lived for three years, and in my relationship with my nephew, I treated her like my own son, and I used to buy only one gift for my daughter, but now I have to buy two. Usually delicious and fun, are evenly distributed, when not enough, try to give as much as possible to the nephew, after all, the nephew is not in his own home, I am afraid that he has the idea of sending people under the fence.
Fortunately, three years passed safely and safely, and my nephew did not study well and could not be admitted to high school, so after graduating from junior high school, he followed his aunt and two couples to work abroad.
On the day my nephew left, I was actually a little reluctant, after all, everyone has been getting along for three years, and they still have feelings.
However, my nephew does not seem to be close to us, and he has not been here since he left my house, and even if we go back to my in-laws' house to eat together, he has never called my uncle and aunt, and my nephew's indifference makes me feel extremely sad.
Thinking about my nephew's time in my house, we asked ourselves why the relationship had become so strange now, not treating him badly.
Maybe my nephew has felt like being under the fence since he stepped into my house! I think I helped him for three years, maybe he hated us for three years, or maybe the bits and pieces of his life touched his sensitive thoughts.
Don't get tangled, as long as you do your best, everything else is just let it go!
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