Text | Thirteenth sister
Recently, many people have been talking about "Sister Lang 4". Yesterday, I also saw two group friends arguing over "Is Sister Lang a PUA woman"... I think that's interesting. As soon as something is valued, there must be a quarrel.
In fact, I think "Sister Lang" is undoubtedly reaping female dividends. As to whether this is positive or derogatory, people with different positions can have different judgments.
What is the essence of this show? It is to define value while on value, and at the same time let you not be afraid to define.
Hehe, both want and want, good things are all occupied.
The first few issues of "Sister Lang" were said to be "ten-year-old nightclub level", with uniform specifications, undifferentiated services, assembly line operation, and pleasing for the sake of pleasure.
But you look at the purpose of people's programs - live wonderfully, without fear of age, after the baptism of years, after experiencing life and career setbacks, how the 30+ sisters get out of trouble, realize women's self-expression, blablabla...
Painstakingly and forcibly on the value.
It seems that they invited some 30+ sisters, 40+ sisters, 50+ sisters.
In fact, they invite 30+ sisters who are maintained like 20+, 40+ but maintained like 20+, and 50+ but maintained like 20+.
In the final analysis, it looks young and good-looking, not much different from her sister.
"The 50+ sister still has smooth skin and zero flaws in the lens, and the curves are tight and flawless, just like a 20-year-old girl", which has become the highlight and selling point of Sister Lang.
So do they really want us to see "fearless age"? What they let us see is "beat the age".
If you really play according to "every age has its beauty", the 50+ sister has spots on her face and is slightly loose, her chest is a little drooping, her butt is not very upturned, and she is not a small waist, so she can't ride the wind and waves.
With the foundation of "breaking through the shackles and not being afraid of age", but built a high-rise building that "only has a way to live against age, and reducing age is king", and finally built a golden roof that "has a look lower than your own age is really excellent", magnificent, ethereal.
The praise has been cheering: "They keep trying to challenge themselves in order to break through themselves"... But you find that no, they are willing to try everything, that is, they must not try to remove makeup, nor can they try to put the normal state of a forty or fifty-year-old woman in front of the camera.
When you see that Gong Linna, who is nearly 50 years old, also has to cooperate with the second dimension to gain the love of young audiences, in fact, you already know what their defined sister should do to have a market - dress tender.
Let's look at the fourth season of this year, which focuses on a "nostalgia".
"Nostalgia" is very meaningful this time.
He also packaged hype for ancient singers such as Wang Xinling and Xu Huaiyu with great fanfare, claiming that they were gathering the common youth of "middle-aged men" in their thirties and forties in the mainland, and taking their "Ye Qing Hui" as a benchmark for success.
Why let their grandfather come back?
This master, why are you old, but I hope that the goddess of your youth will be like back then, and she will be moved by yourself for your "grandpa Qinghui", so you have to maintain the appearance, figure, business level and youthful energy of 20 years ago...
If any sister does not have the same appearance and posture as when she was young, it will be evaluated as: old and ugly, the drama is over.
Now from all kinds of female stars and even ordinary women, they can't wait to maintain a so-called "youthful state" for 20 or 30 years, their professionalism has not improved much, and the concentration of botulinum toxin on their faces is getting higher and higher.
Some people must say: we just want to look good!
That's right, I also like to watch beautiful women, that's very simple, variety shows focus on a good-looking, beautiful, pleasing singing and dancing competition, better than who is younger and beautiful business is over, you don't have to put the value so high, what sisters and sisters, but also put on the banner of feminism.
If you really want to make a worthwhile show, why don't you ask a really material sister like Hong Huang to make a show?
I'm afraid I can't afford it, because there is no capital willing to invest.
What money can a sister with material help capital earn?
They will let us read and learn, we know more and more, our horizons are getting broader and clearer, which is not good for capital.
Only these simple and easy nipple music, intuitive beauty, childishness, advocating medical beauty, plastic surgery, weight loss, shaping, skin rejuvenation, wrinkle removal and whitening, by the way, drive more white and thin Internet celebrities to emerge to consolidate the aesthetic market that capital likes... These are the best money!
This wave of dividends, it is good to cut once or twice, all cut to the fourth stubble, it is not interesting.
Although the front convex and upturned willow waist is beautiful, it is good to be able to sing, jump and twist the waist, but every year is a unified label and standard, it is really not advanced.
