Little S is the strongest "third party" in Big S marriage

Flowing water's brother-in-law, iron-beaten little S

It's June, and "Walking with the S Family" has a new plot.

The trend is new, but if you look closely, it is still the same old way: Xiao S, the No. 1 propagandist of the S family, has exposed his sister's marriage affairs again!

This time, he did not talk to himself, but directly invited the first party to his own program, interacting and breaking the news.

The guest of the latest issue of "Miss Buxidi" is the bald head Gu Junye.

Under the "inducement" of his sister-in-law, he told many details of his relationship with Big S, including but not limited to: the two would kiss each other at dinner in the restaurant, he would feed his wife, even feed drinks mouth-to-mouth, and would personally cook a love meal for his wife...

Because the sweetness index is too explosive, the way of love is exaggerated to some bizarre, and this marital matter once rushed to the hot search headlines. The comment area is as yin and yang strange as ever: How, is it that Big S is suffering from a serious illness and can't move? I used to need my husband to go to the toilet on my back, but now I can't even take care of myself?

But how they love me has no impact, after all, the newlywed Yan'er, it's normal to be crooked, and for the sake of the show, it's not impossible to exaggerate a little. The focus of my curiosity was Xiao S, who was standing next to his brother-in-law.

Time is like water, the years are like songs, I think back then, Wang Xiaofei's scenes on "Kangxi is Coming" and "Sister is Hungry" are still vividly remembered, and now the program has changed, the people have changed, and one thing has not changed - the sister-in-law is the host, and the brother-in-law is the guest.

Flowing water's brother-in-law, iron-beating sister-in-law. Let's just say, if you don't go to my sister-in-law's home stadium and make a move, is it not a man of the Xu family?

Not only the two brothers-in-law, almost every relationship of Big S has Xiao S's busy figure, and the previous famous love objects - Lan Zhenglong and Zhou Yumin have also appeared as "brother-in-law" or "ex-brother-in-law" in Xiao S's show more than once, or have been exposed to love details, or been asked the reason for the breakup, and one can accidentally fall into the pit.

After breaking up with Big S, Zhou Yumin went to "Kangxi" to promote "Riffraff Hero", which should be full of memories that Zaizai Buddha wants to erase, right?

Xiao S, who was full of curiosity, ate melons on the spot, first asking "Do you still have feelings for my sister", and then asking "Do you still want to recover her", which can be described as unscrupulous and serial attacks.

Zhou Yumin swallowed for a long time, and just said "My feelings for her, from...", Xiao S immediately answered - "It has never disappeared!" ”

The reaction speed, the excited little expression, is exactly the same as the vast number of CP masses, almost adding "he loves very much, I really am".

Zhou Yumin next to him was not embarrassed, and when he came to see that the other party had not let go, the link of the propaganda drama had not arrived, and even began to show some stunnedness, and directly complained: "You are really talking ..."

But then again, the relationship between young children is different from marriage, marriage not only means a deeper bond between each other, but also means a deep bond between two families. The legitimate son-in-law and stamped brother-in-law must be more like his own than the "sister's boyfriend", whether with the mother-in-law or the sister-in-law, there will inevitably be more frequent and close interactions.

So let's focus on how the two brothers-in-law are treated in the sister-in-law's show, and what are the subtle differences in the relationship with Xiao S.

Sister-in-law's perspective: Elder Gu Junye VS jealous mad demon Wang Xiaofei

As we all know, Gu Junye is a passing Korean star, but "Miss Buxidi" obviously gave him superstar-like treatment.

The whole scene is basically praised, praising how talented he is, praising how infatuated and considerate he is to Big S, like the male protagonist of a Korean drama;

praise how filial he is, and will deliberately spend time to give birthday gifts to his mother-in-law;

Boast about how popular he used to be, and he is still very popular in South Korea;

Boasting about other connections, can help my sister-in-law and mother-in-law open up a star-chasing through train...

Anyway, it's amazing, as if the best men in the world have been drawn by their family.

The only time I complained was clearly and disparagingly. Gu Junye said how to love Big S, Xiao S and the translator's sister said, when you say these words, do you feel like vomiting?

Gu Junye is also very round, he said: Because I am (investing) all the love that I haven't talked about in 20 years into one love. Gee, did not let the words fall to the ground, and by the way showed his own long-term love and single-mindedness, ginger is still old and spicy.

Judging from this program alone, the 54-year-old South Korean Oppa belongs to the type of calm personality and thoughtfulness, in short, it is definitely not the "old urchin without heart and lungs" who is right, throwing terriers to catch them, it can be seen that he is an experienced old river, and has a clear goal, and knows very well what he is doing this trip.

