Fan Sijing, the eldest daughter of former football star Fan Zhiyi, was born in the UK in 1998, as the daughter of a well-known football player, she has attracted much attention from childhood to adulthood.
Fan Sijing's name was personally given by his father, who worked for Crystal Palace that year, so he named his daughter "Fan Sijing's crystal love, a lifetime of unchanging joy jelly", although there is no lack of humor in the name, but as a father, Fan Zhiyi loves his daughter quite much.
After reaching the end of his relationship with his first wife, Fan Zhiyi married Li Zhuyi and Zhang Mengjin successively.
Now he and Zhang Mengjin have entered the marriage hall hand in hand for many years, and the youngest daughter of the two is almost three years old.
The emotional history of General Fan
Fan Zhiyi is a symbol representing Chinese football.
Looking back at the resounding goals or resounding mistakes in Chinese football in the past ten years or decades, those laughter and tears, sadness and pain, there must be no bypassing the name of a person, he is Fan Zhiyi.
It can be said that his existence has added a strong stroke to the Chinese football scene.
I remember one year in the home game of the Shenhua team, Fan Zhiyi was seriously injured, his calf skin was open, and he could even see the bones directly, but he turned a blind eye, refused to go off the field, and continued to fight on the field after playing closed.
Fan Zhiyi began to play football at the age of 8, but his father Fan Jiuling originally did not want him to follow the same path as himself, but Fan Zhiyi was smart when he was a child, and when he played football, he gradually played for him.
He entered the junior sports school at the age of 13, played football for several years, and also kicked an injury; In 1988, when he was promoted from the youth team to the national Olympic team, Fan Zhiyi felt that "life couldn't be better", and the day he was most looking forward to was every Saturday, because he could play on Saturday.
While Fan Zhiyi is working hard for his career, his love is also quietly and unknowingly coming.
Fan Zhiyi's first wife, named Li Qian, is a beautiful and generous flight attendant.
The fate of Li Qian and Fan Zhiyi originated from the high-altitude flight in 1994, and at an altitude of 10,000 meters, the two hearts were silently close.
In the days that followed, Fan Zhiyi launched a persistent pursuit of her, and in the face of such an excellent and top-notch man, Li Qian soon fell.
In 1995, she wore the wedding dress of her dreams and married the lover of her dreams.
However, their marriage road was not smooth, and the wedding date originally scheduled for 5.1 was forced to be postponed to early summer, and finally survived to early summer, hundreds of wedding invitations were also sent, but accidents occurred frequently, and the wedding date was forced to be postponed to December.
Finally put on a white wedding dress, Li Qian can't tell whether her mood should be joy or sadness, she only knows that she shed too many tears for this day, and their bumpy and unsmooth marriage road seems to indicate the problems of this marriage.
In September 1998, Fan Zhiyi became the first player in Chinese football to rank in the first division of Chinese football for $750,000, and later he became the captain of Crystal Palace.
It was also in this year that their daughter, Niu Niu, was born in London.
Li Qian admits that living alone with a child is very hard in a foreign country, but every time she sees her lovely daughter, she will silently tolerate this inexplicable loneliness.
After the birth of her daughter Fan Sijing, she once became the spiritual pillar of Fan Zhiyi's football career, but in 2006, the marriage of Fan Zhiyi and Li Qian came to an end, and the girl Fan Sijing at that time was only 8 years old.
Fan Zhiyi and "Little Swan" Zhang Mengjin
After divorcing Li Qian, Fan Zhiyi entered the marriage hall with another girl, but this marriage did not last long, only a year later, the two broke up peacefully, after which Fan Zhiyi completely lost confidence in marriage.
When he separated from his ex-wife, he won the custody of his daughter, and for so many years, he has been alone to bring up his daughter, and occasionally, he will ask her daughter: "Want a new mother?" ”
Fan Sijing's big eyes were wide ignorant and innocent, and he asked Fan Zhiyi: "Does Dad want to find me a mother?" ”
It is said that the female avoids her father, seeing that Fan Sijing is getting bigger and bigger, he is inconvenient to give more care and help in many things in life, if he can find her a stepmother, it must be much easier.
I thought that my daughter would reject this proposal, but I didn't expect the sensible girl to say: "Dad, if you like it, you can bring her home." ”
Facing Fan Sijing's fairy tales, Fan Zhiyi was moved for a while, and his eyes were slightly red.
But having experienced two failed marriages, he has long lost hope for his future partner, but fate always comes inadvertently.
One day in May 2011, Fan Zhiyi met a beautiful young girl with a tall figure at a friend's dinner.
