In the stage of student growth, every detail can not be let go, a little inattention, may lead to the student's growth deviation, and after the formation of want to change, it is no help.
As the saying goes, "poor sons, rich daughters", boys should exercise the spirit of bearing hardships and standing hard from an early age, and daughters should broaden their horizons from an early age and have a rich spiritual world in order to grow up more healthily. But some parents do not understand the reasoning, and the education method is even more unflattering.
When students were young, the age of students was still young, and self-control over entertainment, snacks, etc., can be said to be almost zero, as long as there is money in hand, they will not hesitate to spend it, and some parents will control students' consumption standards in order to prevent students from buying and spending indiscriminately.
The girl thinks that 5 yuan pocket money is too little, and her mother complains that she has learned badly, netizens: enough to buy a bowl to join the gang!
Students should indeed cultivate financial awareness and be able to develop the concept of reasonable consumption when they are young, but some parents are a little too "excessive" in limiting students' consumption.
A parent posted on the Internet to complain: "Is it enough to go out and play and give my daughter 5 yuan?" "My daughter is in the second year of junior high school, and I will go out with my classmates once a month, and every time my mother gives my daughter 5-10 yuan, obviously I will be very happy before, but this time I have a different idea.
After going out with classmates and coming back, and my mother said that 5 yuan of pocket money was too little, they were made fun of by classmates, and parents not only did not think about it, but also scolded the girl, in my mother's opinion, such a small girl went out to buy only some spicy snacks, how could it be enough to spend just a few cents.
The daughter's disgust made the mother feel that her daughter was learning badly outside, and also posted on the Internet to ask for resonance, but unfortunately the resonance did not get, but it was unanimously complained by netizens. Some netizens said: enough to spend, enough to buy a bowl to join the gang.
Some netizens said: What kind of era is this problem, not 03 years, not 23 years. In the author's opinion, 5 yuan is really nothing at today's prices, and if parents want to save such money from their children, it is really unnecessary.
Girls who have been stumped by money since childhood will do anything for money when they grow up, and parents should not be impressed
Especially for junior high school students, parents should pay more attention to students' emotional changes and psychological changes, students' self-esteem is worth parents' attention, the girl is already a second year of junior high school students, consumption standards should also be with the increase of age, but not a candy in kindergarten can be happy for half a day.
What's more, kindergarten children now have a lot of requirements, and under the influence of such a long time, students will become more and more inferior, more sensitive, form a more serious comparison psychology, in order to be able to be like other students, will rebel, will do more serious things.
Middle school students themselves are changing with age, their hearts are also changing, have their own ideas and personality, at this stage parental guidance is very important, if parents can not meet the requirements of students, it is likely to be deceived because of a little favor.
Parents should learn the truth of raising a daughter, not to give a lot of money, after all, not all families have enough capital, but the most basic requirements must be met, to be willing to invest in students.
Girls who have been stumped on money since childhood, will do anything because of money when they grow up, parents really don't take it seriously, they must correctly view the problem of students spending money, and do not use their own ideas and standards to measure students' standards.
If students are really generous, they can choose the right education method, let students understand the difficulty of making money, and help students develop the good habit of reasonable consumption, rather than accusing students in a preaching way, or restricting students in extreme ways.
The mental health of middle school students cannot be ignored, parents are the key factor, and the way of education determines the fate of students
Parents are the first teachers of students, educational concepts and methods, is the key to determine the fate of students in the future, parents must learn to reflect, rather than arbitrarily think that their way is correct.
The way of education in different eras should also be changed, just like the mother in the text, if 5 yuan is placed 00 years ago, it must be a huge amount of money, but now it is estimated that no one on the ground is willing to pick it up, too cheap.
The mental health problems of junior high school students can not be ignored, students at this stage are the stage of good face, self-esteem is very strong, the most afraid is to be ridiculed by classmates, and classmates are significantly different, which will cause students to become withdrawn, autistic and inferior.
Parents should always pay attention to the psychological changes of students, find problems and solve problems in time, be able to think differently, look at problems from the perspective of students, rather than consider with adult thinking, small things in the eyes of parents are big things in the eyes of students, and not thinking is the second harm to students, and it is also the most serious injury.
【Author's Note】
Parents have high expectations and hopes for students to "hope for a child into a dragon, hope for a daughter to become a phoenix", but students grow into real talents, is to need parents correct education methods and guidance, if the parents' education methods are wrong, how can students become talents, the key is that some parents themselves are a "loser", but also use self-righteous educational concepts to force students, according to their own way of thinking and requirements, ignorance and self-awareness is the most pathetic.
Topic: Do you think the 5 yuan pocket money for middle school students is enough?
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