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In daily life, we occasionally meet some people who look very similar to ourselves, and many people have become good friends with strangers because of similar looks, but have you ever met someone who looks almost exactly like you in your life?
Genetic complexity aside, there is only one chance that this will happen: two people are biological brothers.
Recently, Lao Li is very confused, because people often treat him as another person, and even a little girl calls him dad when she opens her mouth.
What's even more amazing is that their own family members often see "themselves" outside.
It wasn't until he saw that person with his own eyes that Lao Li understood the doubts in everyone's hearts, after all, the two looked like brothers.
Lao Li's doubts
Lao Li's life has some regrets, because since he can remember, he has never seen his biological parents, and he is accompanied by adoptive parents.
When he grew up, he also thought about looking for his biological parents, but because of limited information, he could hardly find any relevant clues.
Therefore, Lao Li also forgot about this incident and started his own life, but after others reached middle age, an "accident" aroused his desire to find his biological parents.
One day, Lao Li, who was working, met a cute little girl, and as soon as this little girl entered the door, she shouted "dad" to Lao Li without hesitation.
This made him very surprised, as a parent, how could he recognize his child?
He naturally knew very well that the girl in front of him was not his own child, so he patiently explained to this little girl.
But at the same time, he had another thought, did this girl's father look like himself?
As time passed, Lao Li did not forget this incident, but wanted to meet this friend who looked like him.
Because the wrong person has appeared too many times, just a few days after the little girl appeared, an aunt also appeared in Lao Li's shop, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she scolded him: "Good you white-eyed wolf, marry my daughter and don't recognize me as a mother-in-law, yesterday I saw you, you didn't even say hello."
This incident made Lao Li very helpless, and he could only continue to explain to this aunt.
Although Lao Li and this aunt's son-in-law do look alike, there are naturally big differences in the way they speak, their words and deeds.
After Lao Li's patient explanation, this aunt could only leave with doubts.
If Lao Li was recognized by a stranger, it can only mean that Lao Li and that person are indeed more similar, but when Lao Li's family also recognizes the wrong person, the appearance of Lao Li and that person cannot be simply described by "like".
A few days later, Lao Li, who was eating at home, was angrily scolded by the sister-in-law who rushed in: "Brother-in-law, are you deaf, just now I called you several times on the street, you didn't even turn your head, do you think I have disgraced you?"
For his sister-in-law, Lao Li took care of her in every way and was very pampered, how could he ignore her, so he could only explain to his sister-in-law: "Little sister-in-law, I haven't gone out all day today, how can you see me outside?" ”
For Lao Li's explanation, the sister-in-law said that she did not believe anything, insisting that Lao Li must have done something bad outside, afraid that the sister-in-law would ignore her if she found out.
Just when the two were deadlocked, Lao Li's wife appeared and told her sister that Lao Li had not gone out all day today, and the sister-in-law solved the misunderstanding.
But this incident also made Lao Li's wife very curious, what kind of person can make her sister also admit her mistake?
If this person appeared in front of her, would she be able to tell if this person was her husband?
After these things, Lao Li's heart was like a river, although there are many people in this world who are very similar, it is too rare to be recognized as wrong one after another.
Therefore, Lao Li made up his mind that he must get to know this person, even if he couldn't be friends, it was a very happy thing to be able to meet.
Lao Li's family is also very supportive of the two meeting, after all, this kind of fate is not everyone can meet.
Biological brother
In the vast sea of people, wanting to know a stranger is tantamount to finding a needle in a haystack, and Lao Li can only wait silently for an opportunity.
After a while, Lao Li, who was walking on the street, was once again mistaken, and after some explanation and communication, he learned that the person who looked like him was called "Lao Zhou".
Lao Li talked with him more actively, hoping to get more information about "Lao Zhou", and in the end, Lao Li not only confirmed the fact that the two were very similar, but also successfully obtained Lao Zhou's phone number.
With a feeling of apprehension, Lao Li dialed the phone, because he was not sure whether Lao Zhou was willing to see him, after all, the two were strangers, and everyone was generally a little wary of strangers.
But fortunately, Lao Zhou did not have the indifference that Lao Li imagined, and after learning that Lao Li was the person who was very similar to himself, he immediately opened the chatterbox.
It turned out that his daughter and mother-in-law told him about the existence of Lao Li very early, and he was also very much looking forward to meeting Lao Li.
- The two finally saw each other, and at the moment of meeting, both of them froze in place. Because the two are really too similar.
If it weren't for Old Zhou's short-sightedness, with a pair of eyes, the appearance of the two would be like carved out of a mold.
And the two are not only highly similar in appearance, but even have similar facial features, and both have a spasm behind their ears.
All this tells the two that they may not just look that simple.
Maybe it's because they look alike, or maybe it's because both of them have a lot of big expectations for this meeting, so they opened the chatterbox and wanted each other to introduce some of their experiences.