He felt that he was famous, and the other party would not not know him, so he confidently stepped forward to talk.
"Hello, I'm Fan Zhiyi."
He waited for an imaginary reply, such as "It turns out that you are Fan Zhiyi!" I know you, I'm still a fan of yours"; Or "I'm happy to see you for a long time daimyo."
But there was no such reaction, the girl just nodded lightly, smiled politely, said "hello" and then said no more.
Fan Zhiyi tried to use the football as an opening to chat, but the girl was always uninterested, so he stopped talking and sat silently aside.
Later, through the introduction of a friend, he learned that the girl's name was Zhang Mengjin, an excellent actor of the Shanghai Ballet.
Knowing the other party's work and name, Fan Zhiyi took the initiative to chat with her again, but one was playing football, the other was dancing ballet, and the two had nothing in common at all, Fan Zhiyi thought and thought, and awkwardly asked Zhang Mengjin: "Is dancing ballet hard?" ”
Zhang Mengjin smiled and asked him: "Then are you playing football hard?" ”
Fan Zhiyi's awkward chat made Zhang Mengjin feel that this "uncle" was fun and cute, but at this moment, she would never have thought that she would marry an "old man" who was 17 years older.
When the party was about to end, Fan Zhiyi asked Zhang Mengjin to exchange mobile phone numbers.
In his spare time, Fan Zhiyi racked his brains to send text messages to Zhang Mengjin, but because he didn't understand the content of her work, the content of the text messages was always monotonous and boring: "Did you jump Swan Lake today?" ”
For Fan Zhiyi, knowing the ballet "Swan Lake" is already a great thing, but Zhang Mengjin's reply made his old face red.
"Uncle, I dance ballet every day, but not Swan Lake every day."
After coming and going, the two gradually got to know each other and had a basic understanding of each other.
Zhang Mengjin knew that he had two previous marriages without postscript, and also brought a daughter Fan Sijing, who was 12 years younger than him; Fan Zhiyi knew that Zhang Mengjin left home to study in the north, and was a girl with a strong character, brave and able to bear hardships and stand hard work.
The seeds of ambiguity have been planted in each other's hearts, but the obstacles brought by age, experience and identity are like an invisible thorn, deeply rooted in the hearts of the two.
Fan Zhiyi understands that he has already had true feelings for Zhang Mengjin, but will Zhang Mengjin accept an old man who is so much older than her? Besides, his current annual salary can not be the same as in the past, a man does not even have a solid net worth, how to protect his beloved woman from reality?
The most important thing is that Zhang Mengjin is the first marriage, and he is already a second marriage, if he wants to let a young girl who has not given birth to another young girl be a stepmother, will Zhang Mengjin accept it?
Or, will his daughter accept it?
For this matter, he can't eat well, sleep well, his state affects Fan Sijing, sometimes she gets up in the middle of the night, sees the light in her father's room is still on, can't help but be curious.
Fan Sijing looked more at her father, wondering what had happened to him recently, and how he suddenly bought so many books about music and dance.
She had seen it quietly, and it turned out to be related to ballet.
How can a rough man who has played football for most of his life fall in love with noble and elegant ballet? Just the thought that her father would put on a tight little skirt and jump Swan Lake gave Fan Sijing goosebumps.
The reason why Fan Zhiyi "changed sex" is, of course, to pursue the little swan Zhang Mengjin, and he does his best to understand Zhang Mengjin's world, understand her work and hobbies, and try to bring the two closer together.
Fan Sijing danced since elementary school, and sometimes, Fan Zhiyi would call her daughter over and ask her some professional questions that she could not understand.
The girl tilted her head and looked at her father, who was completely different from the past, and asked tentatively: "Dad, what's wrong with you?" Are you not going to play football in the future? Ready to go ballet? ”
Fan Zhiyi laughed, he looked at his daughter lovingly, but he didn't know how to speak.
A child who lost his mother too early when he was young, and later met an irresponsible second-married stepmother, is undoubtedly a blow to young girls.
The year Fan Zhiyi and Zhang Mengjin confirmed their relationship, Fan Sijing was only 13 years old, and when she first saw this sister, who was only 12 years older than herself, she did not hide her malice and rolled her eyes at her very impolitely.
Obviously, Fan Zhiyi did not persuade Fan Sijing, nor did she do her psychological homework in advance, but Zhang Mengjin was not angry, but very considerately relieved: "It's okay, the child is still young." ”
Fan Zhiyi expressed gratitude to Zhang Mengjin for her generosity, Zhang Mengjin smiled, she knew that wanting Niu Niu to accept her was not a one-time thing, she had to take her time.
