This afternoon, I went back to my hometown and met Ah Shui. She also went back to her hometown to visit her parents.
After we left our hometown, we didn't see each other for almost 20 years. We sat together and talked about the past.
Ah Shui is a beautiful woman in our area, and when she was a child, her family had good conditions. There are many people who pursue her, but I don't know why she didn't agree.
Ah Shui's parents are close relatives married, and her brother is a little weaker than ordinary people. But since her father would do some side business, the family conditions were very good in the countryside at that time! But her brother's marriage has not been going well. Anyway, there are always quarrels at home. In order to get rid of gossip at home. (His brother's wife doesn't love his brother, but wants to share his family's money.) She is also pregnant with someone else's child, and fraudulent marriage is not excluded. So when she works outside, she avoids problems in her native family. She herself talked about a husband who was good to her at the time. Trivial matters after marriage also caused quarrels. Thinking that he would marry far away, he would also be wronged, and his husband was not coaxed. Divorced in a fit of anger!
The second marriage was a local divorced man. After a few dull days, the mother-in-law is not a fuel-saving lamp. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war, the husband who has nothing to do, did not solve the contradiction between the two women, but felt that she was vexatious. Then he never returned at night, lingering in the gentle country of her people.
Ah Shui is very good to his son, his second brother and his ex-wife's son. Even her eldest brother scolded her mother and brother for not being a thing. Good family does not cherish.
If the marriage is unreliable, then try to make money. On the way to earn money, I met someone who loved each other all my life. However, because of their age, it is difficult to have children of their own. Don't know if you want to continue this marriage?
So she said, the order of appearance in life is too important. If the first marriage, it is not that you are young and insensible. Now I don't let others look at myself in color-changing glasses.
Every encounter is a teacher and can teach a lot of things. When you want to turn back, you can no longer find yourself disappearing in the vast sea of people! It can also be regarded as a festival for my youth!
Time is medicine, teaching us many wordless truths, curing many of our spiritual diseases, and making us physically and mentally at ease.
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