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In 2018, a girl in a rural village in Hubei was on the phone.
"You have no right to govern me! And I won't leave my two children behind, you just can't see me well. ”
This is what Hu Feifei, a 19-year-old girl from Hubei Province, said to her parents. She is used to living a rich life, why would she prefer to stay in the mountains?
Why did the 19-year-old become a mother of two children, and said that her parents couldn't see her well?
Journalists intervened
A girl picked up the phone, and on the other side of the phone were her parents:
"Daughter, where are you now, hurry home, okay?"
Glancing at his two children, Hu Feifei hesitated.
But the child's father turned out to be 30 years different from Hu Feifei, named Chen Hongli.
When he learned of Hu Feifei's desire to go home again, Chen Hongli used his usual trick of selling misery to let Hu Feifei stay.
To this end, he also specially found the then program group "Finding Love" to let Hu Feifei stay.
This show also made Chen Hongli's true appearance public. At that time, after receiving Chen Hongli's help, the program team made a report on Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli.
Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli also returned to Hu Feifei's home with the program group, and when Hu Feifei's parents learned the news, they were very angry.
But in the hands of Hu Feifei's parents, there are also some "crimes" of Chen Hongli, which Hu Feifei usually cannot listen to.
No matter how Hu Feifei's parents emphasize, Hu Feifei did not believe that these were things that Chen Hongli did.
The truth dug up
Therefore, Hu Feifei's parents took this opportunity to expose Chen Hongli's ugliness, and they agreed to the program team's request to come and shoot a video.
Finally, Hu Feifei changed his usual normal, became very angry, packed up his things and went home.
So, what exactly did she know?
When they saw their longing daughter come back, Hu Feifei's parents felt very distressed in their hearts, and the daughter in front of them was completely different from what she used to be.
But Hu Feifei's father did not express more concern to his daughter, but kept accusing.
At this time, in Hu Feifei's father's heart, the accusation against Chen Hongli had also reached the extreme.
And a discovery by the reporter made Chen Hongli's veil slowly unveiled.
- One: age fraud
The reporter saw Chen Hongli's ID card during the interview, and it was clearly written on Chen Hongli's ID card that his date of birth was 1976, which was completely 20 years old according to Chen Hongli's own statement.
Chen Hongli began to vigorously deny it, saying that this ID card was wrong and that he had not had time to change it.
But then the village branch secretary of Chen Hongli's place of residence confirmed that there was a problem with Chen Hongli's age.
Chen Hongli, who learned that his age was revealed, was also silent at this moment, and he knew that his age could not be hidden.
At this time, Hu Feifei's father also told reporters that Chen Hongli had been asking him for money many times on the grounds that his daughter wanted to raise the child, and the amount was very large each time.
After these news were exposed, Hu Feifei's parents felt very sorry for their daughter at the moment, but now they also regret it.
Before they had been busy with work, they neglected to accompany their daughter, and only then did their daughter's personality slowly change, allowing Chen Hongli to exploit the loophole.
At this moment, Hu Feifei's parents only want their children to stay around, so they deliberately let Hu Feifei stay at home and let her think about whether to return to them.
However, Hu Feifei's actions surprised them very much, Hu Feifei told her parents that she was determined to live with Chen Hongli, no matter who could not let her change her mind.
What happened before that made Hu Feifei and Chen Hongda acquaintance, why is Hu Feifei's parents' opposition so strong?
Simple girl caught in online dating
Hu Feifei, a 19-year-old girl living in Wuhan, should have enjoyed her college life in college or carved out in a big city.
But it was such a young girl who became a mother of two children early.
So, why did Hu Feifei become a mother so early? What's really going on here.
It happened in 2015, the heat outside was unbearable, and the inside of the house was like a sauna.
Hu Feifei, a 16-year-old girl in her third year of high school, couldn't stand the hot weather at this time, holding a pen in her hand, but she couldn't calm down to do the problem in front of her.
Helplessly, she picked up her mobile phone and looked through the chat software boredly, at this moment, a message from a netizen named Chen Hongli couldn't help but make Hu Feifei's eyes shine.
Gradually, the two chatted more and more, and Chen Hongli also made Hu Feifei very happy with his humorous words, and the heat of the weather and the troubles of doing questions seemed to disappear at this time.
Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli initially attracted each other because of their common interests and hobbies, and slowly got acquainted with each other through chat.
Since then, they have spent hours chatting online every day, sharing each other's thoughts, dreams and feelings.
They find themselves increasingly dependent on each other and start talking about deeper topics.
Although they had never met, the bond between them seemed stronger than anyone else's. They are constantly pouring out their hearts to each other, sharing their joys and sorrows.
After a while, they began to realize that they had fallen into an online relationship.
Although there was a great distance between them, they did not give up on the relationship. They worked hard to overcome jet lag and language barriers and continued to stay in touch.
They use a variety of communication tools to get as close as possible to the real-world way of communicating. Although some people may question whether online dating is real, Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli firmly believe that the relationship between them is real.
The trust and understanding between them deepened, and they decided to meet and continue their relationship in reality.
Seeing this, outsiders may think that this is a strong and unswerving love story, but in fact it is unexpected.
In the chat on the Internet, Hu Feifei has been thinking that Chen Hongli is a prince-like boy charming.
Chen Hongli has also been trying to create his image of a "handsome boy" in his previous chat, which can't help but make a girl who has never been in the world fall into it.
With the passage of chat time, the two are not satisfied with online chat, so Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli agreed to meet offline.
