There is a heart-piercing fact that many people overlook, including myself.
Often, I find that others are not good at this, that is not right, I feel that their words and deeds are wrong, and in terms of moral cultivation and pattern realm, they are really below me.
Later, I finally understood that they were not wrong, it was me who was at fault. I'm not better than them at all, or even worse than them.
In previous years, I took the train back to Datong from Beijing again and again. When the train arrived in Datong, it was almost midnight. The station was only two kilometers from my house, and the taxi driver was too close to take me back. I secretly resented their poor service. Just make money for yourself, regardless of whether the traveler lives or dies.
Actually, taxi drivers are also hard. Originally, they were supposed to lie in bed in the middle of the night and dream, but in order to support their families, they were forced to wait for the passenger car against the cold wind. When you meet travelers who travel far away, you can earn some money; When I meet short-haul travelers like me, they are almost in vain.
On the surface, they thought I was going to a place close to me, but in fact they thought I paid less. I always thought that the customer is God, and the driver should serve the customer unconditionally and enthusiastically.
However, I did not expect that, like me, drivers need to earn money to raise their children, support their parents, and develop their careers, forgetting that they need to provide for their children's education, help their children buy a house, and take their parents to enjoy the beautiful scenery in the distance. Since I am God, I should be considerate of them, give love, pay a little more, warm them, and be happy with myself.
After all, give someone roses and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands. Regrettably, I didn't.
Last year, I moved into a new house. My sister came to Datong to visit me by high-speed train from Yuncheng and got off at Datong South Station. Datong South Station is also close to my new house. Taxis queued up to pick up passengers, and it took a long time for my sister and I to get into the bus.
Hearing that the distance was close, the driver said in a joking tone: "I have to run for nothing again." "I am happy to see my sister, she is happy. In order not to disappoint and disappoint the driver, I offered to give him some more fare.
Do not do unto others what you do not want is easier said than done. It can be concluded that more than 99 percent of the population is full and does not know how hungry and hungry.
In theory, I can talk and talk endlessly. In real life, however, the books I read are of little use. I am not kind enough, not compassionate enough. When I had no worries about food and clothing, I forgot about others but I couldn't eat enough and dress warmly.
Every time the famous writer Mo Yan returns by plane from a business trip, he has to take an hour or two of taxi to get home.
But in fact, his daughter's home is near the airport, but he has always been close to the distance.
To this he explains:
"My daughter's house is really close. But the master who finally received the order must be uncomfortable in his heart when he saw that he was a short-distance customer. ”
Even when he went to his daughter's house, Mo Yan would stuff a pack of Chinese cigarettes to the master as soon as he got into the car.
Then he apologized again: I'm sorry, very close.
The driver took the cigarette and delivered Mo Yan to his destination with a smile along the way.
A person's greatest charm: speaking gracefully, doing things with warmth, and being graceful.