Surprisingly, the two found that in life, the two had many similarities, which deepened their suspicions.
Because they were both adopted and had not seen their biological parents, this made the two wonder: Could they be biological brothers?
In order to find out the truth, Lao Li took Lao Zhou back to his home and showed him photos of himself when he was a child.
The moment he saw the photo, Lao Zhou was sure that the two must be related, because he also brought a photo of when he was a child, and the two were more like "twins" when they were children than they are now.
If it weren't for the one-month birthdays on their ID cards, perhaps they would have hugged and cried on the spot, and the brothers recognized each other.
But soon, the two found a problem again, the birthday difference of one month on the ID card may not really be a month apart.
Because the mainland has a lunar calendar, many people will choose to use the lunar calendar to register when registering their ID cards, and the month of birth of the lunar calendar is exactly one month away from the solar calendar.
That is to say, if one of the two people registers the ID card with the lunar calendar and the other registers the ID card with the solar calendar, then their date of birth is most likely the same day.
With so many coincidences, the only way to prove the relationship is DNA.
So the two quickly took a car and came to the Medical Identification Center of Zhengzhou University, and the authoritative director of the identification center, Director Li, did DNA identification for the two of them.
The waiting days were bitter, and for some reason, the DNA test that was supposed to receive the results in a week was delayed.
However, this will not affect the relationship between the two, fate is so wonderful, even if they are not biological brothers, they will help each other like biological brothers in the future.
Finally, the results came to the two men, and all the gene points in their DNA matched, proving that they were not only brothers, but also twins.
The reason why this appraisal result appeared so late was actually because Director Li himself did not believe that the two were biological brothers.
After the results appeared, she once wondered if she had been confused in the blood draw and other links, but in fact collected a person's DNA.
In order to ensure that the results were correct, she asked the two to do a second blood test, and Director Li supervised the whole process, did not miss any link, and ensured that the DNA of the two people was collected.
Through two DNA comparisons in succession, the final results were handed over to the two and solemnly told to the two: "You are indeed biological brothers."
Failed to find relatives
The recognition between brothers gave them the idea of finding their biological parents again.
Although their adoptive parents treated them well, they still lacked a sense of kinship, so the two inquired in many ways and finally got a news.
In the year they were born, a family in Shanghai gave away a pair of twins, and they were baby boys, which made their hearts very excited and immediately rushed over.
After arriving there, the old man in the family also took out the photo before the child was sent out, and the child in the photo was unexpectedly very similar to when the two were children.
Could it be that this old man was really their relative?
In order to determine this matter, Lao Zhou and Lao Li approached Director Li again, hoping to prove this matter with DNA identification.
Unfortunately, DNA tests showed that they were not related to the elderly.
This appraisal report was like a basin of cold water that directly extinguished their enthusiasm, and they found other identification structures without believing in evil, but the results were still not optimistic.
In desperation, they can only temporarily give up looking for their biological parents.
Although there are some disappointments in life, it is already exciting to find your long-lost biological brother after many years.
Because of the family environment, human trafficking, medical accidents, etc., every year, some babies leave their parents in infancy, and when they grow up, the chance of finding their biological parents is not great.
Even if some people find their biological parents, it is difficult to have too deep feelings because of different living habits for many years, so some people give up looking for their biological parents when they grow up.
4. Refuse trafficking and prevent trafficking
So how can this be prevented?
The first way is naturally to implement a strict demographic system, and every newborn must be quickly registered after birth to ensure that the baby will not immediately become his biological parents due to involuntary reasons.
Even if the baby must be adopted due to factors such as the death of the biological parent, the hukou file must be kept.
The second is to crack down on human traffickers, although the legal system has been strengthened in modern society, but human traffickers are still very rampant, and various trafficking incidents are common.
The departure of a baby or child destroys multiple families, and even if they grow up to be reunited, the pain of these years is difficult to repair.
In recent years, the detection rate of trafficking cases has been increasing, and there have been no trafficking incidents in many cities for many years.
Last but not least, don't let behaviors such as "sending children" appear, just like Lao Zhou and Lao Li above.
The reason why they couldn't find their biological parents was most likely because the two of them were directly "sent" out after they were born.
Adoptive parents and their biological parents are not familiar with them, and after giving them away, the biological parents do not continue to pay attention to their development, so when they grow up, it is difficult to find their biological parents.
epilogue
The recognition of Lao Zhou and Lao Li can simply be described as a miracle.
But putting this situation aside, in real life we may indeed meet some people who look similar to us, especially after wearing the same clothes, it is almost impossible to distinguish.
You don't need to do DNA identification every time you encounter this situation, and it is also a good choice to regard it as fate in the vast sea of people.
So in life, have you ever met someone who looks similar to you? Welcome to leave your story in the comment section.