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Parents' love for their children is the most selfless and least demanding of return, and likewise, children's love for their parents is not mixed with any impurities, which is a two-way process.
There is an old saying that "habitual children are like killing children", spoiling children too much may eventually lead to the opposite of things and raise children into a demon.
But sometimes, too restrictive rules for children may also completely suppress the child's nature, and finally when the child is released, it may also cause unbearable consequences.
The case of Wu Xie Yu's mother-killer at Peking University is a typical example.
On August 26, 2021, Wu Xieyu was sentenced to death in the first instance, and at 9 a.m. on May 19, the second instance of Wu Xieyu's mother-killer case was heard in public in Fuzhou, and the verdict was announced at a later date.
The first half of Wu Xieyu's humble and flattering life
After Wu Xieyu was sentenced to death in the first instance in 2021, he wrote a 50,000-word confession letter in prison for disobeying the verdict.
Wu Xieyu mainly expressed his entire life process through this long letter, including learning and growth, his father's death, motives for committing crimes, defrauding relatives and friends, and thinking about returning to the case, and prayed for everyone's forgiveness.
In the letter, Wu Xieyu wrote that he was once born in a very happy family, when his father was still alive, and his parents gave him the most care and love.
In 1994, Wu Xieyu was born in a small county town in Fujian Province, his mother was a teacher and his father was a worker.
Since Wu Xieyu had an impression, his father's health has not been good, three days of a major illness, five days of a minor illness, father running to the hospital every day has become the norm.
At that time, Wu Xieyu was still very carefree, because he knew that no matter what happened, his parents would bear for him.
The situation changed when Wu Xieyu was in high school, because in this year, Wu Xieyu's father was diagnosed with liver cancer, and soon his father died due to ineffective treatment.
After his father left, he left an orphan and widow, but his mother Xie Tianqin was stronger than Wu Xieyu thought, and on the day of his father's funeral, his mother was busy and did not shed a single tear.
My father left with Wu Xieyu's infinite thoughts, and also took away the laughter of this family and the cheerfulness and generosity of my mother.
After his father left, the environment of the whole family suddenly became depressed, his mother no longer liked to talk and laugh, and when Wu Xieyu and his mother were at home, the two were silent.
Her mother was directly concerned about Wu Xieyu's study, and every time she got better results, Wu Xieyu could see the long-lost smile on her mother's face.
It is precisely for this reason that Wu Xieyu has worked harder and harder in his studies, and he wants to keep his mother's happiness longer.
During this period, Wu Xieyu completely put himself behind and put his mother first, as long as his mother can be happy, he can do anything.
In front of his mother, he became more and more cautious, more and more uneasy to "please" his mother, trying all kinds of ways to make his mother happy, and finally he found that academic performance is the most effective magic weapon.
As long as she can be at the top of every exam, my mother will be very happy.
As a result, Wu Xieyu's results have improved by leaps and bounds, and he can maintain the first place in his grade every time he takes the big exam, and even surpass the second place by more than 20 points every time.
Every time he saw his mother's smiling face after the exam, Wu Xieyu also felt satisfied.
In addition to "currying" over his mother, Wu Xieyu also "pleases" everyone in the outside world, such as classmates, teachers, relatives and friends, etc., as long as the other party who pleases can prove his value, Wu Xieyu will "bend down to curry favor".
When getting along with classmates at school, Wu Xieyu is enthusiastic and generous, although his grades are among the best, he is not pretentious at all, and he is always very enthusiastic to help classmates and greet classmates.
In addition, Wu Xieyu is still very simple in the impression of classmates, like the little white rabbit, adolescent boys often make "yellow jokes" jokes, every time they hear classmates joke like this, Wu Xieyu will always "blush".
But who would have thought that this "little white rabbit" who "blushed" just by listening to "yellow jokes" would have been collected a large number of "sex tools" at home.
Every time Wu Xieyu comes home, he is also polite to his relatives and friends at home, not only warmly calling him "uncles and aunts", but every time he goes home, he always takes the initiative to help his mother do what he can, which attracts praise from the people around him.
According to the reporter's interview with the people around him, everyone has a high evaluation of Wu Xieyu, Wu Xieyu is like a "neighbor's child", good study, good looks, polite, such children are difficult to dislike.
Wu Xieyu likes to be praised by others, as if only in this way can he obtain inner satisfaction.
Later, Wu Xieyu was successfully admitted to Peking University, which was simply too much to win glory for his mother, and his mother couldn't keep her mouth shut with a smile, and Wu Xieyu also gained great satisfaction in her heart.
Later, Wu Xieyu went to Peking University, but the situation had begun to change quietly.
Wu Xieyu's life at Peking University
After entering Peking University, Wu Xieyu's life was almost no different from that in high school, and he still worked at three o'clock every day, classrooms, cafeterias, and dormitories.
Wu Xieyu has no entertainment activities, no love and friends, and the most communication every day is his mother.
Wu Xieyu, who is already an adult and goes to college, still has to talk to his mother on the phone every day, and it is a long time to chat, and he will tell his mother about the day's experience.
According to Wu Xieyu's roommate, Wu Xieyu and his mother have an exceptionally good relationship, and he will call his mother every day after class.
