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Text|White Face Shujie
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Because of a photo, Zhu Yawen walked on the dangerous building of "human design collapse".
A few days ago, a makeup artist posted a photo on social platforms with the text:
"Does anyone envy! It's nice to be hugged by a star. ”
The original intention of the photo is to reflect the approachability of the big star.
Unexpectedly, it let the media drill into the void.
Under their description, Zhu Yawen became a "hypocrite" who was unfaithful and self-loving.
But is that really the case?
The answer is clearly not necessarily.
After all, for many years since his debut, Zhu Yawen has been conscientious.
Not to mention feelings, even career rarely has criticism.
The reason why he was targeted this time was that he was too honest.
01
Acquaintance comes from filming, and love comes from chance.
In 2009, in the crew of "Love in the Vast Earth", Zhu Yawen met Shen Jiani.
Recalling the first time they met, he used "angel" to describe her as the original.
During the shooting, Zhu Yawen fell ill because of the water and soil.
Teased like him.
In order not to affect the overall progress, he mixes several medicines every time he takes medicine and then eats them together.
Not to mention the danger, it is also complicated.
Seeing this, Shen Jiani gave him the small pill boxes she carried, and intimately labeled each pillbox.
It was such a small act that opened Zhu Yawen's heart.
So, he began to pay attention to her and slowly approached her.
Peek at her acting.
Discuss the script and performance with her.
In the day and night relationship, the friendship between the two is directly sublimated into love.
Three years later, the two entered the marriage hall as promised.
In front of a group of relatives and friends, he said with a happy face:
"The happiest thing in my life is to know Shen Jiani, and the most correct thing is to marry Shen Jiani, as long as my heart beats one day, I will love her for one day."
That's what he said, and that's what he did.
During her heartfelt travels, he proposed to her, and in order to keep her from regrets, he searched all over Paris to find a unique ring.
At the peak of his career, he was asked:
Will you regret getting married so early?
He smiled and said:
Regret, regret meeting my wife so late.
Some people say that marriage is a consumable item, and once it starts, patience will eventually be exhausted.
But obviously, this sentence does not hold true at all in Zhu Yawen.
Consistent.
Unswerving.
His wife was pregnant, and in order to let her rest better, he pushed off his work and took the initiative to take over a series of tasks such as breastfeeding, coaxing the baby to sleep, and changing diapers.
After that, in order to have both fish (life) and bear paw (career), he simply bought an RV.
His wife and daughter were resting in the RV, and he was working hard outside.
If there is nothing to do, show affection on social platforms, so that netizens have eaten enough dog food.
"Three pains and seven itches, ten years of pity! Love you @Shen Jiani"
"Three pains, seven itches, ten years of love."
Happy?
Undoubtedly.
It's just a pity that Cheng also loves his wife, and defeat also loves his wife.
Because the "pampering persona" is too deep-rooted, he will set fire to the slightest bit of wind and grass.
02
Liu Haocun's birthday the year before last cannot be described as pompous.
The person who celebrates his birthday is the well-known director Zhang Yimou;
"Uncle Circle Male God" Zhang Yi;
and "walking hormones" Zhu Yawen.
The "Big Three" gathered together to celebrate the birthday of the new little flower.
The banquet venue is small, but cozy.
Without the camera, they are no longer high-ranking stars, just ordinary people who enjoy life wantonly.
The banquet heroine was touched to cry and laugh.
Obviously, this birthday means a lot to Liu Haocun.
But what is surprising is that Zhu Yawen fell into public opinion because of this.
The video was exposed, and public opinion was one-sided.
The comments were all clear, all of them were scolding Zhu Yawen.
Why?
Because he crossed the line.
Looking around, the other stars present kept a safe distance, only he hugged Liu Haocun.
As a result, public opinion was in an uproar.
Some netizens criticized:
"Not keeping male morality."
"It's weird to have a wife like this."
Some netizens questioned:
"Do you have to shield the candle from the wind like this... Why look weird, even if it is not XSR, it is a little too ambiguous. ”
Although fans came forward to explain afterwards, saying that he was only trying to prevent the candle from going out.
But netizens still don't adhere to it.
Even turned over old accounts.
In the early days, Zhu Yawen and Ma Yili collaborated on a drama called "Beishang Guang Don't Believe in Tears".
Anyone who has known this drama knows that in this drama, the two of them play a hidden couple in the office.
The office romance is not the point, the point is the intimate scenes between the two of them in this drama.
Only 4 episodes aired, and eight passionate scenes were sent.
The scale is against the sky, and it is even dubbed by netizens:
This is Ma Yili's best revenge on the article.
Then again, although it is too explicit, it is all for the sake of art, and it can be understood.
