Superstars educate children, each of them is different

Everyone has growing pains, and they are no exception.

Text | Sister Bing

The second generation of stars born with golden soup spoons, in the eyes of everyone, mansions and clothes, rich resources, the end of others' struggle is just their starting point, life should be carefree, very happy!

But actually?

The high-profile, glamorous life may be just one side of the coin, and the other side is endlessly spied on, judged, and even attacked online.

Everyone has growing pains, and they are no exception.

She has been called too ugly since she was a child

Tallula, the third daughter of American action superstar Bruce Willis and famous actress Demi Moore, has been scolded by netizens for being ugly and fat since she was 11 years old, resulting in body dysmorphic disorder, severe anorexia, depression, and once drinking more than alcohol but also being diagnosed with personality disorder.

Bruce Willis, Demi Moore and three children

When Talulah was born, the relationship between his parents was already very bad. Later, her parents divorced, and Demi Moore began to fall in love with actor Ashton Kutcher, who was 15 years younger than herself. This sibling love that shocked Hollywood became the target of crazy paparazzi to follow. Talulah also appears frequently in various reports.

When she dressed up to attend an event with them, she was met with ridicule on the Internet.

Some people say she looks like a low-profile version of Bruce Willis, some say that standing next to her beautiful mother looks uglier, some say her chin is too big like a man, and some say that she must be disappointing for her mother by looking like this.

And that's just the beginning.

There has been an increasing number of online insults against her. She never knew she was so ugly, and began to be anxious about her appearance and figure.

Sadly, her parents did not know that she was being subjected to online violence. Because she didn't tell anyone about these things — her parents had always taught her not to tell her true feelings, lest she be cut through and choreographed by so-called entertainment journalists.

She began to dislike to eat and became depressed. He was subsequently diagnosed with body dysmorphic disorder. Patients with this disorder infinitely magnify their physical defects, and even fear non-existent defects, thinking they are so ugly that they cannot socialize normally for fear of being ridiculed.

At the age of 14, she was exposed to alcohol for the first time and found that she seemed to be able to get a moment of peace from it. He then began to drink heavily and nearly died of alcoholism.

The more she pays attention to what others say about her appearance, the more unfriendly comments she will see. The media will always say that the three daughters of Demi Moore's family have grown up, but they have not inherited the worldly beauty of Demi Moore's youth. In fact, as long as you look at the appearance of their three sisters, you will find that the eldest sister is more "male" than her, and the second sister is indeed not as outstanding as her mother, but the eldest sister and the second sister are not bothered by the evaluation of the outside world at all, and are quite confident and free.

Three sisters of the Willis family

However, Talula, who was deeply inferior in appearance, was never able to self-recognize, further sank into drugs and alcohol, and eventually had to enter a treatment center for treatment. Prior to this, her mother had been unable to extricate herself from alcohol and drugs because of the breakdown of her marriage with Kutcher, and was sent to a drug rehabilitation center by her family because of a drug overdose.

Talula, 20, successfully quit drugs and alcohol, but was also diagnosed with depression and ADHD. Some of the medications used for treatment had the side effect of suppressing appetite, and Talula was surprised to find that she had become thinner as a result. As a result, she began to lose weight like crazy again, causing herself to be replaced with anorexia.

Even if she is already skinny, there will still be netizens calling her a fat woman in private messages, making Talulah even more afraid to eat.

At the beginning of 2020, Talula had lost only 38 kilograms. Since then, she has suffered one life blow after another. His father, Bruce Willis, was diagnosed with aphasia. Talullah's fiancé, whom she had been in love for many years, left. She had to enter the treatment center again.

The doctor told her that she had borderline personality disorder, poor emotional regulation, difficulty in having stable relationships, and easy self-harm.

Fortunately, 29-year-old Talullah figured out a lot of things during this treatment. She began to learn to contradict those who attacked her appearance and figure, and encouraged others who shared her own low self-esteem and anxious appearance and figure to try not to look in the mirror and stay away from social networking sites.

She began to try her best to like her body, try her best not to do anything that hurts herself, and try her best to learn to say how she really feels. Now her mother organizes family gatherings, and she visits her father from time to time, and even though he didn't give her timely help when she needed it most, she still wished she could be "friends" with him.

She understands that her parents, as superstars, also have a lot of helplessness. And she, as the second generation of stars, may also have to bear the shadow under the halo.

Jet Li's daughter revealed that the old disease had recurred

Jet Li's youngest daughter, Jada

In October 2022, Jet Li's youngest daughter Jada revealed on her personal media that she was isolated at home due to the epidemic, could not go out for a long time, and could not communicate with people, resulting in a recurrence of depression and a very bad mental state.

Jet Li's two daughters have also lived a life of brocade clothes and jade food since they were young. Through the photos posted by her social networks, in addition to living in a mansion, she often travels all over the world.

As superstars, Jet Li often takes them to celebrity parties, and also brings the two sisters to the red carpet in Hollywood.

Jet Li and two daughters

Of course, it does not mean that the children of rich people must be happy, and many second generations of stars are also mentally decadent because of their parents' neglect, but after Jet Li and Li Zhi gave birth to their daughters, they revolved around their two daughters all day. Both sisters have excellent grades. Children who grow up in such a rich and harmonious family will also be replaced with depression, which is really emotional.

There is a reason that cannot be ignored that the sisters have been exposed to the media since they were young, and they followed Jet Li to appear in public at a very young age, and they were under more pressure than children of the same age. Jada, who has always given people a sense of sunshine, said that she had been depressed and anxious for a long time.

The all-encompassing Vanity Fair in the entertainment industry makes people naturally have more demanding requirements for the second generation of stars, appearance, figure, temperament, education, acting skills... Each of them is enough to compare with their parents, and the vicious comments brought by each comparison may be the last straw that overwhelms them.

The solution is not to go online?

Recently, in an interview, sister-in-law Victoria revealed their family's education method for their youngest daughter, Xiao Qi, which can be summed up as staying away from the Internet.

As a member of the "world's most prestigious family", Xiaoqi is the only person who has not had a social media account so far.

Little Seven

Regarding the matter of not allowing the palm pearl to go online, Victoria said: The couple has received excessive attention because of their identity, and their every move will be amplified and interpreted. As their only daughter, the girl's appearance and figure are especially prone to malicious discussions.

She hopes that Xiao Qi will grow up surrounded by love, she can't stop others from talking about it, but she will do her best to block gossip for her daughter.

Although she created her own fashion brand and has always been a fashion icon at the top of trends, Victoria privately studied beauty and clothing with her daughter, but only allowed her to appear in front of the media in front of the world.

So no matter how many people on the Internet comment that Xiao Qihu has a bear's back and thick arms, she doesn't know at all.

Appearing in front of the camera, she still does not apply powder as always, wears a camisole to show her arms, and walks the world wearing a pair of sneakers.

Victoria with her daughter

Victoria's approach has won praise from many netizens. They believe that this not only respects the little girl's beauty nature, but also avoids her being cyberbullied and prematurely disturbed by the outside world.

When they grow up and develop correct, healthy values, it's not too late to surf the web.

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