It's been three days, and it's still tearing?
As the saying goes, "three women a play", in fact, sometimes you don't need three, two is enough.
Like recently, Ren Min and Tang Jingmei have been arguing for three or four days.
Ren Min.
Got it?
"Qingping Le" played Princess Hui Rou, who had gossip with Bian Cheng before, and Bian Cheng said that she had smelly feet, was old, and was scolded to the point of incompleteness.
Tang Jingmei.
is also an actor, has played supporting roles in many plays, the fox immortal in "Qingyunzhi", and the Diao barbarian royal family in "Glory of the Great Tang".
The two participated in "Peachblossom Dock", a show I talked about before, a dozen people working together, working to earn money to feed the collective, showing the audience a social experiment.
Where there are people, there is socialization, and where there is socializing, there will definitely be a bit of a story.
On the first day, a contradiction came out.
On the same day, Song Dandan and Zhang Guoli temporarily withdrew from the show because of altitude sickness, and the rest of the people glared at me and I glared at you, and the discussion could not go on like this, so they spontaneously organized to see if there was any activity.
To Ren Min, she is a very energetic person.
It can be seen from the introduction at the beginning that her personality is direct and expressive, everyone briefly introduced, she reported her height and weight, like a grin to participate in the interview, not stage fright and not introverted.
Even the performance program of the gala was prepared half a month ago, and it was necessary to sing Faye Wong's song.
Therefore, this time after the big guy had a meeting and said that she was preparing for the activity independently, she set out.
Invite Tang Jingmei to form a band with her.
Why did you invite soup?
Because she thinks Tang Jingmei is very enthusiastic and encourages her to sing.
Sure enough, after sending out the invitation, Tang Jingmei readily agreed.
The two had a pleasant conversation and drew the frame.
It's called "Half Hanger Band".
They also plan to invite Song Qian, Sun Yi, Jiang Shuying and others.
The band's philosophy is: new people partner up, hot blood vessels are enough.
It doesn't have to be perfect to perform, anyone can participate.
The ideal is plump, the reality is skinny.
The first person to invite is the bird.
Bird Bird said that he didn't have half a hanging, and chose to be an audience.
Then they plan to invite others.
At this point, a little disagreement began.
Ren Min wanted to go after eating, Tang Jingmei wanted to go now, and finally Ren Min chose to accompany the birds and birds to cook together, indicating that he would engage in business tomorrow, so Tang Jingmei went first.
Tang Jingmei first found Jiang Shuying.
Jiang Shuying dismissed this idea.
It is difficult to form a band if everyone is based on zero, and whether it can be completed in the end is a problem.
Tang Jingmei went to find Sun Yi again.
said that Sun Yi could play the piano, Sun Yi said that he could only play one, but also refused.
Touched the wall twice, and then Tang Jingmei went to find Song Qian.
Song Qian is from a women's group, has group experience, and has a sense of responsibility, so she patiently analyzed Tang Jingmei.
She changed the way she spoke, and things instantly sounded a little simpler, at least no longer like a headless fly, but with a small goal.
After deliberating, it was finally finalized.
Tang Jingmei plans to form a band for four people in the dormitory, called the "From Scratch" band.
The four include: Meng Ziyi, Laimu, Song Qian, and Tang Jingmei. Everyone can use their talents to a greater or lesser extent.
The band is in the dust, but did you find a problem?
Missed Ren Min.
Tang Jingmei changed the name of the band, which Ren Min didn't know, and Tang Jingmei asked several people in the dormitory to form a band, and Ren Min didn't know about this.
Then, the contradiction came.
That night, Tang Jingmei went to tell Ren Min the result, almost in the form of a notice.
Said that the original idea is not good, Faye Wong's song can not be played, and I don't have that ability.
Now I have changed my thinking, and everyone sings two sentences per person, and one person makes some musical instruments.
If Ren Min wants to join, they are especially welcome, or Ren Min will do it alone.
Ren Min was stunned all of a sudden.
What is this kind of like?
You ask a colleague to eat barbecue, the colleague says yes, and then she runs to ask other people's opinions, and returns after a circle to inform you that if you can't eat barbecue or eat hot pot, you are welcome to join at any time, and if you don't want to join, find another barbecue restaurant yourself.
It feels very uncomfortable, from initiator to dispensable.
At the moment, Ren Min refused.
Tang Jingmei didn't notice it, still said that the same concept is together, the concept is different, I will go forward first, if you come at any time, you are welcome.
"Welcome at any time" made Ren Min change from "master" to "guest".
Half an hour after Tang Jingmei left, Ren Min cried.
said that Tang Jingmei had discussed everything over there, and finally came to inform her.
