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39. The grace of dripping water, the spring springs in return, and the days are poor, but they are also warm
In order to take care of the face of his second father Sun Yuhou, Sun Shaoan took advantage of the dark folks not paying attention and sent a liter of white noodles from his house to his second father. The second father invited him Xiulian to eat at home according to the local custom, but he was suffering and there was no white face, Shaoan saw the difficulty of the second father, and took the initiative to send white noodles, so that the second father used this white face to decorate the façade.
The next morning, when Shao'an and Xiulian were sitting on the rotten mat of the second father Sun Yuting's house and eating white noodle sheets, Shao'an looked at the tattered and shabby situation in the second father's house, and his heart was sour, and he said to himself in his heart: Second father! You run to meetings every day, read documents, read newspapers, you have been revolutionizing for half your life, your home is so dilapidated, a few dolls can't even eat a full meal all day ... He looked at the three children waiting to be fed, and saw the white noodle sheet, the kind of desperate eating, Shaoan couldn't bear to swallow. He and Xiulian could only look at each other and smile, but Shaoan's heart was crying. Although he also rarely eats white noodles, this meal, she and Xiulian eat is really symbolic.
Although Sun Yuhou is very satisfied with the daughter-in-law that his son brought back from Shanxi, especially Xiulian is such a good daughter, and does not want a bride price, this alone makes Sun Yuhou so happy that he can't close his mouth.
Xiulian's understanding and diligence made Sun Yuhou feel that he had to make his son's wedding a little more decent. In his own words: that is, if he does not give Shao'an a decent wedding, he will not be blind even if he dies. So, when Shaoan and Xiulian went to their second father's house for dinner, Sun Yuhou got up and went to Jin Junhai's house, where he went to borrow money.
For his son's marriage, he had to show this old face. Although the woman doesn't want a penny of money and gifts, he can't even sew a few hourly clothes for other dolls, and Shao'an can't just wear a tattered dress as a groom! The clothes and bedding of the two newcomers came down in pieces, and thirty or fifty yuan was not worth anything. There is also a wedding, he can't quietly marry Shao'an's daughter-in-law. This is his happy event for his dear son! Back then, he held a marriage for his younger brother Yuting, and in such difficult years, he gritted his teeth and did it loudly and decently; Now he is doing marriage for his son, even if he is desperate, he can't let the world laugh! Although he is not allowed to hire a blower now, he must prepare wine and food for his relatives and friends! He wants to make the happy event prosperous and lively!
However, to do a happy event, you have to borrow 200 yuan. With such a large amount of money, who did he borrow from? He discussed with his wife for half the night, and only Jin Junhai's family borrowed it.
Sun Yuhou and his wife first calculated the cost of grain and money. These two main things have to be borrowed from others. Most of the family's rations are coarse grains, which cannot be brought to the table. Of course, don't buy pork, kill the pig at home, but this year it can't be sold as meat. The old couple did the math, and in the end they could only borrow this money from Jin Junhai's family. But that's hard enough for them. Of course, as long as they open their mouths, it is estimated that the family will not refuse.
Sun Yuhou remembered that in the early years, after Yuting became a family, they had no place to live, and they lived in people's houses for several years. In the future, although they moved their families here, Shaoping and Lanxiang had no place to live at night, and they didn't spend the night at someone's house! Besides, usually Jin Xiu to Lan Xiang, Jin Bo to Shaoping, often take food and drink, Jin Bo does not worry less about these two children - the uniform of the two study dolls Shao'an's mother will not do it, is it not Jin Bo's mother to do it on their sewing machine?
What makes Sun Yuhou most difficult is: if you borrow this money, you don't know when you can pay it back? ...... It's hard to speak! Sun Yu walked to Jin Junhai's house with a heavy heart, and when he arrived at Jin Junhai's house, just as Junhai came home from Huangyuan's car, Junhai and his family went to the road to move things home. This made Sun Yuhou's heart burst into joy. I thought: In this way, with a man at home, he is better off borrowing money. Sitting on the chair of Kim Junhae's house, smoking a dry cigarette, he thought, is it a roundabout or straightforward? Besides, isn't it still a borrower?
To Sun Yuhou's surprise, when he said that Shao'an was preparing to get married before the Spring Festival and said about Xiulian's situation, Jin Junhai was very happy for his family Shaoan, and said: "Then you have to live a simple life!" Xiu's mother and I also talked about Shao'an's marriage. It is estimated that you have to do errands, and you are more nervous at hand now. Do you see the need for money? If you need it, you can open your mouth, I can take it out at home!" ”
Sun Yuhou suddenly felt that Junhai and his wife could understand people's difficulties so meticulously, and his eyes were so moved.
Jin Junhai asked, "Brother Yuhou, don't be embarrassed!" How much money do you watch? Is three hundred yuan enough? ”
Sun Yuhou said gratefully, "It doesn't take that much!" About two hundred pieces is about the same..."
Junhai immediately said to Jinbo's mother: "You go, get two hundred yuan for Brother Yuhou." ”
Lu Yao made a lot of presentations and descriptions in the section when Sun Yuhou planned the marriage of his son Shaoan and borrowed money from Jin Junhai's family, and he made a lot of explanations and descriptions about the embarrassing helplessness in life in the face of difficulties and the need to be grateful. For example, when it comes to Shao'an's need for money to get married, Jin Junhai said, "... If you need it, you can open your mouth, I can take it out at home!" ”
Sun Yuhou's eyes turned red with emotion, and he said, "I came for this matter, and I didn't expect you to come back." Before I can speak, you will say this first... Alas, I've bothered you too much, and I can't open this mouth..."
Jimbo next to him said, "What is this!" How much your family has done for us in a year! Junhai is outside the door, without the help of your family, I can't get a handful of firewood and grass back in the mountains..."
Here, Sun Yuhou just remembers that he received a lot of help from Junhai's family, but never cared about what he had paid to others, and Junhai and his wife never cared about their own goodness to Sun Yuhou's family, only remembering the goodness of Sun Yuhou's father and son to his family. Out of gratitude, the couple knew that the money lent out would be returned indefinitely, but they still generously lent the money to Sun Yuhou.
Sun Yuhou's kindness and gratitude in dealing with people, and the understanding of Jin Junhai and his wife, are actually expressions of gratitude for people. Lu Yao spent a lot of ink here, from his brother Yuting getting married to borrow debts, and later living in Jin Junhai's house, and a series of past experiences, all of which were carried out when Sun Yuhou borrowed money from Junhai's family and Jin Junhai's family's help to his family. When borrowing money, the dialogue between them makes people feel the warmth of gratitude between people.
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The grace of dripping water, the spring in return. Reading "Ordinary World", here, it is very warm and appropriate, giving people the warmth of the world, just depends on how we do things and behave. That is, our life is so poor that we lack food and clothing, that is, society cannot give us the opportunity to create wealth, as long as we strive to do ourselves well, all difficulties and hardships are temporary, and difficulties will eventually turn decay into magical power under the sunshine of hope.
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