Na Ying still occupies her place in the music scene with "Sister Lang" and "The Voice of China", while Sun Nan, who is with her, has gradually faded from the public eye.
Once a generation of "song kings", now the reputation has dropped and is controversial, in the final analysis, it still stems from his irresponsible view of feelings.
Sun Nan said: "No one can guarantee this life, whether in terms of feelings or life, unchanged!" ”
This sounds a bit familiar, and many male stars in the entertainment industry have expressed similar views:
For example, Chen Sicheng once said: "The heart or the body will be moved, there will be, everyone will betray or wander!" ”
Jackie Chan also said with a straight face: "I just made a mistake that men all over the world would make!" ”
Many men use such an excuse to cover up their emotional "desertion", and most of the people who pay for it are women who pay silently behind their backs.
Now when it comes to Mrs. Pan Wei, Sun Nan is happy to say that she is his own warm harbor, while the pain of his ex-girlfriend Xin Xin and his ex-wife buying red sister has never been taken care of.
Buy red sister even almost jumped into the sea because of that haze, and did not take a phone call for 4 years.
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In 1969, Sun Nan landed in an artistic family in Dalian, Liaoning Province, his father was a tenor, his mother, sister, and brother were in the song and dance troupe, in such a family environment, Sun Nan learned to play the piano and guitar from a young age.
Learning this skill is not voluntary for Sun Nan, because he does not want to embark on the path of music.
At that time, the family conditions were not good, the family was crammed into a small room of 9 square meters, in addition to furniture, but also a piano, record player, almost no room for activity.
The point is that every time Sun Nan came back from school and wanted to write homework, there were always seven or eight children in the family learning to sing with his father, and he not only couldn't find an empty seat, but also felt very noisy, so he became disgusted with singing.
After graduating from junior high school, he couldn't wait to break into society, so he began to chase his dreams, at that time, his dream was to be a worker, so he began to switch between various types of work:
From electricians, painters, salesmen, carpenters, to construction workers, furnace workers, etc., Sun Nan changed 11 jobs in two years.
In the end, he settled down to work in a paint factory, brushing oil on 2,000 pencils a day, but during the work he felt bored, he often used the pencil as a drumstick, the paint bucket as a drum, and crackled at those barrels every day, which indeed played a role in entertaining himself, but the work was often not completed.
Coupled with the fact that Sun Nan was relatively petite at that time, he couldn't squeeze the bus every day to work, resulting in frequent lateness, and he came back to his father with grievances: "Can you do a job that doesn't have to squeeze the bus?" ”
At the moment of difficulty, his father pointed out a clear path for him: "Then you learn to sing!" ”
After going out for a walk and feeling the cruelty of reality and the difficulty of work, Sun Nan began to obediently follow the direction pointed out by his father.
At the age of 18, just when Dalian held the citywide karaoke grand prix, Sun Nan signed up with confidence, all the way to the end, in the top three competition, he won the first place, but when he went on stage to receive the award, there was a small insertion, which made Sun Nan unforgettable
The judges wanted to award the championship trophy to another contestant, so after some discussion, they came up with a harmony method, and let the host come on stage to explain that the score just now was wrong and did not count.
The host also implemented this method, and naturally prepared to hand the second place trophy to Sun Nan.
Sun Nan felt deeply unfair, and did not hold back his emotions on the spot, directly refused to accept the award, and angrily stepped off the stage.
At that time, there were about 6,000 spectators in the Dalian Gymnasium, and everyone applauded him unanimously.
This was unexpected by Sun Nan, and there were so many people who also felt unfair, and Sun Nan had a sense of accomplishment in his heart than winning the award.
But the audience is recognized, the organizer is even more unhappy, seeing that the young man is so arrogant, he does not want to give him an award, then decisively will not let him perform on stage in Dalian within 3 years.
Sun Nan's career path was blocked for the first time, and there was a love that quietly came to him.
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In the audience who applauded offstage, there was a girl named Xin Xin, and Sun Nan's excellent singing that day made her remember this name, but this time, the two did not have much intersection.
Sun Nan, who was restricted to performing on the local stage, could only practice his voice in the song hall, and the fate was so wonderful, the girl Xin Xin, who was deeply attracted to him, went to the song hall to be a singer after graduating from the normal school.
The two met because of the same interests and hobbies, and they could talk very well, and they spent a long time together and slowly had feelings.
Only a short time later, Xin Xin was sent to Japan by his father to study, and Sun Nan also relied on his father's introduction to Go to Beijing and entered the Coal Mine Literary and Labor Troupe.
