[Good words and sentences: Issue 723]
01【On the way】
What we are looking for throughout our lives should be the lifestyle we like and the person we want to be.
Therefore, it doesn't matter if you take more detours, it doesn't matter if you spend a lot of time on the road, it's okay to be different from what the world or others expect.
As long as you are on your way to becoming you, that's enough.
02【Important things】
One of the things that has become clearer lately is that individual efforts do play a very small role in most things, and who you are, where you do it, how the industry is headed, what the economic environment is, and even what kind of people you do it with is all more important than what you do and how you do it.
——leftchenn
03【Kazuo Inamori】
You observe your surroundings, all the people who get angry at every turn, none of them are wise people, and they have lived in a mess. Never be angry, all anger is stupid. There is only one thing in the heart of the master, that is, to solve the problem, and if you can't solve it, try again and don't be biased by emotions.
04【Balzac】
Truly talented people are always kind, frank, straightforward, and never reserved;
Their ridicule is just a mental game and is not aimed at the self-esteem of others.
05【Makes sense】
Read when you're not taking an exam.
Learn to invest when you're not short of money.
Take care of your health when you're not sick.
Cultivate friendships when you don't feel lonely.
Fall in love when you're happy alone.
06【Gentleness is an ability】
When I was young, I thought that gentleness was just a gentle and submissive character, an innate personal trait. People only understand after middle age that gentleness is actually an ability, an ability to digest their own negative emotions, and gentleness is also a state of mind, an optimistic attitude that understands the other party with the greatest kindness.
07【Don't be alarmed】
Some things are not really directed at you.
For example, some people are afraid of noise, and one reason is that they feel that there is a bad person behind the noise against them. In fact, the other party may not know who you are at all, noise is just noise, at most this person has no quality.
For example, if you call or go to the store, you may encounter someone with a very bad tone. This kind of person is often not targeting you, but he is unhappy himself.
Learning to distinguish whether it is directed at oneself is an important ability. If you can't distinguish between this, it's easy to fall into the image of persecution.
08【Take more photos to record life】
Be sure to take more photos to document your life.
I like those who want to take pictures of a roadside stall, those who want to take pictures of the beautiful sunset and share them with various groups of friends, those who like those who see interesting things and synchronize them to the circle of friends, and those who see sunny days and sigh that life is really good.
They can always live their days steaming and energetic, and with them, they will always be inexplicably infected with happiness and contentment.
It is far easier to be a person who can find beauty in the ordinary and small than a person who can only be moved by the beauty of the world.
There are actually many things worth recording in life, so be sure to take more photos to record your life.
- Shengnan
09【Counterwords】
Counter-Talk Series "How to Prevent You from Having Friends"
1) Just talk about yourself and don't show interest in the other person
2) Slander acquaintances
3) Never help others
4) Pick more and let the other person learn something
5) Don't change your mind
6) You are perfect and have no faults
7) Don't accept criticism, it's them who are at fault
8) Put more pigeons
9) Don't actively interact with people
10【8 Suggestions for Emotion Management】
1. Clarify the purpose of the argument;
2. Try to understand why the other party is targeting an individual or something;
3. Talk about things and talk from your own point of view;
4. Do not jump to conclusions and make conclusions;
5. Express views after full analysis;
6. Forgive people who speak profane language, who may lack education and attention;
7. Always remember to cherish the friends around you and don't let some small things blind you.
8. Don't pay attention to other people's insults, you can just turn around and leave.
11 [Conscience]
I always feel that people are people with a conscience, but there are many people who have no conscience and live very well.
——Yishu "Blue Bird"
12【Comfortable】
As long as you don't pay attention to anyone's dynamics, don't speculate on anyone's thoughts, don't imagine something that didn't happen, simple, pause, slow down, you will find that you are very comfortable.
- "The Courage to Be Hated"
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