I don't know if my friends who watched the show found that in Xiao S's home field, he very decisively controlled the field twice:

For the first time, Xiao S and the deputy host guided the Korean male guest who married his Taiwanese daughter-in-law and had a good Chinese to talk about how popular and status Gu Junye was in South Korea, but before it could be unfolded, he was forcibly interrupted by Gu Junye.

He said that instead of saying whether it was red or not, let him talk about my character, because there are many misunderstandings about me here.

It can be seen that he knows the domestic public opinion very well, since there is such a good "whitewashing opportunity", it is natural to start from the focus, otherwise no matter how much exaggeration is invalid, after all, the next focus of work is in China, that is, to face the Chinese audience, as much as possible to let the audience improve themselves, presumably the most important task of his trip.

The second time: Xiao S star chasing addiction attack, cue one Korean male star after another, I hope that my brother-in-law can introduce and meet, from Rain to Kwon Ji Long and talk about BTS, endlessly, I don't know who will be recruited.

Maybe he didn't want to be buttoned up with the hat of rubbing the heat of the big coffee, and Gu Junye, who felt more and more wrong, gave Xiao S an emergency brake with a sentence of "don't say this anymore", and Xiao S was also very knowledgeable, and immediately obediently changed the topic.

This new brother-in-law of Virgo is still very cautious. At the same time, it can be seen that he is not only older than Xiao S, but also has the majesty of an elder, talking and doing, and still has a certain deterrent power for this little sister-in-law.

Xiao S currently respects and recognizes his new brother-in-law, otherwise he would not have turned the show scene into a brother-in-law's quawkwa.

The current situation of the relationship between the two "respectful as guests" is based on the chemical reaction formed by each other's personalities on the one hand, and driven by the interests of the family on the other hand.

Now the Wang and Xu families are at odds, it is when the Xu family needs a man to give them a town field, not to mention that they can become the backbone of the competition, and they are probably happy to see Wang Xiaofei angry, as the so-called, "the current is better than the predecessor, and the heart is happy."

And Gu Junye, who has long been in South Korea, also intends to open up the Chinese market, and common interests will naturally make them "close to each other, united, and twisted into a rope".

But in contrast, the relationship between former brother-in-law Wang Xiaofei and Xiao S is not so harmonious, not only now, but also has the smell of gunpowder.

When Da S and Wang Xiaofei were newly married Yan'er, Wang Xiaofei's painting style in the issue of "Kangxi" was very single, that is, the pure brother-in-law and sister-in-law pinched each other throughout the process.

Round 1:

Xiao S: Which of us has a closer relationship with my sister?

Xiaofei: That must be me.

Xiao S: We are sisters who grew up together!

Xiaofei: Yes, but you don't have the kind of tongue kiss like the two of us together.

Round 2:

Xiao S: When Xiaofei looks at me, she sometimes shows the kind of "so beautiful today" look.

Xiaofei (speechless expression): Eh... It's hard to dress up, right?

Round 3:

Xiao S: Xiaofei often says bad things about me and my daughter, every time he takes the child to his house, he will look up and down, do you think my daughter is not fashionably dressed?

Xiaofei: No, the most important thing is that children are comfortable.

Xiao S: What kind of clothes do you find most uncomfortable?

Xiaofei: Just don't dress like Aunt Xiaojun (nanny).

Seeing Wang Xiaofei's emotional loss of control and incompetent rage, it may be difficult for you to imagine that Xiao Wang, who was still a proud young man in the spring breeze, was very smart and witty, humorous, and did not fall behind in the head-to-head confrontation with the famous mouth Xiao S. Of course, there is really no elder style and gentlemanly demeanor, and it does not save face for my sister-in-law at all.

They talk to me, as if children are fighting, endlessly, the more they talk, the more they go up.

This is by no means just the effect of that episode, the inexplicable non-confrontation between the two has never been broken.

"Kangxi" on the big S after giving birth, and his sister recalled a prenatal episode: I originally wanted my sister to accompany me in the delivery room, and my husband was directly watching the child outside, Wang Xiaofei did not agree, saying that she must be the first to see the child, and it can't be someone else! Obviously, his sister-in-law snatched his "C position".

Not to be outdone, Xiao S said: He just wants to be the first to see the child, but I want to hold your hand to give you encouragement, you see how selfish he is!

In the issue of "Happiness Trio" Xiao S went to be a guest, these two even showed the competition for favor clearly.

Big S cooked, Xiao S hugged his sister, saying that his sister was so capable, Wang Xiaofei saw this, and kissed Big S without saying a word, as a counterattack to his sister-in-law's provocation.