"Marry you"
On the day that Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli met offline, Hu Feifei deliberately changed into the clothes she was usually most satisfied with.
When they arrived at the place agreed upon by the two, Hu Feifei was poured with a large basin of cold water.
The "Prince Charming", who usually chatted with her on the Internet, turned out to be a black and short uncle with a little lameness on one foot.
This was something that Hu Feifei never expected, and Chen Hongli's appearance completely exceeded her expectations.
Hu Feifei turned around and wanted to leave after seeing Chen Hongli, but how could Chen Hongli give up.
Chen Hongli persuaded Hu Feifei, who was leaving, to come back with his words, and in the subsequent chat, Chen Hongli used his three-inch tongue to turn Hu Feifei's fan upside down.
Hu Feifei seemed to find the feeling of chatting with Chen Hongli on the Internet before at this time, and Chen Hongli's few words made Hu Feifei, an unworldly girl, laugh.
However, meeting Chen Hongli and Hu Feifei is not his ultimate goal, and Chen Hongli has an even greater conspiracy in his heart at this time.
During the conversation, Chen Hongli told Hu Feifei that his family was very "wealthy" and had a suite in Changsha's urban area, which could not help but make Hu Feifei feel love, and her liking for the man in front of her doubled.
At this time, Hu Feifei believes that appearance is not the most important, a person's sincerity and love for her are the most important.
In this way, under Chen Hongli's "coaxing and deception", Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli established a romantic relationship.
Not long after the two were together, Chen Hongli couldn't wait to take Hu Feifei home. And Hu Feifei was also very happy: "I am willing to marry you!" ”
He smiled innocently as he spoke.
But Hu Feifei was still a little worried at this time, after all, he had not brought his boyfriend to see his parents, and he should have let the man go to his house first.
But at a young age, she was deceived into her own home by Chen Hongli's rhetoric at this time: "The same! Go to my house first! My parents like you! ”
On the road, Hu Feifei was very puzzled, the direction of the car was not to Changsha city at all, but under Chen Hongli's explanation, Hu Feifei did not ask too much.
But what Hu Feifei didn't expect was that another basin of cold water hit her.
Chen Hongli's previous mention of a suite in Changsha city is all fake, in reality Chen Hongli's home is in a deep mountain, and the hundreds of square meters of mansion is just a few dilapidated houses.
Hu Feifei, who has lived in a big city since she was a child, saw such a scene, and she had no place to start here when she first came here.
What Hu Feifei didn't expect the most was that Chen Hongli did not earn more than 100,000 yuan a year, and the problem of monthly food and clothing was a problem for Chen Hongli. The scene of reality was like a basin of cold water poured on her.
Hu Feifei felt very angry at this time, so he wanted to return home and cut off contact with Chen Hongli.
However, how can Chen Hongli let go at this time, Chen Hongli constantly smeared Hu Feifei's parents, telling Hu Feifei that her parents did not love her.
Parents call the police
She also promised how to treat her well in the future, etc., these rhetoric somehow hit Hu Feifei's heart and made her stay willingly.
On Hu Feifei's parents' side, when they learned that the child could not be found, they called the police, and with the help of the police, Hu Feifei's parents found the child.
Hu Feifei, who returned home, did not break contact with Chen Hongli, and soon after, Hu Feifei found an excuse to return to Chen Hongli's home, and she was also determined to live next to Chen Hongli.
So, Hu Feifei and Chen Hongli settled in the deep mountains, and soon after, Hu Feifei became pregnant with a child.
After Hu Feifei gave birth to the child, she devoted herself to the child's upbringing.
Less than a year after the birth of the child, Hu Feifei's parents called Hu Feifei, and it was this call that became the introduction to unveil Chen Hongli's true face.
In this way, the idea of Hu Feifei wanting to go home happened at the beginning, and in the show, Hu Feifei also revealed to reporters something she had never said to outsiders.
It turned out that when Hu Feifei was a child, she once suffered from polio, which caused her legs and feet to be somewhat disabled.
And Chen Hongli is also a person with disabled legs and feet, the two are very touched in this regard, and Chen Hongli does not dislike himself, which makes her very moved.
In addition, she and the program team went down the mountain and returned home, just to confess to her parents that they would not be separated from Chen Hongli in the future.
She also said that the reason why Chen Hongli lied to himself was because he cared too much about himself and loved himself too much. This time down the mountain is to let her parents understand that there is no longer hope of letting her return to life.
When Hu Feifei's parents learned of their daughter's thoughts, they did not block too much, but were calm, and now they can calmly accept whatever decision their daughter makes.
But what they don't understand is that in just a few years, their daughter who was sensible before became what she is now.
For Hu Feifei, should we consider her a beneficiary or victim of online dating?
It is difficult for us to comment, from a girl with unlimited prospects in the future to a little mother trapped by children in the mountains, in just three years, Hu Feifei's body has undergone tremendous changes.
Whether Hu Feifei is lucky or unlucky will eventually let time verify.
The company of parents is crucial as children grow up.
Through companionship, parents can better understand their children's needs and ideas, help them solve problems, build trust, and strengthen family relationships.
In addition, the company of parents can improve a child's self-esteem and self-confidence.
When children face setbacks and difficulties, having parental support and encouragement can make them stronger and courageous.
Perhaps parents should spend time with their children as much as possible after work to create meaningful parent-child time.
For love on the Internet, we must keep our eyes open.
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Wen | Chang Lin
Editor|Cissy