But what makes the public scratch their heads is that the two people offline still do not avoid suspicion.
Left hand Ma Yili, right hand Shen Jiani.
Such a borderless behavior directly put him on the cusp of public opinion.
Thus, the following situation occurs.
Zhu Yawen: No comment.
Shen Jiani: No comment.
Netizen: No!
It's not that Shen Jiani was PUA, but where we can't see, he gave her enough security.
03
"Outside the door is work, and inside the door is home, which cannot be destroyed no matter what."
This is what Zhu Yawen said in a show.
Externally, he has been dedicated to him for decades, and externally, he has never hidden his deep affection.
Other artists are afraid that female fans will be sad and use all means to hide their romance.
And he did the opposite.
Confession in public in the program:
If life can be done again, then my choice is still Shen Jiani.
Attend events, attend parties, carry rings and talk about being married no matter what you do.
On a variety show, because he lost the game, he was fined for hugging Wu Xin with a princess.
As soon as the words fell, he immediately refused.
Teacher He on the side quipped:
"Do you dislike Wu Xin Fat?"
He smiled and shook his head:
"I'm married."
As we all know, it is common for variety shows to laugh, even if it is a little physical contact with the opposite sex on stage.
But he didn't, labeling himself "married" to prevent the beginning of all scandals.
Another time, the host asked him to talk on the spot.
The audience strongly recommended Haitao, but the host was afraid that he would not be emotional enough, so he asked him if he wanted to change a female partner.
After all, men and women are not tired of working together.
And he said:
No, I am safe if you choose Haitao.
In his own words:
Whether it's a wave or sexy, my love words only belong to Shen Jiani from beginning to end, even if it is a show.
In addition to avoiding suspicion, Zhu Yawen's biggest sense of security for his wife is respect.
Hands over economic power.
Every time he takes on a play, he will show the script to his wife for the first time.
She thinks it can, he will act, she said no, even if the script is good, he will not act.
It is often said that a good marriage should be a two-way rush and a game with a benign response.
Indeed, it is this respect of Zhu Yawen that makes her willing to give up her career and retire behind the scenes as the woman behind him.
"Although you run wildly, I will always keep an eye on you, but I will not affect the direction you run."
Spare no effort to help him grow, is Shen Jiani's best feedback to Zhu Yawen.
Up to now, the two have been in love for ten years.
No gossip, no quarrels.
Although the career is not too prosperous, having such a marriage has made many people out of reach.
It is worth noting that the female stars who marry love in the circle are not only Shen Jiani.
For example, Ying Caier.
Her husband Chen Xiaochun, like Zhu Yawen, could not accommodate a second woman in his eyes.
Don't pay attention to girls, only eat with boys.
Even if you are filming on the beach where there are many beautiful women, you only play with dogs.
Sounds outrageous.
But there is no denying that this is indeed the case.
"I have a friend who broke the news that when he went to the island to film, the beautiful women around him were still wearing bikinis, Brother Chun was so fun, he only concentrated on playing with dogs."
One talks on stage, and the other is spoiled offstage.
It's really enviable.
For example, Bao Lei.
and Lu Yi from school uniform to wedding dress.
Although she returned to the family after marriage, only Lu Yi was left to fight outside.
But after so many years, in the entertainment industry full of beautiful women, he is still a clear stream.
No matter how many beautiful women your partner has, how many women you have seen who are younger and better than their wives, there is still no scandal.
With the most flowery face, do the most favorite thing, it is probably Lu Yi.
Wu Jing, too.
With the most ruthless face, say the softest words.
On the surface, he is a man with iron bones, but in fact, he is a complete wife slave.
When they first met, she was a well-known host, and he was only a marginal figure in the entertainment industry.
Fame or status, in short, they are all very different.
But she got married.
He also gambled his entire net worth for his career.
We all know what happened later.
Wu Jing was on fire and doubled his worth.
It is said that men become bad when they have money, but Wu Jing is not, even if he is red, he is still the same for Xie Nan.
Come out with clean hands.
Actively avoid suspicion.
It is still the original "wife slave".
Good love will make you younger and younger.
Truly.
Observing the three women Shen Jiani, Bao Lei, and Xie Nan, you will find that what they have in common is:
The girl is full of feelings, and she can't tell that she is the mother of several children.
It really makes people sigh:
It turns out that a happy marriage can really make people grow backwards.
epilogue
Men with boundaries will give women the greatest sense of security, and those without boundaries will hurt women the most.
Obviously, Zhu Yawen is the former.
In this era of using scandals as gimmicks to seek benefits for himself, Zhu Yawen has always been himself.
Love and protect your wife and daughter, and film seriously.
Zhu Yawen, a well-deserved good man.