Chatting after dinner, somehow talked about the new movie starring Xiao S, Wang Xiaofei said, watched, watched on the plane. Then fell silent, as if he wanted to say something, afraid that the unbearable evaluation would hurt Xiao S, but in fact, the dark arrow had been released. Big S simply made it up, and he said you better be the host.

Xiao S, who was refuted by face, immediately countered: I also went to eat at your restaurant. And then it came to an abrupt end. The implication is that your food is not bad.

The big S next to him hurry up and circle, don't attack, it's so childish.

So you see, Xiao S's way of getting along with his former brother-in-law Wang Xiaofei is completely different from the current brother-in-law Gu Junye, as if they have some deep hatred that cannot be resolved for so many years.

It stands to reason that when Pingshui meets, relatives have a relationship, what hatred can there be?

Based on all the above, Wang Xiaofei's hostility to Xiao S is obviously greater, and it is the beginning of the conflict between the two.

Behind this hostility is both hatred and contempt, mainly from the following two aspects:

First, he doesn't seem to recognize Xiao S very much at all, even to the point of annoyance.

People children dress up he can't see, after drinking on the social platform to distribute chicken soup he is going to splash cold water, how the big S is how was taken by his sister to be damaged... He also bluntly said that even if he didn't know Big S, he would never fancy Little S.

The reason for this is probably due to the inherent aesthetics of traditional straight men.

Xiao S is known for "molesting male stars" in the show, and he is relatively big in his private life, not delicate and elegant enough. Switching to the perspective of a 24K pure traditional straight man, such a woman is unruly, dignified, unethical, and not a normal woman, and he will naturally be very stingy with his own praise, and even respect.

This is one of them, and the second point is more fundamental - he does not want to share the big S with Xiao S.

His subconscious may have heard such an alarm signal long ago - this sister-in-law and wife are too close, threatening the stability and unity of their small family. So be sure to attack and keep her out of the way.

This can't blame Wang Xiaofeiduo for thinking that Big and Small S are indeed more closely connected than ordinary sisters, like an inseparable community of life. They grew up together, and when they were teenagers, they worked hard together, supported each other, and cooperated with each other, and only then did they get to where they are today.

Wang Xiaofei's heart can feel that this all-round symbiosis formed over the years is not something that he can break as an "outsider" in a short period of time, and the more anxious he is, the more difficult it is to calm down, so he will keep being jealous and keep growing thorns that attack his sister-in-law.

So the question is, why don't other "brothers-in-law" have such obvious fried hair as Wang Xiaofei?

The answer can only be that Wang Xiaofei's own personality is not very independent, and he also needs to find a symbiote, so his desire to monopolize his partner is stronger, just like the more thirsty the person, the more unable to bear others to grab water with him. Therefore, the sister-in-law who loves to jump up and down in his sister's marriage has become his imaginary enemy.

In short, compared with Gu Junye, who focuses on the overall situation and has his own majesty, Wang Xiaofei, who is bound by personal grudges, is like a frizzy and naïve child. In Gu's brother-in-law, the sister-in-law is an excellent assist, but Wang's brother-in-law pushed Xiao S to the position of the enemy from the beginning, and even naively thought that Big S's "misguided" came from Xiao S's instigation.

But in fact, where does she have that ability?!

She is not a scheming and strategizing old witch, but a sharp blade, who can charge for whoever holds it, and if you oppose it, you have made a strong enemy for yourself.

The brother-in-law is a passerby, and the sister and popularity are more important

Xiao S's "first master" has always been Big S, don't look at the current praise of Gu Junye to the sky, he and his sister's love could not be solved, Xiao S directly fired in the show, saying that he did not take responsibility, he left, leaving his sister alone to bear the scolding of "upside down", so that even friends will not have to do it in the future.

My sister was sobbing on the side, and she scolded super fiercely and seriously.

Don't say that changing your face is faster than turning a book, it doesn't matter who your brother-in-law is, her sister's interests and safety are her first principles.

My sister has long acquiesced to the function of her sister's microphone and white gloves, and whenever things happen, she always avoids talking about it and maintains the so-called elegance, in fact, she will silently line up the troops, and the younger sister rushes to the front line to spread public opinion, praising those who should be praised, and scolding those who should be scolded. This is the division of labor and tacit understanding formed by the two sisters for many years.

This relationship model extends to her work as well. Cai Kangyong is her other "master". The division of labor in "Kangxi" is also roughly the same - the sophisticated Cai Kangyong is responsible for controlling the overall situation and guiding moderately, while Xiao S is shot as a sharp arrow where he wants, even farther and more powerful than he expected.

