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The first Chinese artist to appear in "Time", the heroine who won the most "Golden Rooster Awards" in the history of the film industry, and the actor with a legendary life is Pan Hong.
She, together with Liu Xiaoqing and Siqingova, are collectively known as the three golden flowers of the 80s.
Jing Jing once described the situation at that time: "Like my previous generation, such as Liu Xiaoqing, Pan Hong, and Siqin Gaova teachers, their success back then was unimaginable to these popular stars now, it was really empty..."
However, Pan Hong, who was so successful in her career, revealed in her later memories: "If I were to make another choice now, I would rather not be a movie queen, but have a home, and I hope to have several children." ”
Pan Hong chose not to have children because of her career, ended her 8-year marriage with her husband Mi Jiashan, divorced for 37 years and did not remarry, and chose to practice carefully in her later years and take refuge in Buddhism.
Why did the "career-mad" Pan Hong announce that she became a monk and converted to Buddhism?
What happened to her and her husband Mi Jiashan to part ways between the two who were once loving?
Why did Pan Hong not have children and regret her later years?
01
"My father's death made me suddenly transcend the times, beyond the age, and even beyond the pain. But it was also at that moment that I completely lost my childhood. ”
When Pan Hong was 10 years old, her father was humiliated for special reasons and chose to commit suicide by taking medicine.
Pan Hong brought back her father's ashes for her mother, and during the three-day and three-night drive, she did not shed a single tear.
After that, she seemed to grow up overnight.
The death of her father had a great impact on Pan Hong, and it was at that moment that she realized that she had no one to rely on, and she could only rely on herself to protect her mother and support the family.
Her father is away, her mother is busy with work, and the young Pan Hong has to take care of her two younger sisters, who are often ridiculed and isolated because of their father.
Pan Hong could only hide in the no-one place and cry silently, she knew that her mother was already very tired, and she didn't want to increase her burden with these trivial things.
It is also in the daily bullying that Pan Hong vows to get ahead, and the little Pan Hong has already shown her workaholic characteristics.
At the age of 19, Pan Hong ushered in a turning point in her life.
Pan Hong was assigned to sell rice on Chongming Island, and it just so happened that the teacher of the drama came to the island to look for good seedlings.
Not wanting to do nothing like this, Pan Hong seized this opportunity and went directly to sign up without saying a word.
"Whatever he recruits, I can do anything."
It may be that God rewards food, with her excellent appearance and a flexible temperament, she was successfully admitted to the theater.
02
In 1976, Pan Hong played the heroine for the first time in "The Slave's Daughter", and also met her husband Mi Jiashan here.
Mi Jiashan is just an ordinary artist in the crew, and at a glance of the crew, he was captivated by Pan Hong's beautiful appearance, and he had already begun to fantasize about the scene of the two getting married.
Pan Hong exists like a star holding the moon in the crew, and there are many suitors, naturally she can't notice that there is a person in the corner looking at her obsessively.
A big star, an ordinary worker, the relationship that cannot be beaten, but under the trick of fate, there is communication.
Pan Hong cherished this performance opportunity very much, the rest of the crew left, she still stayed in the crew to practice her lines and ponder the inner thoughts of the characters.
The strict requirements for herself, the pressure of many days of exertion suddenly broke out, the iron beaters could not stand it, Pan Hong fell ill all of a sudden, and the bad thing was that she stayed alone in the crew and had a fever.
If nothing else, it may not be until the next day that others find the confused Pan Hong.
But the accident appeared, and it was still a beautiful accident.
Mi Jiashan returned to the crew to take the things that fell, and saw that in the dim light, the sound of heavy breathing came, he slowly approached, and found Pan Hong lying on the sofa in the lounge, blushing.
Looking at the blush on Pan Hong's face, Mi Jiashan didn't care about the right side of men and women, and directly touched Pan Hong's forehead with his hand, found that it was so hot, and suddenly felt bad, and directly picked up Pan Hong and sent him to the hospital.
After completing the hospitalization procedures for Pan Hong, the doctor's words instantly made Mi Jiashan break out in a cold sweat.
"Thanks to the early delivery, if it is sent late, it will burn into pneumonia, which is difficult to treat."
Mi Jiashan took good care of Pan Hong, cooked her light meals, and told jokes to make her happy.
Looking at the man who was 7 years older than herself, Pan Hong also had a strange feeling in her heart.
Her childhood experiences made her habitually on her own, and suddenly a man appeared in her life, and her first reaction was panic, then escape.
03
Love comes, and it can't be stopped.
Sensing Pan Hong's dodge, Mi Jinshan also directly showdown: I want to take care of you, can you give me this opportunity?
For Pan Hong, who lacked her father's love since she was a child, this sentence was far more touching and moving than "I love you".
In "Light Through the Clouds", Pan Hong recalled: "Mijin Mountain gave me broad shoulders so that I could rely on to rest. ”
The two formally established a relationship, but it was not long, and they had not enjoyed a few days of happy two-person world, Pan Hong, who finished filming, returned to school to continue his studies, and Mi Jinshan returned to the studio to continue working.
