#夏日生活打卡季 #
The new and old dockers of the third season of "Fifty Kilometers Peachblossom Dock" gathered again, and all kinds of proposals also appeared again.
The party that had always continued was canceled, and Ren Min, who had been preparing for the program for half a month, wanted to find someone to make a band and finally complete his own program.
The first person she found was Tang Jingmei, and she said her proposal, and Tang Jingmei also felt very good, so she began to look for team members.
But later, because of the difference in philosophy, Tang Jingmei told Ren Min that she would make a band where everyone learned musical instruments, and asked Ren Min if she wanted to join.
Ren Min thought that the formed band had excluded herself, and she cried sadly, but Tang Jingmei found someone to explain it clearly in person as soon as she learned that there was a misunderstanding, and the two quickly reconciled.
Originally, this was a story that began because of a misunderstanding and ended because of the explanation, but it was hotly searched by the audience, and the 3 girls involved, in fact, no one is wrong.
Ren Min: Sponsor of the proposal
Ren Min's philosophy: It doesn't have to be perfect to perform, anyone can, so it's called the "half-hanging" band.
Tang Jingmei found Ren Min's teammates Jiang Shuying and Sun Yi, who Ren Min wanted at the beginning, but they were all rejected, and then they had a few abstract ideas, and then fed the results back to Ren Min, telling Ren Min that he already had several other friends who could form a band "from scratch" together.
Because the planning concept is different, Tang Jingmei asked Ren Min's opinion if she should still join.
But in Ren Min's view, it was like taking her ideas but not taking her to play, so she felt wronged.
Tang Jingmei: A campaigner for proposals
After chatting with a few people, Tang Jingmei felt that it was difficult to form a "half-hangzi" band, and after changing her ideas, she contacted Meng Ziyi and Spicy Mu, who lived together, to form a "starting from scratch" band.
By this time, the band's philosophy had become: to challenge something that had not been learned.
The starting point is different, and the formation goal is different.
Tang Jingmei explained all the abstract ideas in her expression, and developed cognitive biases with Ren Min. After knowing that there was a misunderstanding in the middle, she immediately went to Ren Min to explain.
Song Qian: The main focus is fairness and fairness
When Tang Jingmei found Song Qian to say what the band thoughts, Song Qian did not know that the band's proposal was Ren Min's, so she gave advice from a professional point of view: if you don't, you can start from the basics, learn the most basic common sense, start from the simplest etudes, and then advance to find a less difficult but more like a small program.
So after the disagreement, Song Qian immediately said to Tang Jingmei: "This is taking people's ideas, although it has become different from the beginning, or do you want to think of another form?" "Offer to abandon the band.
In order to ease the relationship, Song Qian also told Ren Min in a voice why "starting from scratch" came about.
As Li Xueqin said after seeing Ren Min crying: "I don't know the whole picture of the matter, there is some misunderstanding here, I know that there is a high probability." ”
This is not uncommon in relationships, but after the program is amplified, there will be a variety of interpretations.
The parties can be honest with each other, but there are always people who want to "fight grievances", which is really unnecessary.