It is precisely in this way that whenever it comes to playing a role, everything that involves standing out for others, Xiao S can be extremely bold and dashing, as if a wild horse out of control, and the "confused little follower" in her body is like the two.

This is like those friends who have not talked about a love once and have served others as love mentors one after another, it is always relatively easy to role-play in other people's lives, after all, the bystander is clear, and he is not the ultimate responsible and beneficiary, he can withdraw at any time and retreat from the whole body.

But the more this kind of game is played, those characters who are heroic or wise or open will become caves to escape their own problems, as if being a hero in someone else's country, they will no longer be a bag, play a free role on the stage, and they can do everything lightly.

But the reality is that one yard to one yard, galloping and glory in other people's worlds can never cover the black holes and flaws in their own lives.

In addition, when interviewing the "brothers-in-law", there is a question Xiao S must ask: Who am I beautiful with my sister? Why did you fall in love with her instead of me?

In the years of cooperating with my sister with my inherent role, there is not only complementarity and progress, but also depression and unwillingness, such as - "Why is the one who plays the quiet lady always the sister?" Why are there always a little more people chasing my sister? ”

Coupled with the appearance anxiety and female inertia given to women by the patriarchal society, she will can't help but compete in this regard, three separate jokes, five points inadvertently show the secret desire of "serfs to turn over and sing", and there are two points left, it is out of professional inertia.

She also knows that both the show and the audience need such a sense of conflict, and what can be the meaning of a peaceful one?

This is another reason why she has a strong presence in her sister's relationship - not shying away from personal affairs, automatically turning the sisters and the family behind them into the protagonists of the hit reality show is the starting point of their career, and the biggest highlight so far.

Singing is not the best, acting is not the best, but being able to tell your own family affairs into interesting stories is the biggest skill of Big and Small S.

Therefore, since falling in love is the easiest reality show material to be popular, Xiao S, who stands on the front line of hosting and has his own program, will certainly not let it go easily, and the whole process of follow-up is the basic operation. If the brother-in-law is also an insider who makes a living by brushing his face, then the other party will naturally know and actively cooperate.

Shortly after Big S announced the marriage news last year, Xiao S began to mention her new brother-in-law on the show, saying that she had long guessed that the new brother-in-law was Gu Junye, and was scolded by Wang Xiaofei in the air.

Later, he took his brother-in-law to attend the Golden Melody Awards Gala on the same stage, and fiercely brushed a wave of presence; In the vlog invited to travel to South Korea, the title also specifically mentions "going to my brother-in-law's hometown", which is completely to use this traffic password to the rhythm.

In this way, the decline in the reputation of the S family today is also a kind of reaction to their habit of gaining attention and liking by exposing their private lives - the whole picture has become a family ugly appearance, and elaborate thinking has become avoidance of the important.

Finally, please think about a question with me first, if it is a sister-in-law, will it be announced to the world with such fanfare?

According to the rules of the patriarchal society, having the favor of men means the proof of sexual attractiveness and the extension of social resources, which can greatly enhance women's self-confidence and sense of honor.

Even if they didn't do anything themselves, he loved me as much as I was special, and he had it and I had.

The most handsome male star is my sister's boyfriend, is it powerful?

The handsome and golden young master of the capital is my brother-in-law, cow or not? Are other female stars envious or not?

This Korean male star is my new brother-in-law, can introduce all kinds of Oppa big coffee to me, our Xu family is so international, the scenery is not beautiful?

Pulling my brother-in-law over and spinning around in public is equivalent to declaring to the world: My sister is a person with charm, status, and resources, I am her sister and my brother-in-law's sister-in-law, and I can also share such a shining glory.

But if it is an older brother and sister-in-law, it may not be so decent.

"Oh, you need to keep looking for powerful women to decorate your personality, don't you have no skills? Is the soft rice man shy? ”

If Xiu's sister-in-law and Xiu's girlfriend are good traffic passwords, Li Yapeng, who is in debt, has already used it.

Therefore, Xiao S, who loves her brother-in-law and often "entangles" with her brothers-in-law, intentionally or unintentionally, is the result of her personality, professional attributes and the collective unconsciousness of the patriarchal society.

If nothing else, her active figure in her sister's relationship will continue to exist, and her brother-in-law replaced by Laozi, the king of heaven, cannot erase the strong presence of her sister-in-law.

Today is still the "honeymoon period", and it is not impossible to turn against Gu's brother-in-law another day, after all, no one can guarantee that the spoiled wife Mad Demon Gu Junye will be the last of Big S.

But compared to who will be the next term of Big S, most of the melon-eating masses are obviously more concerned - "When will Xiao S get divorced?" ”

Author: Miss Bovary

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