My husband's eldest brother's son Liang Liang repeated for three years, but he did not pass the exam. But my parents-in-law are such a grandson, and they hurt Liangliang like a baby.
So they once again bitterly persuaded Liang Liang to repeat the study, and Liang Liang began the road of re-reading again under the expectation of his father-in-law, and coincidentally my daughter also took the college entrance examination this year.
My mother-in-law has two sons, the eldest brother and sister-in-law gave birth to a son Liangliang, and my husband and I only gave birth to a daughter, Yanyan.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law are very patriarchal, I gave birth to Yanyan, they saw that it was a girl and left, and my mother came to help during the confinement.
Yan Yan grew up, and her parents-in-law did not help her buy a single piece of clothing or a toy.
But most of the clothes Liang Liang usually wears are bought by his father-in-law, and what toys Liang Liang fancy, even if they are expensive, their two elders will immediately help him buy them.
Even the Spring Festival gave money for the New Year, and her mother-in-law gave Liangliang 50 yuan, while Yanyan only had 5 yuan.
My parents-in-law did it so obviously, they were not afraid that my husband and I would be angry. Because they directly singled it out: Liangliang is the heir of the family, and Yan Yan will become an outsider when she marries out.
Because my husband and sister-in-law gave birth to a son, they are also on their toes in front of us. They often say to their husbands: "Don't give everything to your daughter, you have to leave some pension money for yourself." ”
I'm angry about what they're doing, but I don't live together and I don't bother to pay attention to them.
My own daughter hurts herself, beautiful clothes and toys, I will buy it myself.
It may be because of the unwelcome of my father-in-law, because my husband and sister-in-law intentionally or unintentionally ridiculed, I held my breath in my heart, I must cultivate my daughter well, let her succeed in learning, and then hit them in the face with facts.
My family Yanyan is well-behaved and sensible, and every time I go to my grandparents' house to play with Liangliang, I will always be bullied by him.
Because of the favoritism of adults, Liang Liang has been very domineering since he was a child, and he said to Yan Yan: "All the things in the family are his, and you can only take them with his consent..."
Every time she went back to her grandparents' house, Yan Yan came back crying. After that, I rarely took her back to my in-laws' house, and if there was anything, I let my husband go back by himself.
We can't afford to mess with it, we can afford to hide.
Liang Liang is because her father-in-law is too pampered, very willful, very selfish, and has poor self-care ability.
When he was in elementary school, I heard my husband say that Liangliang never did housework at home, and even when he ate, he was put in front of him by adults.
Later, I heard that my mother-in-law bought him a smartphone for him in order to facilitate Liangliang's homework. For example, when he handed in English speaking homework, he read it on his mobile phone.
But soon after, Liangliang became hooked on his phone, played games, and scrolled videos... At night, I often play until after twelve o'clock before going to bed.
In the end, bright eyes were short-sighted, and his academic performance was a mess... The mother-in-law was angry and confiscated the mobile phone.
In adolescence after junior high school, Liang Liang was very rebellious and his academic performance was average...
The children grew up slowly, and Yanyan was admitted to the city's key high schools with excellent grades. This year, Liangliang scored 390 points in the college entrance examination and fell off the list.
I was a little happy in my heart, the child that my in-laws loved thousands of people actually scored such a little score...
Don't say I'm gloating, it's really what they've done over the years that makes people too angry!
My family Yanyan is very self-disciplined in her study and life, and basically I don't have to worry too much. She studies down-to-earth, and her final exams in the first semester or two of high school are in the top ten of her grade.
Yan Yan always said: "Keep working hard and strive to advance two places next semester." I advised my child: "Just do your best, don't put too much pressure on yourself." ”
Yan Yan is down-to-earth and moves forward steadily. Liang Liang failed the college entrance examination one after another, Liang Liang repeated it many times, and finally they took the college entrance examination in the same year.
That year, Yan Yan scored 630 points and was admitted to Sun Yat-sen University, while Liangliang only scored 526 points and was admitted to a very ordinary local university. Later, no matter how much her mother-in-law persuaded, Liang Liang was unwilling to repeat it.
When my daughter received the acceptance letter from Sun Yat-sen University, his father and I were excited like children, singing and dancing in the living room...
The next day, we took Yanyan to the best restaurant in the city, had a good meal, and ate for three people, spending 1,000 yuan, which was half a month's salary at that time.
On the third day, we took Yanyan to Beijing for a trip, the child has always wanted to go to the capital to see, after the college entrance examination, you can rest assured to go outside!
Standing on the Great Wall, I did a big thing: I sent Yan Yan's admission notice to my husband's family group, but no one responded for a day.
But I am extremely happy in my heart, what do my father-in-law and eldest brother and sister-in-law think at this time? They used to taunt me for having a daughter, but now they regret it!
I deliberately sent Yanyan's admission notice to the group, just to tell them with facts: What happened to my daughter? She is very good now, you will not laugh at me in the future!
In the evening, the mother-in-law finally couldn't hold back a message: Don't show off.
Other people knew that their father-in-law loved Liangliang, but Liangliang and smashed the exam, and because of their feelings, they didn't say a word of congratulations, and they didn't say a word of justice.
My husband and I don't mind my mother-in-law's words. We are not showing off, we are telling everyone in the family with facts: my daughter is no worse than my son.
Now Yan Yan is in graduate school, and Liang Liang has also graduated from college. His father-in-law and mother-in-law found him several jobs, but he either felt that the salary was low or he was tired, and he resigned after working for two or three months each time.
Now Liangliang has been at home for more than a month, hiding in his room every day to play games, heard that he wants to start his own business, and asked his family to give him 100,000 yuan of entrepreneurship fund, this time his mother-in-law hesitated...