But even if separated, even if it is different, the relationship between the two is only increasing, when Sun Nan's income averaged about 1,000 yuan per month, he almost all of it was used to call his girlfriend Xin Xin, which showed the sincerity between each other.
Xin Xin was very moved, so on an impulse, he secretly ran back to China without anyone and went straight to Sun Nan's residence.
The two were really "sharp in their hearts", Sun Nan did not know why, but also had a premonition that Xin Xin would come back, so before going out that day, he also specially instructed his friends: "If someone looks for me, let her go to the White Stone Bridge Hotel, I am there!" ”
Xin Xin ran to the hotel again happily, Sun Nan was eating with friends, and as soon as he saw Xin Xin, he immediately threw down his chopsticks and carried her all the way home without any scruples.
Since then, the two have lived a life of cohabitation and worked hard together.
In 1993, Sun Nan participated in the CCTV Heart to Heart Art Troupe's performance in Hong Kong, and by chance, she was discovered by BMG Records in Hong Kong and signed a two-year record contract.
At that time, the two young people felt that if they could be favored by large companies and have the opportunity to make records, success should be not far away, and good times were coming.
So it wasn't long before Sun Nan said to Xin Xin with full confidence: "We are a family, if you have mine, you have it, don't sing anymore", he wanted Xin Xin to spend more time with himself.
Considering that her boyfriend's work is hard and busy, Xin Xin did not think much about it and decided to give up his career and take care of Sun Nan's affairs work outside of music and music.
At that time, the company was also trying to make an album for Sun Nan, but it did not do it tailor-made, but at the moment, what type of music fire did, and let him sing it when it was done.
The consequence of this output with the current is that Sun Nan has not been known, even if he finds Andy Lau, Li Keqin, and Liang Chaowei to help him cover the song, he has not been able to catch fire, the company is anxious, and Sun Nan is also anxious.
During this period, Sun Nan thought that he was going to be red, so he enjoyed it in advance, took out a loan to buy a house, and in addition to living every month, he also had to bear a large amount of repayment.
Later, Sun Nan was also hospitalized because of hepatitis, and Xin Xin was in charge of care, decoration and other things.
The career was not satisfactory, and for a while, the life of the two became very tight.
Until 1998, Sun Nan proposed to the agency: there are still two albums left, I only do one, and then we will terminate the contract, but there is a condition, that is, I will do it myself.
The company couldn't stop it, and the boss didn't think much about it, so he agreed, and Sun Nan began to make music according to his favorite style.
Just when Feng Xiaogang was preparing to shoot the New Year film "Not Seen and Not Scattered", Sun Nan was found to sing the theme song of the same name of the movie, because this song "Not Seen and Not Scattered", Sun Nan became a hit.
Also because of this song, Sun Nan quickly met another relationship, and his girlfriend Xin Xin, who had worked hard for nearly 10 years, would be "abandoned".
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In 1999, Buy Hongmei and Sun Nan met in a show, Buy Hongmei was the host, and Sun Nan was the guest.
At this time, the buy red sister has long become a sketch actor that the audience knows and loves, and Sun Nan has also seen her sketches and has long remembered this girl deeply.
Similarly, Buy Hongmei was also attracted by Sun Nan's "Not Seen, Not Scattered", and even once fantasized that the song was sung by Sun Nan for himself.
Therefore, the program kept calm and normal work, and after the program, I bought a red sister and took the initiative to invite Sun Nan to drink.
The 30-year-old Sun Nan used wine as a cover, completely ignoring the feelings of his girlfriend Xin Xin, and said to the buyer who had known her for less than 24 hours: "Buy buy, you marry me!" ”
BuyIng Hongmei didn't know how happy she was when she heard this, whether he was drunk or spit out the truth after drinking, he agreed to it in one bite.
In fact, buying a red sister can be so painful, Sun Nan did not expect, after waking up, he thought, the previous relationship has not been dealt with, so the clever move, coaxed to buy the red sister said: "I have no money now, can you give me two years, I made money, good to marry you!" ”
Who didn't know to buy Red Sister very proudly told him: "No, I have money!" ”
Xin Xinwan did not expect that it was difficult to get out of the head with Sun Nan, but what was waiting for was a breakup of the other party, and Sun Nan soon entered into marriage with the buy red sister, which can be called "ungrateful".
For a long time, Xin Xin could not face any thing in life, and once thought of giving up singing, it was the companionship of her friends around her that made her survive.