The two started a long-distance relationship, which not only did not affect the relationship between the two, but made them cherish this hard-won relationship even more.
In the era of Hongyan Shu, letters are the best way to convey a person's heart, and the letters exchanged between the two have long been filled with a bookcase, and if there is a sound in longing, it must be deafening.
After two years of running-in, each other has determined that the other party is the right person, and in 1978, the two entered the palace of marriage.
How could the two who smiled sweetly at this time think that many years later, their marriage would come to an end?
Marriage will not be a stumbling block for Pan Hong's progress, and after a short period of warmth, she immediately began to enter the group to film.
Also in the same year of marriage, Pan Hong won major awards with "Bitter Laughter", becoming the first actress to appear on the red carpet of the Cannes Film Festival and became famous overnight.
Some are doomed to live in the spotlight and shine.
She is a woman in the green building who came out of the mud and is not clean in the movie "Du Shiniang", popular all over the country, and Lu Wenting in "People to Middle Age", won the Golden Rooster Award, or Fan Li in the movie "Stock Madness", won many awards.
Pan Hong left one screen legend after another in the film and television industry, opening her own era, and Lian Gongli could only play a maid in her plays.
Compared with the prosperity of her career, her marriage has cracked.
04
Pan Hong can win so many awards in the film and television industry, and she has paid much more effort than ordinary people, a person's energy is limited, and she is focused on her work, naturally ignoring her family.
At first, Mi Jiashan was very supportive of his wife's work, and he liked Pan Hong, who shone on stage.
But when Mijiashan, who returned home after work, opened the door and saw that the land was deserted, there was no home at home, and there was no smell of fireworks at all.
Mijiashan is confused: Is this marriage still necessary?
Married for 8 years and getting along for less than 400 days, not only women need the warmth of family, but also men.
When the door was opened again, Pan Hong was rare at home, Mi Jiashan was extremely happy, and discussed with his wife about having children.
Pan Hong hesitated, she is now in the rising stage of her career, having a child means leaving the public eye, waiting for her to return, the film and television industry with a very fast update speed, it is not clear whether there is a place for herself.
Seeing his wife's hesitation, Mi Jiashan finally gave the two a chance: Do you want me or a career?
Pan Hong chose his career without hesitation, and Mi Jiashan could only leave the house where he had lived for 8 years in disappointment, leaving Pan Hong alone in the empty house.
Her childhood experience taught her that she could only rely on herself, making herself so strong that she was fearless, and Pan Hong had no choice.
After the divorce, Pan Hong was once asked by a reporter: "Was the breakdown of their marriage related to her being too attached to her career?" ”
She replied without thinking: "Yes, part of the reason for the divorce is that I am too strong and ignore my husband's feelings." Being too independent caused the two to have an anchor and scare their own man away. ”
Pan Hong's words also expressed the sadness of not being able to balance career and family.
05
The failure of the marriage made Pan Hong put all her energy into work.
Pan Hong "killed" crazy, starred in "The Last Empress", "The Last Nobleman", "Stock Madness", almost all the awards.
After filming "The Last Nobleman", Pan Hong became the second Chinese to appear in Time Magazine, and the first old man to draw circles in the South China Sea, which shows its high gold content.
After the divorce, Pan Hong did not lack suitors, and Pan Hong also had an affair with Han Meilin and others, but in the end, it was all gone.
Pan Hong commented on herself in the interview: independence, self, but also regretted in the subsequent interview: "Women should not be too strong. ”
Pan Hong's pursuit of career has caused her to lose some good things in life, although she regrets it, she does not regret it.
In middle age, Pan Hong, who did not have a youthful appearance, did not hold the shelf, was not afraid of transformation, and was willing to play a supporting role.
and created a number of classic mothers, mothers-in-law, and the role of the queen mother, and even became a "evil mother-in-law" professional for a while.
It is also because of these roles that Pan Hong has been scolded a lot, looking at the "evil mother-in-law" on the screen, the audience hates it with itchy teeth, which also shows how successful these characters are and how superb Pan Hong's acting skills are.
06
Now Pan Hong is 68 years old, single so far, childless, dedicated to career, the audience can still see her elegant figure on the screen.
She was also exposed by the media, silently insisted on doing public welfare for more than 20 years, built many hope schools, and called on more stars to participate in public welfare.
For the gains and losses of life, Pan Hong has already seen the gains, and now she has more time to choose to practice, has her own beliefs, and lives a full life.
We can't comment on whether she is perfect in this life, but in Pan Hong's heart, she made a choice and fought for the choice, and no one dared to question her achievements in film and television.
As she wrote in Pan Hong's Monologue:
"The biggest goal I give myself is to arrange my life as much as I want, never compromise, never be in a good position."
May Pan Hong still be able to live her true self and bring more works to the audience.
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