In life, there are many encounters and many partings.
It is impossible to say for sure if anyone has been with us all the time, but it is certain that many people will walk and scatter.
Whether it is a child, classmates, colleagues, friends, lovers, even if they have the same goal and walk on the same road at the beginning, they may eventually go in different directions and start different lives.
Why is that? In fact, the reason is not complicated, but people have different aspirations and choices.
When we walked together, we laughed and laughed all the way, not knowing what it was like to part. Until one day, there was a fork in the road, and the people accompanying them had their own ideas and choices, so they waved goodbye and said goodbye for the rest of their lives.
Convergence and dispersion, the norm of life. If there is no separation, what is the joy of gathering, what is the meaning of the union?
Perhaps, we should all look down on dispersion and understand that this is an inevitable process in life. In this way, we can be less entangled and sentimental, and more calm and calm.
I know that if you want to be light, but happy, but sad, you need a high realm, and most people are sad while moving forward silently.
If you are a person who is very nostalgic, you will often reminisce about the past, nostalgia for the past, those who have traveled with you, will still make you laugh and make you cry.
Like yesterday I swiped a street shot video from 2008, the music is the familiar old song "Wait a Minute".
Watching the video and listening to the music, my mind suddenly went back to fifteen years ago, when there were no smartphones, naturally there were no low-headed people, and the streets were full of people, busy, and vibrant.
Looking back on some of the things that happened that year, some of the people I met that year were really emotional.
Time makes everything that has happened, happy and sad, a story.
Time also makes everyone who meets, regardless of the depth of friendship, become passers-by.
Now I can neither go back to the past, nor can I meet those people again, everything will be hidden in the years, and there will be no trace.
In the first half of life, it is doing addition. Constantly contact new things, meet new friends, enter new circles, so I feel that the world is very prosperous and life is very exciting.
And the second half of life is doing subtraction. Constantly giving up some things, such as unattainable dreams, love without a future, meaningless socializing, will also continue to separate from many people, slowly, live themselves as minimalists, living the most unpretentious life.
Of course, there will always be some people around us, from the beginning to the present, who have always been with us and will always be with us in the future. Such people are the most precious and must be cherished.
And those who are separated in the middle do not have to feel regrets. Everyone has their own life trajectory, and it is already a great fate to meet each other and walk together. If you are separated, if you are separated, then you will be safe and happy.
Gathering and dispersing, life is normal, accepting separation, cherishing companionship, is what we should do the most.