After confirming the relationship, Zhang Mengjin moved to Fan Zhiyi's house, which made Fan Sijing even more unhappy, she felt that someone was coming to snatch her father and deprive her of her favor.
Once Zhang Mengjin was about to go out, but she couldn't find the coat she usually wore, and when she was anxious, she found that the girl walking slowly outside the door was wearing her own coat.
When Fan Zhiyi saw it, he suddenly had a headache, and quickly asked Fan Sijing to take off his coat and return it to Zhang Mengjin, but Zhang Mengjin stopped his movement: "It's okay, since Niu likes to wear it, then give it to Niu." ”
Another time, Fan Sijing hid Zhang Mengjin's mobile phone, just to see that Zhang Mengjin couldn't find something and sweated in a hurry.
Fan Zhiyi was very embarrassed between his daughter and girlfriend, and whenever he wanted to count Fan Sijing, Zhang Mengjin stood up and gently dissuaded: "She is just a child, don't blame her so much." ”
Although Fan Sijing has always been hostile to Zhang Mengjin, Zhang Mengjin treated her very well, and slowly, 16-year-old Fan Sijing has been getting along with this "little stepmother" for more than three years, and she gradually learned about Zhang Mengjin's kind and gentle side, and slowly let go of her guard.
She began to defend Zhang Mengjin in front of outsiders, and really treated Zhang Mengjin as her own mother, sometimes Fan Zhiyi's mother hurt Zhang Mengjin with words, and Fan Sijing would explain for Zhang Mengjin.
At the end of 2014, Zhang Mengjin issued a year-end bonus, she immediately bought a pair of sneakers worth 3,000 yuan for Fan Sijing, and after receiving the gift, Fan Sijing's eyes were red, and she said to Zhang Mengjin gratefully: "When you and your father get married, I will go and be your bridesmaids!" ”
In 2016, Fan Zhiyi finally got his wish and Zhang Mengjin got their wish, and his daughter Fan Sijing also accepted the arrival of a new family.
Fan Sijing's alternative life
With the passage of time, Fan Sijing is no longer the fleshy little girl she used to be, and now the 24-year-old is studying for graduate school at Fudan University, not only has a successful career, but also has outstanding appearance and a tall figure.
Fan Sijing, who has been living in London, England, is relatively mature in thought, once participated in a reality show with her boyfriend Lin Yuhang, Fan Sijing and Lin Yuhang in the show are full of love, but unfortunately the "old man" Fan Zhiyi is a little unable to look at Lin Yuhang's height, but when it comes to the harm of divorce to his daughter, Fan Zhiyi apologized to his daughter in front of netizens across the country, and also won his daughter's forgiveness.
Although he and his father let go of their previous suspicions, the relationship between Fan Sijing and Lin Yuhang did not last long, and now Fan Sijing's boyfriend is a handsome young man, said to be 30 years old, and is a local tyrant with a very good background.
Sometimes she calls her boyfriend "Dragon Dragon", and sometimes she calls her "Dragon Dog".
In the face of Fan Sijing's show of affection, some netizens will comment on Fan Sijing: "Your boyfriend is not handsome enough." ”
Fan Sijing replied "shocked": This is not called handsome? Then what kind of handsome do you say.
Netizens commented: "General Fan was the most handsome when he was young. ”
The witty reply provoked Fan Sijing to laugh.
On Fan Sijing's social platform, there is no lack of photos of herself and her boyfriend, in addition to showing affection, there are many personal beauty photos and family photos.
Her most recent social update is that on June 9, 2023, Fan Sijing took a set of beautiful and trendy photos in Shanghai, asking her brother where he was going to play after the college entrance examination.
Fan Sijing, who has become a graduate student in the journalism department of Fudan University, recently ushered in the final semester, although she said that she was "very anxious", but every class did not fall, and she even found time to exercise in the gym, which shows what a self-disciplined girl she is.
Now Fan Sijing cherishes today's family, she calls Fan Zhiyi "Lao Fan", Zhang Mengjin "Jinjin", last year's Mid-Autumn Festival, she and the family got together, the photo appeared half-sister, I have to say that the two sisters really look alike, even the position of the mole on the face is exactly the same.
While Fan Sijing grew up freely, Fan Zhiyi has advanced from the football coach of the year to a permanent guest of reality shows, and now many reality shows can see Fan Zhiyi's figure, the "old General Fan" who is more than half a hundred years old, and even learned to sing and dance rap, which is really trendy.
Source:
YU Jing. Handsome football guy[M]. 2002
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Author: Yeonjin
Editor: Murray