Take a look at the different sisters in the big world. The old waist of the sisters is written with the story of the years, plus the old problem when sitting in confinement, every time when bending down and straightening up, it is as elegant as the lightning laces in "Zootopia", you can think that I am not a beauty, but I think you have to be able to instantly lower the waist and open the word without blinking as the standard of a good sister, that is not generous.
I am also quite envious of 20-year-old girls, I am envious that they do not have to bring children and are not afraid of winter and summer vacations, not envious that they will jump alive. So I don't need to be a live and jumping sister at all, is it safe to do it, who gets up at 6 o'clock to make breakfast for the child?
Most of the older sisters did not ride the wind and waves, only the stormy waves, we are not like those sisters in the camera who cater to the camera every day in the professional spa and gym, we mainly cater to the children's school and their own party A.
In reality, 30+ women have very little right to speak, almost all of them are pushed by the times, one will be accused of loving themselves, one will be accused of letting themselves go, one will be accused of plain is true, and one will be accused of never giving up... The sisters, shrouded in the kind glow of a bodhisattva, had high blood pressure.
The standard of women's beauty in this market is ultimately defined by men. But no one has given men a rule that 30+ cannot be topped, 40+ cannot be blessed, and at 50+ the prostate must be as good as 18 years old.
And for 30+ women, the requirements are increasing.
The 30+ woman is a complex species, of course she needs the energy to be excited, but she also has a lazy, degenerate and decadent temperament, and has a taste.
And this show, perfectly packaged, the sisters are goddesses, full of advantages.
yes, who's to say it's bad? After all, ordinary sisters are quite inferior to others, to be unpretentious, to be rich without wealth, to achieve without achievement, and they are generally mediocre.
But that's the problem.
Ordinary people in this world originally lived quite freely, and when there were more people who put on show, ordinary people were not comfortable living.
Because there are always people who are making new standards: wow, you see, such a sister is really a winner in life - excellent body and skin management, wearing "high-class" clothes, very successful career, several specialties, having one or more relationships that have been passed down as good stories, confident and open, not caring about the eyes of others, and very rich...
Ordinary 30+ women are likely to dream of becoming "sisters riding the wind and waves" in the future at the age of 20, marrying love, winning careers, being high-profile in front of people, working hard to move forward after people, and maintaining the peak of life... At the age of 30, they will long to go back to ten years ago, because they find that they have not only not become what they imagined, but even become what they hate, there are often dissatisfaction in life, anxiety about the future, and they are used to living with a smile in chicken feathers, and like most people, they look at young people with envy.
But we can't just emphasize that women should strive for excellence and success, we should also "self-recognize".
Put you on the stage, you can perform a few acrobatics - holding the baby in the left hand, turning the spoon in the right hand, still holding the mobile phone around the neck to discuss the 200 million project with Party A, and at the same time, the child in the toilet, his father, still needs you to send him paper...
Most of the older sisters in life do not have the spotlight, can not wear the size S crop top, but make money to bring the baby, stay up late for a week to work overtime home and still do manual homework for the baby, take the child to the emergency department in the middle of the night and draw a big red lip in the morning to meet the customer, cope with the teachers can also comfort the 200-pound giant baby at home, can drive by themselves for surgery, and can also plan parent-child activities for more than 100 people in minutes. Isn't this called riding the wind and waves? That should be called demonic elimination.
When people reach middle age, they see more gorgeous robes, and everyone should be accustomed to enjoying the pleasure of catching lice alive in each other's robes.
What capital and media dare to put lice catching in the spotlight, that is called positive energy.
"The Mother of Chicken Feathers in a Land" - national audition, each person has a unique job, without heavy samples.
"Children with Skin and Flesh" - tells the real success story of a thousand children who broke the parent-child relationship.
"Dad on the Toilet" - Enter the real world of dad's heart, from the toilet to the distant self-growth.
"Grandma Who Re-reads Primary School" - the inspirational story of this elderly who is more and more courageous and does not give up on themselves.
It also has an inspirational effect on young people, telling them:
1. If nothing else, your future life will be roughly like this.
2. If you want to do better than this, then you have to work harder from now on.
3. But even if your future is like this, it is not a failure, that is, real life, all successful people are nothing more than not disgusted with the current self, and love the current life, and then accidentally live as others envy.
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