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Author | Xintian Editor | Swallow
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"Breaking into the Guandong" is written about the anecdote of the old Zhu family's big son breaking into the Guandong, the head of the family Zhu Kaishan is the big male lord, the three sons have inherited his kindness, bravery and wisdom, and they also interpret the wonderful stories that belong to them.
However, in my opinion, the women of the old Zhu family are also the main characters that cannot be ignored in this play, three sons and three daughters-in-law, although they are not the protagonists, but the role is equally indispensable. Especially in the old era when a woman's talentlessness was virtuous, the three daughters-in-law rarely occupied an important place in the Zhu family.
The three daughters-in-law of the old Zhu family have different background identities, which has created their very different personalities.
The eldest daughter-in-law, Nawen, was the last Gege, who grew up in the Wangye Mansion, was familiar with the Four Books and Five Classics, and was proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. Na Wen had never worked since he was a child, but he was articulate, and a small mouth coaxed people to faint. Because of his traditional education, Wen crepe crepe's mouth said the three principles and five constants.
The second daughter-in-law, Xiu'er, is the only daughter of the landlord's family, and grew up in the palm of her father's hand, but she is not squeamish at all. Xiu'er has the industriousness, simplicity and kindness of traditional peasant women, although she is not as able to speak the Tao as the eldest daughter-in-law, but her simple head only wants to work, which is deeply loved by her mother-in-law.
The third daughter-in-law, Yushu, was a merchant's lady, who received a Western education from an early age and pursued freedom and equality, and all kinds of new ideas were still relatively out of place in that era.
But it is such three daughters-in-law with different personalities and different values who get along unexpectedly harmoniously. There are no dog-blooded concubines fighting between the servants, on the contrary, they will help each other when they encounter things, although they will not say that they are sisters, but at least they are harmonious. The three sons did not separate the family, even now, it is rare that three daughters-in-law can live together in such harmony.
This daughter-in-law made the rear of the old Zhu family stable, and the men of the old Zhu family could also work hard with confidence and make the family business bigger. It is said that they are a female stream, but the scarf does not let the eyebrows be raised, who can say that their roles are insignificant?
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The three daughters-in-law of the old Zhu family who come from different backgrounds and have different personalities can get along so harmoniously, and there are also traces to follow.
First, they have one thing in common – kindness.
The people of the old Zhu family all have the biggest thing in common, that is, kindness. Zhu Kaishan's two sons are like this, the Zhu family's three sons are like this, and the daughter-in-law that the Zhu family is looking for is naturally the same.
Because of the kindness in this bone, as long as it is a good thing, they can reach a consensus, needless to say.
For example, the old Zhu family took in a Japanese child ichiro who was half sick and half dead, and if he changed to other farmers, he would think that this child had infected himself, not to mention that he was still a Japanese. But the old Zhu family didn't think so much, they only felt that this was a poor child, a life, and they wanted to save him.
The three daughters-in-law did not feel that this child was a burden at home, they all tacitly took care of this child and loved this child, which was their kindness.
The three daughters-in-law also get along with each other because of their kindness. For example, when Yushu found that Xiu'er could only hold a pillow wearing Chuanwu's wedding dress every night since she married Chuanwu, Yushu did not taunt, let alone despise, but hugged her second sister-in-law tightly, hurt her in her heart, and gave her empathy.
This accumulated bit of kindness and friendship has always warmed up their concubines.
Second, they are all sensible and have a pattern.
Although the three daughters-in-law of the Zhu family are women of the old era, they are all very sensible, and they are very clear in the face of great right and wrong, and they are not worse than the sons of the Zhu family.
Japan's Morita has always been angry that the old Zhu family has obtained the right to operate the Shanhe Coal Mine, so he threatened to induce the Zhu family's boss Chuanwen and Lao Siyilang to deceive Zhu Kaishan, using a conspiracy to change the surname of the Shanhe Coal Mine to Morita, and also provoking the relationship between the old Zhu family.
In the face of the betrayal of their husbands, the eldest daughter-in-law Na wen and Xiu'er, who has become ichiro's daughter-in-law, do not protect their shortcomings at all, as pillow people, they all choose to kill their relatives.
Xiu'er has been widowed for decades, and it is difficult to meet the true love Ichiro, but when she learns that Ichiro and the Japanese have pit the old Zhu family, Xiu'er does not hesitate to cut off ichiro and angrily accuses him of being a wolf cub who has not been raised for eight lifetimes.
Na Wen was even more domineering, not only saying that he would never spare Chuanwen, but also letting shengzi coax Chuanwen back, and he took a long knife to cut Chuanwen to remove this scourge for the old Zhu family.
These daughters-in-law look weak in their daily lives, and even have some careful eyes and their own careful thoughts, but they are not confused at all at the critical moments. They have a big picture and a clear reason, which is very valuable.
Third, the mother-in-law has the wisdom to coordinate from it, so that the relationship between the three daughters-in-law can be balanced.
The concubines of the old Zhu family can get along well with each other, and their mother-in-law also has credit. Although the Zhu family does not even have a name in the play, she is indeed a wise woman, and she has her own set of ways for the coordination of family relations, especially the relationship between concubines.
Xiu'er has not been welcomed by the second elder Chuanwu, and has not touched Xiu'er since marriage, this matter is known by the eldest daughter-in-law Nawen, and the outspoken wen Wei Xiu'er has no charm, so it cannot attract Chuanwu.
Xiu'er was very aggrieved and complained to her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law knew that among the three daughters-in-law, Xiu'er was the most bitter in her heart, and since chuanwu this living beast did not hurt her, the mother-in-law was particularly painful.
The eldest bride let Xiu'er fake pregnancy, let the other two daughters-in-law know that Chuanwu is not what they think, and not touch Xiu'er at all, so that Xiu'er can also raise her eyebrows and breathe. Later, she let Xiu'er pretend to have a miscarriage, and let the two daughters-in-law serve her little confinement, and three meals a day could not be repeated.
The eldest and the third daughter-in-law have a husband who loves them, And Xiu'er has a mother-in-law who favors her, and everyone has pain at home, and the daughters-in-law's hearts are stable, and they are more dead hearted to stay in the old Zhu family.
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The old Zhu family has been growing since breaking into the Kanto region, the men are constantly working hard, and the women behind them are stabilizing the rear, and they are also indispensable.
It is said that home and talent are all prosperous, just imagine if the concubines are fighting in the nest behind their backs and making the family restless, how can the men of the old Zhu family be at ease and work hard to move forward?
To become a family, you must twist into a rope and walk hand in hand in order to go further. If you always think about your own interests and fight in the nest, you will only lose everything. Only by helping each other and being prosperous, everyone's wealth will be more.
Families also need to understand and tolerate each other, whether it is between concubines, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, when encountering things, they will take a step back from the sea and the sky. The elders are sensible, the young people are kind and friendly, and it is difficult to think of such a day.