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A "new filial piety standard" came out on the Internet, and the old mother couldn't laugh when she saw it, which is how many bitter tears of contemporary parents are expressed?
Come on, let's move a small bench, melon seeds up, let's see, what does the "new filial piety" we raised look like?
One: no need to play growth hormone
I went to Buniu's classmates, and as soon as I entered the door, I smelled a smell of medicine, and the aftertaste was all around. When I asked the other party's mother, I learned that her eldest was in the fifth grade, but he was not very tall, but he made her anxious.
11-year-old child, go to check the bone age, the doctor said that he has run to 14 years old, the height is not tall, no longer control, I am afraid that he will be shorter than his peers in the future.
For the height of the boss, the mother really fights every day, researches recipes, boils medicine, urges the child to exercise, and regularly takes the child to the hospital to get growth hormone.
She sighed and said, raise a child, jump up and down, which is a gold-swallowing beast, it is simply a grinding beast, specializing in grinding the not very hard heart of the old mother...
The height of the child, in addition to genetics, is most affected by diet and sleep.
If in childhood, children are allowed to eat various snacks and stay up late in fancy, the child's bone age may run wildly on the road to early development, and the head will not return.
When you wake up, it's too late, so you have no choice but to take your child to the doctor. Then while giving the child growth hormone, he lit his brain: "What an unconscious baby!" ”
Two: no glasses
If your child doesn't have to wear glasses after elementary school, he is a little cute; If he doesn't have to wear glasses after junior high school, he's an angel; If you don't have to wear glasses after high school, congratulations, the "best" filial piety of the year!
Children who don't have glasses, don't worry too much, okay?
Data show that 50% of primary school students are myopic, 90% of high school students are myopic, and by 2050, half of the world's people will suffer from myopia.
Wanting a child not to be myopic is harder than crowding a single bridge.
The child did not feel before myopia, shouted that he watched less mobile phone TV and did not listen, shouted that he used his eyes correctly, protected his eyes and did not listen, and only after his myopia did he find that there was a clear and bright world.
Who is to blame? It's useless for me to urge you not to listen, and it's useless to regret it.
Three: No need to straighten teeth
I know a mom who asked us, "Do you want to see luxuries, the kind that thieves look at?" ”
Without waiting for us to react, she pulled her daughter and said, "Laugh one." Then pointed to the child's teeth and said, that's it, my salary for half a year, is it extravagant?
Looking at the teeth, it really tests the parents' purse. I had my own teeth once before, and it cost me a lot of money, but it hurt me.
Now go to see the street, not far away, there may be a dental hospital, you can see how everyone's teeth are today.
Children are getting more and more dental problems due to eating sugar, snacking, sucking, or developmental problems. If he has not cultivated good habits since he was a child, when he is a little older, his parents will have to feel sorry for his own wallet.
Four: no rhinitis
I saw a set of data that says that nearly 25 million children under the age of 14 suffer from allergic rhinitis.
After reading this set of data, I silently pulled down the hand of the cloth girl who was picking her nose: "Don't pick it, it's not good to pick your mother again." ”
A neighbor said that the child had rhinitis, and at 12 o'clock at night, his nose was blocked, his breathing was not smooth, and he woke up crying, but there was no snot.
Because of this, the family did not sleep well, pinched his nose again, massaged him again, and tossed and exhausted.
If your child has rhinitis, he will not breathe and have difficulty breathing. It may be fine during the day, but at night, it really affects the quality of sleep too much, which makes the old mother worry.
Moreover, parents and children have suffered.
Therefore, when we see that the child's nose is often not ventilated, itchy, and wants to keep picking his nose, then we should pay attention to it, don't cry in the toilet.
Five: Learning doesn't cost a mother
Before there was a very popular prompt board on the Internet, it simply expressed the bitter tears of mothers - don't call mom!
Mom, how do you write this word?
Mom, this question won't be ah.
Mom, what does this mean?
Mom, where did my book go?
Mother......
As soon as she heard the child shouting "Ma", the old mother's heart beat faster, her blood pressure soared, and she wished that she could not hear or see, and pretended to be deaf and dumb for the most peaceful peace.
Of course, if the mother accompanies her daily life and the child can submit a satisfactory answer sheet, then the mother is also blind, bah, gratified.
But if the mother is kind and coaxing, patiently accompanied, and gently waits every day, the child's achievements are still like an old donkey going uphill, half-dead.
That old mother can spew out a mouthful of old blood, directly, pawn!
Six: You can eat anything
Sometimes, watching Bu Niu picking and choosing in the bowl with chopsticks, looking like she wants to carve out a flower, I especially envy those children who can eat.
Other people's children, green vegetables, meat, rice, what to eat, what to eat, eat fragrant, watching them eat, the mood is extremely beautiful.
My own children, the eggs are not delicious, the meat is too old, the fish has thorns, and the greens are stuck between the teeth, I want to ask, what are you doing when you come to the world, drinking dew? Can you grow up with your mind?
As soon as the body is examined, this is also lacking and that is lacking, that is, there is no lack of heart and eyes.
Being able to eat is a blessing, being able to eat is a blessing, and being able to eat children is a blessing for parents!
Seven: Don't play with your phone
Seeing a child on the Internet, locking himself at home, parents should not knock on the door.
Isn't something wrong? But the parents were frightened and rushed to the firefighters for help.
The firefighter's uncle rushed to the rescue, and after opening the door with great effort, he was also stunned when he entered the house - the child was hiding in the house and quietly playing with his mobile phone!
Ask parents how much psychological shadow area they have at the moment.
Although this kid is not a bear, just being obsessed with mobile phones is very worrying.
Children like to play with mobile phones, will their eyesight decrease, right? Is there a problem with the cervical spine? Affects sleep, right? Difficult to develop self-control, right? It's easy to lose interest in learning, right? Love staying at home and not exercising, right?
Which of these piles does not worry parents?
If any parent says that their children do not like to play with mobile phones, or play with mobile phones to understand moderation, then it is really, raising a big "filial piety".
Eight: Not overly obese
After talking about the first seven, finally came to the last one - not overly obese.
I look at the data shows that one out of every five children on the mainland is overweight.
Obesity is easy to cause precocious puberty, which directly affects the child's height. In addition, it may cause a range of other diseases.
Today's children have a variety of snacks, hormone intake, and eat more high-calorie, high-fat, high-sugar foods, leading to obesity. Moreover, they generally do not exercise enough, and it is difficult to lose weight when they are fat.
In fact, children are fat and fat, and we get used to watching them.
It's just that every time I see that the child is okay, I lie down on the sofa, staring at the TV without blinking, tearing open a bag of snacks, and stuffing the snacks into my mouth while laughing.
At this time, we are indignant in our hearts, he is all fat like this, don't you know to get up and move?
The above 8 kinds are the new "filial piety standards", all of which have low requirements and few standards, and it is said that if they can reach 4 types, they can meet the standards.
How many children do you have?
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