Today I will tell you an example.
It has been almost two years since she broke up with her ex, and she has talked about several objects during this period, but the shadow of her ex has always been in her mind and cannot be completely erased.
On that day, she received a happy post, it was from her ex.
"He got married so soon," she felt a little unhappy in her heart.
After thinking about it, she still decided to go to his wedding, after all, it was the only way she saw him, and it had been a long time since she remembered it.
On the wedding day, she saw him, so handsome, and the girl next to her smiled like a flower, just like herself back then.
After the wedding, she suddenly felt that she had let go, and soon after, she also found her love, and did not think of him before.
Wuyue said
Predecessor, this relationship is a lot of people, and it is also a group of people that many people do not want to face again.
When an ex is married, under normal circumstances, the ex will not send happy posts, and most of the people who send happy posts are also ill-intentioned.
Especially those who left unhappiness in the previous relationship want to raise their eyebrows through the wedding.
Many people, who receive a happy post from their ex, generally choose not to go, because it is a troublesome thing to think about.
But sometimes, going to the wedding of your ex is precisely the fast knife that you get rid of the past and say goodbye to your ex, the straw that crushes the last relationship.
epilogue
For the last relationship, why do some people always drag on for a long time and have not got rid of it.
In a word: not dead!
In other words: still holding on to hope!
To cure the disease, you must cure the root, since you are not dead, then find a way to make yourself dead.
Going to the ex's wedding must be very embarrassing, but the more embarrassing, the more you can enhance your disgust and increase your motivation to escape.
Look at the new pair on the stage, what hope can you old man have, just die!
Therefore, if you really can't forget it, but you are troubled, it is better to take a dose of strong medicine.