Jin Sheng sighed and said that there are three major pleasures in life, drinking wine, drinking tea and talking.
Let's talk about tea today, what do we talk about?
<h1>Architect's short marriage</h1>
In the 1990s, at a depth of about thirty meters in the Indian Ocean, divers found a strange circle with a diameter of about two meters on the bottom of the sea, which was a pattern made of fine sand, with a complex and highly symmetrical texture.
Who built this mysterious circle at the bottom of the sea, could it be aliens?
What exactly is this for?
After years of observation and research by marine biologists, it was clear that this is a nest built by male "narrow-fronted pufferfish"!
The narrow-fronted pufferfish is a tropical fish found in the eastern Indian Ocean and inhabits the seafloor at a depth of 30 meters.
It is this cute little thing, the body length is generally about 21 cm, it is really a small puffer.
In order to marry his daughter-in-law, the narrow-fronted puffer boy used his tail and fins to swim constantly on the bottom of the sea, building a delicate nest, which took a week, during which time, in order to prevent the fine sand from being washed away by the ocean current, the narrow-fronted puffer boy had to work sleeplessly, and after completion, he also placed shells on the nest as a bride price.
If there is a narrow-fronted puffer girl who has a chance to meet this landscape room, it will linger here, at this time, the narrow-fronted puffer boy will swim gracefully and slowly, the two pufferfish are happy to marry, enter the cave room, and after a few seconds, the narrow-fronted puffer bride will leave and will not come back, leaving the narrow-fronted puffer boy to take care of the fish eggs alone.
Every day, the narrow-fronted puffer father loosens the fine sand to breathe the fish eggs, and always remains vigilant to drive away intruders.
After the eggs hatch, the baby narrow-fronted pufferfish will also run away from home to explore their own world, leaving the old narrow-fronted pufferfish alone on the dim seabed.
<h1>Opportunities are always left to those who are prepared</h1>
Some people think that if you have a mansion, you can marry a beautiful wife.
who? Who said that?
It was the gardener bird who lived in Oceania who said these words, and Mr. Gardener Bird's trick of finding a daughter-in-law was even more peculiar.
Mr. Bird, the gardener, will clear a clearing in the forest and then build a nest for marriage proposals with branches.
Life is "moving bricks" day after day, ah, no, picking branches!
Look, pretty. It was named "Courtship Pavilion" by scientists.
When people first discovered this kind of building, it was once thought that women had built it to coax children.
Most of the male birds attract the opposite sex with beautiful feathers or beautiful songs, but the gardener bird is dismissive of this, and people mainly rely on talent!
After mr. Bird, the gardener, built his detached villa, he collected many berries as a dowry, and some perfectionists built a beautiful arch in front of the villa and carpeted it with moss.
Some thoughtful Mr. Gardener Bird, in order to please the gardener bird girl, will go to the nearby park to "steal" some gadgets according to the color of the gardener bird girl's feathers, such as children's small toys, women's hair cards, etc.
It all takes months to get ready.
When everything is ready, Mr. Gardener Bird will lead the Gardener Bird Girl to its mansion for a visit. A mansion is not only an experience of wisdom, but also a manifestation of the owner's physical strength.
Oh, this is a bride price for you!
After the gardener bird girl inspected, she threw a look of approval to Mr. Gardener Bird, suggesting that the two birds could marry Qin and Jin.
It is worth mentioning that the gardener Mr. Bird Villa has a lifespan of up to twenty years!
<h1>Kang Yong's marriage cost</h1>
After talking about flying in the sky and swimming in the water, we finally waited for us to make the final appearance.
Kang Yong of Dawangzhuang in Guandi Temple Town reached the age when he should start a family, and the seven aunts and eight aunts all managed to find him a daughter-in-law.
Kang Yong usually works in the city for decoration, the family's land is planted with fruit trees, served by his parents, the family is diligent and earnest, and life is still good.
The neighbor Hua Aunt introduced an object to Kang Yong, and the two people felt satisfied with each other after meeting.
In the northern countryside, since both sides are satisfied, they have to give gifts to other girls, and the gift money is generally ranging from 10,000 to 50,000. During the period from the time of paying the gift to the wedding, if the boy is unwilling, sorry, the money will not be refunded; if the girl does not want to, the gift must be returned to the man.
When discussing the wedding day, it is necessary to buy three gold for the woman, three gold: wedding rings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets, generally 30,000 yuan, and there are also boys who buy them for girls.
Big gifts generally start from 50,000 pieces, to 200,000 or even more. If the boy is short, the bride price will be more expensive.
If the girl's family does not want a bride price, people around them will guess: "What's the matter?" What's wrong with this girl? Can't get married? ”
If the boy's family does not give the woman a bride price, the people around him will also say: "Every household gives a bride price, everyone does this, your family is so incompetent?" "If your family is not willing to give a bride price, no one will introduce the boy to this family!"
There is no market than the city, the family is like this, you don't give him, you don't want her to want.
Now the man has spent a total of almost 140,000, 24 prayers have been worshipped, and there is still a lot of excitement, that is, the wedding fee.
The change fee, the male parent and the woman's parents have to give, ranging from 2,000 yuan to 10,000 yuan. The number 10001 means one in a thousand, and now most parents on both sides give this number.
The woman's family generally brings the bride price money to the daughter, and there are also some people who buy a car as a dowry, and the bride price is not brought to the daughter by a small number of people.
Speaking of Kang Yong, Kang Yong gave the woman a 10,000 yuan gift, and when she was married, she bought three gold for the girl; she paid a dowry of 100,000 yuan. On the day of the wedding, Kang Yong's parents gave the new daughter-in-law 10,001 yuan to change his mouth, and the parents of the new daughter-in-law also gave Kang Yong 10,001 yuan to change his mouth.
The new daughter-in-law married a car with more than 100,000 yuan, and also bought some daily necessities and household appliances, adding up to 200,000 yuan.
Kang Yong built a three-room two-story building on his homestead, which cost more than 200,000 yuan in the countryside.
Kang Yong's daughter-in-law added a big fat boy to him the following year, and Kang Yong's parents-in-law gave the little grandson a gift of 20,000 yuan.
At present, the conditions and teaching quality of rural schools are not as good as in the cities, and some young people have bought houses in the cities in order to let their children get a better education.
There are also many young people who stay in big cities to work hard, some men buy houses to pay a down payment, and husband and wife jointly repay loans; some women are responsible for decorating and marrying cars; there are also men who have good conditions and buy houses in full; there are various situations that cannot be generalized.
<h1>Whether it is flying in the sky, swimming in the water, or we humans, all these actions stem from the love and perseverance of life! </h1>