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After marriage, Sun Nan and buying red sisters were very sweet at first, and Sun Nan's career was also rising step by step.
Successively launched a number of classic songs such as "Fate in the Sky" and "Burning", so that Sun Nan has his own place in the Chinese music scene, and he and Han Hong are the "natural combinations" in the hearts of many audiences.
Soon after, the two also had the crystallization of love, bought red sister thought about it, and made the same choice as Xin Xin, in order to support Sun Nan's career, retired to the family, and concentrated on her husband and children.
However, the days of chai rice oil and salt have been long, and it is inevitable that couples will have small quarrels.
Sometimes buying red sisters will feel that Sun Nan does not understand things, treat him as a son or care or discipline, and Sun Nan bluntly said: "I am a macho myself, I don't think this is a shortcoming!" ”
Each has its own ideas, can not find the right way to get along, it is easy to have problems, buy red sister has become a "nanny" in the family, Sun Nan often works outside, the cooperation object has men and women, inevitably there will be some scandals, but buying red sister is not taken seriously.
It wasn't until 2007, when the 37-year-old Mai Hongmei became pregnant again and gave birth to a son for Sun Nan, when she found that her husband seemed to be in love with playing golf and was very addicted to it.
Sometimes when he was tired from work, he didn't rest, and he went in a hurry, or he got up in the morning and hurried to meet the morning glow.
I have to say that the woman's feeling is really accurate, buying red sister always feels that Sun Nan is a little different, and she does not dare to think that her husband is indeed in love with another woman.
Pan Wei is a golf program host, when she met Sun Nan, she was already married and divorced twice, but her skills were superb and her appearance was lovely, and Sun Nan could not resist it.
Buying Red Sister may not have thought that she had snatched Sun Nan from Xin Xin's hand, and one day, another woman would snatch her husband from her own hand.
In March 2009, Sun Nan ended her 9-year marriage with Buy Hongmei, and when she agreed to divorce, it was said that Buy Hongmei had just given birth to her second child not long ago, and at the end of the same year, Sun Nan couldn't wait to marry Pan Wei with a license.
At that time, Mai Hongmei fell into a deep sadness, once went to the beach, wanted to jump, just thinking of her daughter and son, and full of heartache and reluctance.
For 4 years after the divorce, she did not dare to see friends, because she was afraid that others would ask about the marriage, she did not want to remember it, nor did she want to say that the other party was not good, and she did not even take a phone call.
And Sun Nan's later move broke her heart even more.
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At the time of the divorce, Sun Nan had reached an agreement with Mai Hongmei: the custody of the two children belonged to the woman, but a year later, Sun Nan sued Mai Hongmei in court.
He demanded that the custody of the two children be awarded to himself, because the red sister was often not at home when filming, and Sun Nan believed that in the current situation, it was more appropriate for the children to be raised by him.
On the other hand, he also revealed that the reason for this change in thinking is that Buy Red Sister unilaterally deprived him of his visitation rights.
This trouble, although both sides have their own words, the truth is unknown to everyone, but Sun Nan's favorability in the hearts of the public has undoubtedly decreased a lot, after all, when they first divorced, the two said yes, no matter what kind of differences appeared, once they were lovers, it seems a bit excessive.
However, in the end, Sun Nan won the custody of the child and took the child to live with him.
In 2011, the 42-year-old Pan Wei gave birth to a daughter for Sun Nan, but because Pan Wei already had a child in her previous marriage, you can imagine the complexity of the family.
After that, although Sun Nan also appeared on TV occasionally, since the temporary announcement of the withdrawal from the competition in the middle of "I Am a Singer" caused heated discussion, Sun Nan appeared in the public eye less and less often.
The original "generation of singers" has been sung step by step.
In fact, after watching his experience all the way, the career has risen step by step, in addition to his own efforts, there are also elements of luck, but there is also a large part of the factor is the support of women behind him.
Xin Xin's 10 years, the 9 years of buying red sisters, are not short, for women, it is the best youth time, missed, there is no way to start again.
And Sun Nan now regards Pan Wei as his "warmest harbor", and seems to have no regret for the woman who once accompanied him through the hard days, leaving "sharing happiness and suffering" behind him, just for his own enjoyment.
After all, there is a saying called: "Virtue precedes art", a person's charm lies not only in his professional skills, but also in his character, so Sun Nan's reputation has fallen sharply.
His first two relationships have not survived 10 years, and now he has been with Pan Wei for nearly 12 years, I don't know if Sun Nan really found true love, or has he not been able to meet the next "love at first sight" for the time being?