Couple life is a very important part of the relationship between husband and wife, but sometimes children will inadvertently bump into each other, which will make parents and children feel very embarrassed and confused. How to resolve this awkward moment?
First, how to avoid children bumping into husband and wife life
First of all, we need to be clear that it is not a good thing for children to bump into married life, because it can confuse and upset children. Therefore, we should avoid this as much as possible.
1. Set a reasonable time for married life
Conjugal life should be held after the child goes to bed or when the child is not at home. This will prevent your child from bumping into it.
2. Lock the bedroom door
When living as a couple, remember to lock the bedroom door to prevent children from entering the bedroom. If the child is at home, you can tell the child not to enter the bedroom in advance to avoid accidents.
3. Choose the right time and place
If the child is at home, conjugal life can be done when the child is not at home, or during the time the child is in school or school. In addition, if there are multiple bedrooms in the home, you can choose different bedrooms for husband and wife life to avoid bumping into children.
Second, how to resolve the embarrassment of children bumping into husband and wife life
Although we have tried our best to avoid children bumping into married life, sometimes this happens. At this time, we need to take some steps to resolve the embarrassment.
1. Respond calmly
When children bump into conjugal life, we need to stay calm and not panic. It is possible to tell the child that this is a matter between the husband and wife, not what the child should see.
2. Explain the situation
If the child has doubts about this, some situations can be explained appropriately. For example, you can tell your child that this is an intimate act between husband and wife, a way to express love, but it needs to be done at the right time and place.
3. Calm your child's emotions
The child may be confused and upset, and we need to calm the child's emotions and let the child know that it is not a bad thing and that it will not affect the child's life.
4. Avoid over-explaining
We need to avoid over-explaining, as this can make the child feel more confused and embarrassed. We need to tell our children that this is a private matter that does not require much explanation.
Third, how to prevent children from having psychological problems due to encountering husband and wife life
Children bumping into married life may bring some psychological problems to children, such as confusion, anxiety, etc. Therefore, we need to take some measures to prevent this from happening.
1. Educate children about sexuality
Educating children about sex can make children more aware of the nature and meaning of sexual behavior, and avoid misunderstanding and confusion in children.
2. Establish a good family atmosphere
Establishing a good family atmosphere can make children more reassuring and reassuring, and reduce children's sensitivity to this.
3. Communicate with your child
Communicating with children can make children more aware of things in the family, and can also make children trust their parents more and reduce their anxiety and confusion.
4. Respect your child's privacy
Respecting your child's privacy makes your child feel respected and loved, making it less sensitive.
In short, it is a very embarrassing thing for children to bump into married life, but we can avoid this by setting a reasonable time for married life, locking the bedroom door, choosing the right time and place, etc.
If the child unfortunately bumps into, we need to stay calm, explain the situation appropriately, calm the child's emotions, and avoid over-explaining. To prevent children from having psychological problems due to conjugal life, we need to educate children about sexuality, establish a good family atmosphere, communicate with children, and respect children's privacy.
Only in this way can we let children grow up healthily and avoid unnecessary confusion and embarrassment.