Editor's note: The author of this article, Chen Xi, is the vice president of Microblue and the founder of education and training institutions
Today I saw a word called: shielding force.
We are easily disturbed by the outside world, under which our minds are affected and our decision-making cannot be independent.
That's when we need to shield.
01
Block useless information
Today, when the Internet is very developed, all kinds of information on the Internet, if we cannot have the ability to distinguish this information, we are easily disturbed by this information.
We often see the title "Get rich in 3 days...".
If it were that easy, there would be no poor people in the world. Including the current telecom fraud, it is the same reason.
What we need to understand is the essence behind this information, information is only appearance.
We need to shield the appearance to understand the essence. Everything is influenced by laws, such as the law of spring planting, summer and autumn harvest, such as interest rates must be related to the country's economic growth rate, too high interest rates must have problems.
The other side. Don't waste time on information that isn't relevant to your job, block them and spend more time improving yourself.
In your leisure time, use reading and thinking instead of aimlessly brushing your mobile phone, and life will not feel empty;
When doing things, create a space for deep thinking for yourself, add weight to your thoughts, and only then can life have the possibility of upward.
When you actively filter out useless information, every minute of yours becomes more meaningful.
02
Block out negative energy
Don't get entangled with rotten people and rotten things.
We often encounter some rotten people, and if we think about them, we end up wasting our time and affecting our emotions.
My former entrepreneurial partner, took the funds, spent them at will, and when I left, I did not quarrel, did not theorize, quickly invested in the new field, but achieved good results.
There are many complaining people around us, and if there is a slight disappointment, there will be all kinds of complaints, and this also needs to be kept away.
Not being infected by the anger of others, not being dominated by other people's anxiety, not worrying about other people's complaints, not being disappointed by others' frustration, is the most transparent attitude to life.
People with strong hearts know how to block the bad emotions of others and grasp the initiative of the mood in order to embrace their own lives.
And put yourself in the circle of positive energy.
After I joined Micro Bluelight, the people in this circle were too powerful, compared to learning, compared to improving, but also drove me to follow their steps and move forward.
03
Block the influence of others
We are surrounded by people who care about us but don't understand us, such as our parents, our friends.
This time also requires us to shield and strengthen our inner choices.
Like I go to bed late every day, but I do business, and my family often says, why sleep so late. I just smiled.
There is also a word in psychology called herd effect, in a mass environment, it is easy to conform.
It is necessary to maintain independent thinking skills and keep a clear head.
Do not be sensitive to the gaze of others, do not live in other people's mouths, and be your own master.
When we are firm inside, it is difficult for the outside world to influence us.
How can we improve our shielding power?
1. Improve awareness. There is a saying that all our epiphany is just the common sense of others. This is a high-dimensional vs. low-dimensional second. People with high cognition see through the essence at a glance.
2. Find the right circle. Stay in the circle of positive energy, with positive energy people, since we are affected by the environment, why not choose a good environment?
3. Rich knowledge and insight. If you were a dictionary, which word did you not know? Learn more, get involved.
04
At last
The shielding force is our fixed force. No matter how the outside world influences, we always stick to our original intention.
Shielding is a form of concentration. Focus on the most important things in the moment.
Shielding power is our ability to think independently. Under all kinds of information, we can accurately grasp the key and make our own judgments.
May we find our perseverance in our troubled lives and work.