She went from being an active initiator to being a passive person.
She felt abandoned.
If someone cries in the show, it will definitely be on the hot search.
There is more than one hot search, brush several.
A small number of people feel that Ren Min is pretentious and complicates things.
There are also those who scold her tea, saying that they are weak and sympathetic.
Most people think that Tang Jingmei did not do a good job and moved other people's ideas into her own, and some people also said that she tea.
From the perspective of a bystander, I think Tang Jingmei did not do a good job.
There is a big difference between consultation and notification.
The discussion is: the band is rejected - quickly tell the promoter Ren Min - everyone discuss together, no matter what the result is, Ren Min participated.
The notice is: the band was rejected - Tang tossed himself, very excited - after the excitement told Ren Min, change the form, come and welcome, do not come to get it alone.
In the program, after listening to Tang Jingmei's exposition, Meng Ziyi also felt that Tang was wrong.
However, it is not entirely Tang Jingmei's problem, and the program group is more or less responsible.
Two days later, a video suddenly came out.
Say there is a reversal.
The reversal is not talkable, but for Tang Jingmei, at least she has returned a little innocence.
Judging from the program, it seems that Tang Jingmei is inviting credit, and one person is taking over the band, and did not tell everyone that the initiator of the band is Ren Min.
Actually, in later tidbits she told.
Some netizens suspected that it was a supplementary recording, but Tang Jingmei denied that she did not have that ability.
In this way, she is not the one who invites credit, and she is not as tea as everyone says.
Later, the two talked about it, and the contradiction was solved.
Of course, this time the contradiction did expose a big problem for Tang Jingmei - low emotional intelligence.
Straight brain, can't speak, doesn't know how to measure, and doesn't know how to communicate.
On Monday, she was so worried that her eyebrows were wrinkled, and she came up and said stunned: You can't be like this.
This acquaintance can say, it is best not to say it when you first meet, because it seems that there is no empathy and pointing fingers.
There are netizens in the barrage who are disgusted.
Including her asking Sun Yi to participate in the band.
People don't want to, Tang Jingmei said: It's more meaningful than rowing with him (Wang Hedi), right?
Sun Yi showed no mercy: You don't kidnap me in this morality.
Because Sun Yi and Wang Hedi are not rowing, but have specific things to do. But no matter what people do, soup can't decide which thing makes more sense, right?
There is also a paragraph of making friends with Song Qian.
Although the two are in a company but are not familiar, Tang Jingmei throws all kinds of rainbow farts up, what sweet to say.
There you can.
Give you a heart.
Sweet talk is too easy to say, and it will inevitably feel too superficial.
The emotional intelligence is not high, and the responsibility is less.
He took the initiative to start a band, and he was unable to dump the burden on Song Qian.
Song Qian looked very uncomfortable at that time, and didn't want to take it, so Tang Jingmei praised it vigorously. It's the same as praising Sun Yi, except that Sun Yi doesn't eat this set, and Song Qian cares about the feelings of others.
To say that people like Tang Jingmei are quite common.
Emotional intelligence is not enough, sweet words to make up, ability is average, dish and fun. As a public figure, it is indeed an unpleasant character.
As for Ren Min, she actually has a student spirit.
Considering forming a band is very studenty, and later learned that he turned from a master to a guest, crying to find birds and birds to complain about grievances, and also like a young child.
But she was fierce again.
Later, I directly asked Tang Jingmei to give an explanation.
So violent, it scares birds into frightened birds.
Barrage was also surprised.
The first time I saw such a straightforward person, said that 00 later rectified the workplace.
And the interesting place is also here, from a small thing to glimpse everyone's different personality.
Tang Jingmei is confused, Ren Min is crying and direct, Sun Yi is not afraid of offending people, Jiang Shuying is very cautious in considering things, and the most mature and atmospheric should be Song Qian.
Tang Jingmei asked her for help, although she didn't want to do much, she was still very enthusiastic and patient.
Later, I learned that Ren Min cried, and also proposed to pass the plan as soon as possible and did not do it.
Even communicating with Ren Min, she replaced Tang Jingmei and took the responsibility on herself.
In the whole process, Song Qian has the style of a leader whether it is empathy, communication ability, or sense of responsibility, which should have been tempered as a captain.
But now the Internet really can't understand it.
There is hardly anyone who is not scolded in this matter.
Tang Jingmei was scolded for tea, Ren Min was scolded for tea, even Song Qian did not escape, and a responsible old good man was scolded as an old fritters.
It seems that once it comes to powder circles, many things lose the meaning of discussion.
Only simple and crude pink and black remained.