The content of the call is as big as what happened in the college, to what Wu Xieyu ate today, what fruit he bought, and how many dollars he spent, Wu Xieyu will report truthfully to his mother.
But Wu Xieyu did not have a good time during this period, because in the call with his mother, he rarely heard his mother's praise for him anymore.
There are too many masters of Peking University, and after Wu Xieyu came here, he was no longer the first place in every exam, and although he had worked very hard, he still could not guarantee that he would be the first in every exam.
He is also very depressed in his heart, but unlike his roommate, he has a girlfriend and can tell like a lover, maybe Wu Xieyu also wants to fall in love at this time, but he really did not take a step in love on the college campus.
Wu Xieyu was full of sadness and had nowhere to vent, and finally he found an effective way to vent, that is, reading.
During this period, he was fascinated by philosophy, and he read philosophical principles that seemed obscure to others.
Philosophy is a profound science, but it is not difficult for a person with a high IQ like Wu Xieyu, in philosophy, he found the magic weapon of happiness, but also found a way to avoid pain, that is, "death".
Death is liberation?
Philosophy is salvation for positive people, but for Wu Xieyu, it is the abyss.
When Wu Xieyu read philosophy books, he understood that bliss in his past life is the best state of life.
He thought countless times in his heart, only after his father left did he really gain liberation, could he also go to a happy world like his father?
Regarding this matter, Wu Xieyu also mentioned it to his mother cryptically, and he said to his mother, "If I die, what will you do?"
His mother told him that if he died, his mother would not live.
The book says: Death is the most beautiful thing.
Wu Xieyu loves his mother so much and does everything to make his mother happy and happy, so is letting his mother die one of the ways he wants his mother to be happy?
So on July 10, 2015, when his mother was off work, Wu Xieyu picked up a barbell and smashed it on her mother's head, until her mother lost her breath.
After confirming that his mother left, Wu Xieyu also thought about committing suicide, but standing on the roof, he finally turned back and started his life again like a nobody.
After killing his mother, Wu Xieyu placed the body under his bed and borrowed 1.44 million yuan in his mother's name from relatives around him, giving the reason that "for his son to go abroad."
After getting this "huge amount", Wu Xieyu did not escape, but began his own free life.
First of all, his first step was the step of "sex".
Having never been in love, he opened a crazy love mode, in addition to falling in love, he also lingered in various night clubs, and even made a generous move to find "Miss".
According to the news, Wu Xieyu once spent 5,000 yuan one night to find two "young ladies" to accompany.
It may really be that he was too repressed before, when Wu Xieyu completely began to "release mode", completely released himself, and for a while, he also worked at night clubs.
What is even more shocking is that he also has a unique "sexual fetishe", in addition to collecting a large number of sex tools in his residence, the police also found sex videos with large memory on his computer.
It is rumored that Wu Xieyu met a sex worker at that time, and every time they "interacted", Wu Xieyu asked to take a video to commemorate it, and later Wu Xieyu proposed to this woman, but did not expect to be rejected.
In the reporter's interview with Wu Xieyu, Wu Xieyu admitted that he had "sex addiction", which was first discovered in high school.
At that time, he was only frequent, and in order to maintain his "perfect image", Wu Xieyu pretended to be harmless in front of people, but his special proclivities could not be quit.
Before her death, the mother did not know that her son had such an unknown secret.
Such a fetish may be caused by his growing environment, the lack of father's love and the control of his mother, Wu Xieyu has lived in a highly tense environment since he was a child.
From childhood to adulthood, he did not allow his image to be a little bad, and his strict requirements for himself have reached the point of perversion.
And the reason why he did this was simply to gain his mother's approval.
Until later, Wu Xieyu killed his mother, and he still said that he loved his mother too much and wanted her to be happy and happy, so he sent her to Elysium.
Even in court, Wu Xieyu claimed that he was helping his mother "commit suicide."
Of the 50,000 words he wrote in prison, the words seemed to come from the heart, but in fact he was only exonerating himself, and until now he has not realized the crime he has committed.
He is always looking for reasons to exonerate himself by various methods, and the mother who gave birth to him and raised him may never have imagined that he would end up dying under her son's stick.
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The Wu Xieyu incident is also worth our deep consideration, such a child who has been excellent in character and learning since he was a child, kind and optimistic, and finally turned into a demon who brutally killed his biological mother, which is really shocking.
The essence of education is to "tree people", care about people, guide people, if you just look at Wu Xieyu's experience in the first half of his life, he can simply be called a "perfect child", and even many parents may regard Wu Xieyu as an example of their children's efforts.
How sad, such a "genius child" is ultimately a murderous maniac, but all this has long been traced, the lack of family love, the mother's jealous desire to control, Wu Xieyu's repression, are all one of the sources of tragedy.
Therefore, parents and teachers, in the current social environment, in addition to caring for children's growth and academic performance, we must pay more attention to children's mental health, and must always monitor children's psychological conditions.
Parents are also parents for the first time, children are also the first time to be children, these have not been trained on the job, we must believe that love is the source of resolving conflicts, love children must also have relaxation, children are also independent individuals.
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