Recently, two families were eating in a hot pot restaurant in Lianyungang,
One with a smaller baby, one with a child a few years old,
As you can see from the video, this little child keeps running around in the aisle,
Still holding a small toy in his hand,
Originally, it was also peaceful, but when the children were playing,
Accidentally threw the toy into the hot pot on the adjacent table,
The splash of soup scalded the 4-month-old baby at the next table,
The parents hurried to check on the baby's condition and fished out the other child's toys from the pot,
But the other parent sat indifferently throughout the process,
Afterwards, the baby's parents called the police, but the other parent's parents were unwilling to negotiate.
The incident is still under investigation,
As soon as the incident came out, I didn't expect that the point of contention among netizens on this matter turned out to be,
Is it normal to take a 4-month-old baby to eat hot pot,
On the one hand, they think that the parents of this little baby should not take the baby to eat hot pot:
Take a 4-month-old baby to eat hot pot, what a love it is
I don't understand why I should go out to eat hot pot with a 4-month-old baby, boys are naturally at fault, but as a mother, before taking the baby out, you must predict in advance the hidden dangers that eating hot pot may bring, which is the most basic ability! Is it meaningful to complain about the other person after you have already been hurt?
All those who question the baby to eat hot pot, are kind people, parents themselves eat this bite, can not bear it, even if there is no bear child, there is also danger, after all, hot pot is the way to put the back kitchen on the dining table, even if it is not hot, the air is not good for the child, or long snacks, right?
Let's tell you so, the risks outside are uncontrollable, but your own safety measures can be in place, and you have to sit in the aisle with a 4-month-old baby to eat hot pot, what do you think? I don't think normal people take babies for a few months, so go to places where there are not many people!
Don't raise the bar! When my child was young, I realized that eating hot pot may have this risk, or the customers in the store beat each other, holding the hot pot base and splashing each other, or the waiter with hot dishes and hot soup suddenly slipped his hands and feet, when the child has no self-protection ability, parents must establish a safety awareness, take such a young child to the hot pot restaurant is not because of choking on the waste! It's about preventing problems before they happen!
Most netizens still think that the other party's "bear children" and parents are the key to the problem:
Who are the people in the comment area, do not blame the bear child, do not accuse the child of breaking into trouble and are indifferent adults, but blame the victim for coming out to eat with the baby to blame the position where people sit, capital clothing!
First of all, I don't let my child throw toys in the aisle in public, even if it doesn't hurt this time, it may cause trouble to others. Second, after their own child's unintentional actions cause harm to others, they will not continue to sit there indifferent. Even if it's not a baby sitting in the aisle, he will be burned if it is you and me. This is the bear child and the bear parent!
Those who say that it is not recommended that babies be brought out to eat hot pot, in the video, either the baby is hot or others will be hot. Can't everyone else go to hot pot? Or should others wear protective clothing and face shields before going to eat hot pot?
The child did not hold the toy steadily, flew away, it was an unintentional mistake,
Parents should apologize, apologize, compensate, there is nothing to say.
It's not intentional, just actively deal with the following things, rather than being unwilling to negotiate, what is this?
After all, their own children, smashing things into other people's pots and splashing soup to people (regardless of adults and children),
are all need to actively cooperate, such blind avoidance,
How to set a good example for children?
Who is more responsible for this?