Qian Xuesen was 36 years old unmarried, anxious for his mother, his sister Qian Xueying volunteered to introduce him to someone, but he said: Or you marry me!
In 1947, Qian Xuesen became a professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, when he was just 36 years old.
Being so young and having such achievements can be described as a successful career. But his mother was very troubled by him, because his marriage affairs were still not settled.
At the age of 36, she has not even touched the hands of a girl, how can a mother not be in a hurry.
At this time, my sister Qian Xueying volunteered, my brother's marriage was wrapped up in me, I have so many classmates, I don't believe that I didn't look at the right eye.
But a few were introduced one after another, and Qian Xuesen always had nothing to say to other girls. In the end, he said to his sister Qian Xueying: "Don't bother, just marry me!" ”
Although Qian Xueying and Qian Xuesen are brothers and sisters, they are not related. Her father is the famous Jiang Baili.
It's just that Qian and Jiang are family friends and often move around.
The Qian family has only one son, Qian Xuesen; The Jiang family has 5, and all of them are daughters.
Looking at the 5 girls of the Jiang family, all of them are well-behaved and cute, Qian Xuesen's parents are very envious.
Jiang Baili proposed to pass on the three girls of his family to the Qian family as daughters.
Qian Xuesen's parents readily agreed.
The two chose an auspicious day and set up a banquet, which was regarded as a ceremony. And Jiang Ying also became Qian Xueying.
Looking at the sudden addition of a sister, Qian Xuesen was very happy. The two children also have a good relationship.
But later, because Jiang's mother missed her daughter very much, she had no choice but to ask her daughter back.
However, although Jiang Ying no longer lives in the Qian family, he has always called Qian Xuesen's parents "godfather and godmother".
And often move around, thinking about them will also come to the Qian family to stay.
Later, Qian Xuesen went to study in the United States and achieved remarkable results, becoming a world-renowned scientist. And Jiang Ying also went to Europe to study vocal music and became a famous singer.
Although both of them are academically successful, in the eyes of their parents, they are very anxious for them.
Especially Qian Xuesen, who has not yet started a family at the age of 36, has not even pulled the girl's hand.
In 1947, Qian Xuesen returned to China to visit relatives, and Qian's mother put this matter on the agenda again, no matter what, this time she also wanted her son to marry before leaving.
But the son is a high-achieving student in the ocean, where to find a doorman?
Just worried, the goddaughter Jiang Ying packed a ticket and said: "What's so difficult about this, I have so many classmates, all young and beautiful, I don't believe that there is no one who can see the right eye, don't worry, this matter is wrapped up in me." ”
Having said that, it can really bring people, Qian Xuesen is not cold to the girl at all, but chats with his sister Jiang Ying.
Several times in succession, Jiang Ying also felt embarrassed.
Just as she was about to introduce the next one, Qian Xuesen said to her: "Don't toss it, just marry me, and I'll take you to the United States." ”
One sentence overwhelmed her, and after a long time, she said: "No, I already have a boyfriend." ”
Unexpectedly, Qian Xuesen said: "That's not counted, now you have to choose again." ”
In this way, Jiang Ying became Qian Xuesen's girlfriend.
Later, Jiang Ying recalled this past, and his face still unconsciously showed a happy smile.
She said: "This is the marriage proposal of a straight man, no flowers, no diamond rings, and even some domineering, but I was helpless and agreed on the spot." ”
The two know the bottom line, and the two also have a very good relationship, and with such a good thing, the parents of the two heads naturally raise their hands in favor.
From their reunion to their wedding, it took only a week to complete.
After marriage, Jiang Ying followed her husband to the United States.
At first, Qian Xuesen also "swore to Jiang Ying" that he would take good care of her.
But after a long time, I found that as soon as my husband was busy with work, he forgot the time, and even forgot everything around him, including her new wife.
Jiang Ying did not care, but gave him meticulous care and let him concentrate on research.
In 1954, Qian Xuesen encountered the darkest moment of his life. In order to return to China to participate in the construction of New China, he was put under house arrest by the Americans and sent people to monitor him at all times.
Instead, his wife has always been there to encourage him and support him.
In 1955, Qian Xuesen finally boarded the ship returning to China, but this hurdle was still full of dangers.
Because the vicious Americans had already murdered him, he once threatened: "I would rather let him disappear than let him return to China." ”
As a wife, Jiang Ying is even dangerous on the road. She was almost ready to die for her husband.
She even said to her son: "If there is danger, we will all rush to block your father, his life is more important than all of us!" ”
Fortunately, there were no dangers along the way, and after returning to China, Qian Xuesen immediately devoted himself to the construction of new China.
He led the team to develop the "two bombs and one satellite", so that the mainland stood among the world's great powers.
In addition, he is in aerospace, engineering mechanics, etc
Outstanding contribution.
And behind all this, it is inseparable from the support of his wife Jiang Ying.
Once, Qian Xuesen suddenly said to Jiang Ying: "I really wronged you by letting you marry me, otherwise you will become the best soprano in China." ”
But Jiang Ying replied with a smile: "China can have one less singer for me, but it must not have one less scientist like you!" ”
It is his wife's selfless love and tolerance that has made Qian Xuesen such a great scientist and their enviable love.